proudmamma1

@proudmamma1 (40)

United States • Age 34

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Am I getting too late for getting married?

ajithlal @ajithlal (14716) • India 11 Dec 07

I am around 28 years old. I am planning to get married in the next year or the year next. Am I getting too late for married? Which is the ideal age for getting married? I am planning to make some savings and try to settle down...

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proudmamma1 I dont think it matter how old you are. If you arent ready your not ready. I would wait if thats what your gut is telling you but if your gut is telling you to go for it then do so i would do whats best and what you think is right for you

11 Jan 08

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at what age do you think is it best to get married?

bianx21 @bianx21 (339) • Philippines 30 Dec 07

i was just wondering...at what age is it the best to settle down? how do you know if the man/woman you are with right now is the one you're gonna spend the rest of your life with? i think the best age to settle down is beyond...

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proudmamma1 I agree with you I don't think age has anything to do with if your ready to get married is just depends on if you've found the right person and its hard to figure that out but if you think your ready then go for it but if something seems to be holding you back...

11 Jan 08

waking up to thunder and lighting

TerryZ @TerryZ (22076) • United States 11 Jan 08

Thats how I woke up this morning to very loud thunder which I dont like. Im afraid of lighting so of course I couldnt get back to sleep. So here I am at 6:00 in the morning. Are you afraid of thunder and lighting? And what do you...

thunder and lighting

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proudmamma1 Thunder and lighting doesnt bother me unless its so bad that it wakes me up and then i hate it, but thats only happend once when i was sleeping i thought someone was taking pictures that how bright the flash was and i was so confussed cuz we lived in an up...

11 Jan 08

Which is right and which is wrong?

dreamertink @dfollin (25459) • United States 11 Jan 08

Let me start from the begining of my story to explain what I mean.When I was 18 I was engaged and got pregnant.We had an off and on relationship and when our son was 6 months old he left us,no communication since and our son is...

wright or wrong

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proudmamma1 I don't think it was wrong to get married there just trying to be difficult like always. They try everything to get out of helping people. It makes me so mad when you need the help you have kids and are trying to provide for them but they arent going to give...

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There's Nothing Worse Than A Cold Shower!

dfinster @dfinster (3528) • United States 11 Jan 08

Today my husband had a day of vacation so he was home this morning when I got up. Now when I get up in the morning I have my own routine that I do every single morning without fail. I get up, turn on the coffe, take care of the...

am routine

cold shower

yikes

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proudmamma1 I do not think it is strange you only take to minutes my cousin takes like 5. With me i like to take my time and enjoy my shower but my boyfriend know if he stays home he either askes me if i'm going to take one or he wait untill the night to take one cuz i...

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What are you so proud of??

II2aTee @II2aTee (2559) • United States 2 Jan 08

I want to share with you all a few things in my life that bring me joy, and a few things I am proud of. Then I want to hear from you! Ok, I'll get us started. I'm proud to be a red head. When I was a kid I hated it but...

life

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proudmamma1 to keep this short and simple i'm proud of graduating early from high school and going straight to college, for running away and getting out of the situation i was in, and for having my son, thats all i feel like typing but there is lots more i'm proud of

2 Jan 08

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Why do women assume men think the same way they do?

uath13 @uath13 (8192) • United States 26 Dec 07

I've seen to many cases where women who are struggeling in their relationship think that having a kid will help fix it. I've even participated in a discussion where the woman knew the guy she was seeing was a self centered jerk....

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proudmamma1 In most relationships i've seen having a baby only makes the matter worse. No not all women think that having a baby will fix thing i believe the only ones who think that are the ones who arent ready to give up one the man they have already lost. it kind of...

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Women should have no rights!!

chunkers @chunkers (1050) • United States 13 Dec 06

Women should stay at home, stay pregnant, do as they are told, and mind their own business (which is cleaning, cooking, having chidren, changing diapers, and satisfying her husband whenever he wants it)! What have you got to...

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proudmamma1 I do not think that is the way it should be. that is totally stupid. everyone should be treated equaly no matter the gender. my bf is hispanic and in mexico thats the way a lot of the men are they believe that the women needs to do everything for the man and...

