People are starting to frustrated in MyLot..?!
By nitaqqsabil
@nitaqqsabil (280)
Indonesia
December 28, 2007 5:20am CST
IS IT REALLY HAPPENING?
I found few discussions in MyLot saying that they starting to get bored and frustrated in MyLot.
- There are some saying that they get frustrated because they feel like they have the obligation to answer some lame and un-interesting topic, coz they would feel bad for letting a discussion with no responds. Or the other way around, they feel frustrated when they found a good discussion with no responds.
- Some of them saying that they bored with the nice topic and language that people always put and use in their posts. They feel like people just saying it, but they didn't truly mean it. Like people are faking it, they just did it for good credits. And it feels like MyLot isn't real anymore.
- Some say, most of the discussion in MyLot are fake. They create stories to get a lot of responds and a few money and some others are having objection about fake discussion. Again. they feel like it's unreal.
And I really did found those discussion. There's no fake about it.
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15 responses
@hopejordan (3561)
• Australia
28 Dec 07
hi there nitaqqsabil
i am not frustrated with mylot at all and i don't make up stories either they are all from my head and i got payment from them 2 weeks ago i recieved $10 but i am here for both make friends and earn people just complain for nothing so i don't care what people say if they think like that's there problem but dont say we are all like that cause not all of us are like that thanks for this discussion and happy postings and happy new year for 2008
@nitaqqsabil (280)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 07
I didn't say that all the people in MyLot are getting frustrated. But based on the discussions that I found, and those discussions get a lot of response saying that they agree with that. So I guess I was just curious about it.
Thanks for your comment. SMILE
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@Sillychick (3275)
• United States
28 Dec 07
If people are that frustrated and unhappy, why are they still here? I don't respond to any discussion simply because I feel bad that there are no responses. I respond only when I see a discussion that is interesting to me, whether serious or fun, and I have something meaningful to add. If these people are that dissatisfied, they need to stop complaining and either do something in an attempt to improve things, or find another forum. There are days when I am here a lot, and find lots of discussions to which I can contribute, and other days I find few or none. I don't mind that. I take it as it comes.
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@nitaqqsabil (280)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 07
I also have the same thought. They even still put the post in MyLot.
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@sreejithsreenivas (10200)
• India
29 Dec 07
I am not frustrated in mylot.When i first joineD i mylot,there was only 15000 members and i joined here to improve my communication skill.Here we can meet people from different coners of the world.You can see fake everywhere not only in mylot.I think it is a waste of time to think about such matters.If you take any chatting site,many people are log in with false identity and cheating the people and lot of bad activities are going in such sites.Compare to such site,mylot is better and best.
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@nitaqqsabil (280)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 07
Maybe that's why you have 6294 for your points. That amazing. And I completely agree about Mylot as a very good site.
@CoffeeAnyone (3210)
• Canada
29 Dec 07
Each to their own; if people are bored they need to move unto something that doesn't bore them. Or maybe they are the kind of people that get bored easily and nothing can entertain them for to long. So be it!
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@nitaqqsabil (280)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 07
You are so right about that. But until now I still don't feel bored at all here in Mylot.
@adforme (2114)
•
28 Dec 07
Hello nitaqqsabil,
I guess it depends on your outlook. I am a very opinionated person; and I love having the ability to express myself. I have gotten at least one response to all my discussions and I do appreciate the "pennies for my thoughts" he he. Maybe some discussions and responses are not sincere; but it really is up to the person to choose whether they will waste their time and their words for whatever reason. All you have to do, is find a discussion/topic you can relate to and say the way you feel. Simple. I feel you are a very sincere person nitaqqsabil and I will look for people like you to have discussions with. Take Care.
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@nitaqqsabil (280)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 07
That is very true. As it for me, I found that Mylot is very interesting, not only poeple can make friends but also they can get to interact with one another and I think that's a very good thing
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@nengs10 (3180)
• Philippines
28 Dec 07
Mylot had been very blessed to have more and more members. Well, we should also be proud of this development. For one, we are also the ones who invited these people here. Mylot is a community where people enjoy chatting to each other. Let's just think positive.
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
28 Dec 07
It can be frustrating, but I take it and just keep going. I do know plenty of my discussions aren't "interesting" (/facepalm /disgust -_-), but I also have plenty of quick news discussions and other fun topics (some of which said bored people don't even consider). No one should feel obligated to respond, and at least a few people can admit if a friend's discussion is way out there. Other "friends" however reap some response benefit from their friends list but are never found in other discussions. Fine, everyone's here for what they want and that includes me. Like I keep saying, I'll just keep on.
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@suehan1 (4344)
• Australia
28 Dec 07
i suppose with a site as big as mylot you are going to get people who grumble about one thing or another.you can not please everyone.i suppose some people would make up stories and fake it just to get good credits.thats probably going to happen on any site you go to.i think you just have to judge for yourself and respond to those discussions you want to respond to and ignore the ones you feel are fake.anyway i still really enjoy mylot,i like the serious,funny and sometimes lame posts.i know you did find those posts as i have seen some also.just enjoy and when you stop enjoying move on.cheers sue
@nitaqqsabil (280)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 07
I think I'm still include as a new member, and I still enjoy MyLot very much..
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@ghatozkat (153)
• Nepal
28 Dec 07
Well, whatever you have said is true for almost 80% of the posts here.Because,people know they will get money for posting,they are attracted towards posting replies for some foreign discussions,and even starting a discussion that doesn't make much sense.
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@nitaqqsabil (280)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 07
I also found a discussion saying that a man that gets a late period. I don't know is that just about wrong typing or fake dicussion.
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@aidenofthetower (1814)
• United States
28 Dec 07
Everyone is entitled to their opinion.
-I am sure there are some who make up stories and posts and such. After all, there are some here just for the money, I on the other hand think that trying to make money here is way too hard to do and isn't worth the time and effort one has to have in order to make it. However, I do enjoy participating and will continue to do so at least on some level.
-I am sure that there are people who feel like they have to respond to those with no responses, I am not one of them. If I have something to say, I say it, if I don't, I keep my mouth shut. On the other hand, if I find a good discussion with no responses, I have no ill feelings.
-I think that everyone being nice here is a great thing, even if some think it is fake. After all, here is a place you should be able to come in share, and walk away not feeling abused because someone has a difference of opinion or thinks ill of you.
I hope that myLot continues to get better and better, but it will probably require more money for great posts for that to happen.
@nitaqqsabil (280)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 07
I couldn't agree with you. And also hope that Mylot always getting better and I can get more money and more friends.
@signorpetho (379)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 07
Hmmm... People get bored sometimes.
But, All I can say is; If you want to post, just post it even if it's fake, if you want to respond, just respond it, even if it's fake.why? people have their own right to do what they want... and we can tell who is not making a fake--it's cyber world (doooh). So, just enjoy it... take advantage from it,focus on that, not somethings bad from your view.
One more thing... If they said that many people start to make fake story to get more respond, I think the one that make a "frustated discussion" was taking advantage to (get more respond)... and who was wrong... none. who was lame ? none.
See you around
@nitaqqsabil (280)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 07
That's a very refreshing opinion. Thank you for yous comment.
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@Indianprince (102)
• India
28 Dec 07
Hi, I am new to my lot and I had joined in order to earn some money but since the time I have joined I am just enjoying this platform to interact with different people on various topics..I have just forgotten about monetary aspect of it..I dont think it is frustrating at all
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@soundtrackgeek (67)
•
30 Dec 07
I've been here for a very short while, but even I can see that a lot of topics are just made without any thought, like the person creating it doesn't care what answers they get as long as they get credit for it. Saying that, there are a lot of great discussions here of all kinds. I think that is what attracted me to Mylot. The only alternative to Mylot is Yahoo Answers I think, but it feels cold there. I believe I can find great friends here, intelligent people to discuss things with and a whole lot of fun.
I am enjoying it here no matter what anyone says :)