2 Jan 08

Parental Rights

tibbler @tibbler (229) • United States 1 Jan 08

A man meets a women & gets her pregnant. After the baby is born he says that he can not see the baby. He all so says that he has no Parental rights since his name is not on the Birth Certificate. What can he do now..?

rights

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proudmamma1 that not really true he should have rights even though he isnt on the birth certificate. Theres a way that he can get on the baby's birth certificate if he wanted to all he would have to do is call a hospital to check into it and go from there

2 Jan 08

Is there a time you have been denied benifites from the state for medical ect.

proudmamma1 @proudmamma1 (40) • United States 2 Jan 08

I'm just wondering cuz it really fraustates me when you go into a DHS office and turn in all your paper to get a letter in the mail saying you have been denied, because of various reasons but then you see all these homeless drug...

rights

girls paying the bills for date..?

zer0charly @zer0charly (5614) • Philippines 28 Mar 07

Should the girl pay for or share the bill once in a while or should it always be the guy?ahuh!when a guy ask for a date,i think he should be the one who'll pay for the bill..but if it is planned by the both of you, I guess,Girl...

dating

paying bills

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proudmamma1 I think a guy should pay but every once in awhile it wouldnt hurt for the girl to pay. so i doesnt look like she expects him to pay all the time.

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Father Accused of killing his pregnant daughter

Tatsuya @Tatsuya (1149) • United States 2 Jan 08

A suburban Chicago man is accused of setting an apartment fire -- killing his pregnant daughter, her husband and their young child -- because the son-in-law didn't ask permission for the marriage, prosecutors said. Subhash...

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proudmamma1 that is crazy but a lot of religios are like that they must ask the father before preposing to a lady. that sad a father could to that to his own daughter and grandchild

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Should one keep suffering when a relationship has gone sour ?

ketybhagat @ketybhagat (4123) • India 2 Jan 08

My best friend has a very bad marriage. He is a very soft spoken man with infinite kindness. However he landed into a marriage with a bullying wife. He is suffering like hell, but all these years he carried on for the sake of his...

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proudmamma1 I think its time he puts his foot down. a person can only go through so much

2 Jan 08

what do you all think

proudmamma1 @proudmamma1 (40) • United States 2 Jan 08

Just wanted to know what you all thought about the laws they are coming up with against the hispanics. I think some of them are so stupid but my boyfriend is hispanic so it affects use in a way. but just wanted your thoughts and...

laws

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proudmamma1 I don't have links i've been hearing it on the new maybe it not for every state I live in oregon and they are really cracking down on things. the main one i've been hearing about the last few days is about licenes hispanic have to have proof of a valid ssn and...

2 Jan 08

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Are you jealous?

megumiart @megumiart (3771) • United States 8 Dec 07

Do you get jealous if your ex gets with another person? I don't get jealous if I was the one that broke up with my partner, but if it were vice versa I might get envious. :P

relationships

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proudmamma1 I really don't know how i would act or feel cuz i've had one boyfriend in like 9th grade and i broke up with him and laughed in his face and then I have my boyfriend who i'm with know and we've been together for 3yrs. I dont see my self getting jealous i would...

2 Jan 08

jealousy

ivzgrace @ivzgrace (101) • Philippines 2 Jan 08

is jealous a sign of love or not?

love

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proudmamma1 I dont think jealousy is a sign of love at all cuz if someone gets to jealouse that could lead other things I think it is the beginning of a bad relationship. thats just my opinion

2 Jan 08

ungrateful people.....

elemental69 @elemental69 (1561) • Ireland 1 Jan 08

I'm sorry all but I have to have a rant about this. There are so many people in the world that dont have much. I am one of them. Myself and my husband always put our kids first and we often have to do without a lot of things. A...

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proudmamma1 I totally agree with that when i was living with my parents and they were still together my brother and i would only get what we needed cuz my dad would give my mom what ever she wanted so now that i'm on my own and know whast its like to get only the bare...

2 Jan 08

what do you all think

proudmamma1 @proudmamma1 (40) • United States 2 Jan 08

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How many icecreams do u eat in a day?

b4u400 @b4u400 (152) • India 7 Nov 07

minimum i will eat ten icecreama.

how

many

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proudmamma1 it really depends on if i'm really craving it or not cuz if i'm craving it i'll eat some after breakfast then at lunch then dinner so about three times in a day sometimes

31 Dec 07