pissed to the highest level -my brother drank the beer i bought for my friends!!

I know how you feel!!!!! That has happened to me too and when you buy something you expect to be the one that uses it! I don't blame you at all for being upset! I was too!

I'm sorry you are so pissed with your brother. It's a thing that has happened to me too. I share with my sister almost anything and we never ask each other if we can use things of the other one, so when I buy something only for my self it happens that she uses it the same If I want to keep a thing for me fisrt of all I have to shout to her and everyone "It's only FOR ME don't touch it!!". I don't know what the relationship with your brother is like but maybe next time is better that you warn him if a thing is only for yourself (shouts and hits in the head are advised :D )

Well, hope you can find it in your heart to be a little more accpeting, and forgive him, as maybe it was an accident and he did not know he was drinking something you were saving, and maybe thought it was there for him. Just try to enjoy your time, and remember sometimes we may not be able to change our circumstances in what happens to us in life, it is what we do from here on out that makes more of an impact and helps. Happy New Year my friend.

I can not imagine how angry you really are, but I hate when people do take things that´s not really theirs. I can not believe he actually did that. How stupid can you be. Take something that is not his. It´s beyond my imagination. And than on top of that, take it all and not leave a drop to the owner that is really, really nasty done. Not a god way to start the new year, being angry with a family member, I do hope you will make him pay dearly for what he did, I know I would.

Well, isn't that just the limit. But haven't you heard of sibling rivalry. That, I thought, is what brothers DO! No? Mine don't because we are all tee-totalers. Doesn't that just put a damp on your Spirits! All we can do is hope that he got a nasty hangover. Eh?

I really do not understand people who, for whatever reasons they have, feel it is okay to take, use, eat, etc. someone elses property without even the minimal amount of remorse or concern. When I first came to live in my friends house, she also had these two other people that, thank god, have since moved into their own place; needless to say, I always found I had to use my cooler for all of my cold foods b/c this woman thought that, b/c it was in the refrigerator, it was fair game. I am on a very limited amount of income right now and buy only a few itmes here and there. She ate a few things of mine and drank all of my bottled water without even asking first. It made me furious and what was worse, the woman I live with now, who owns this house, never even said anything nor did it seem she was too concerned about it...Her "friend" could apparently do and say whatever she wanted and she never said anything to her...sooooooooooooo, I DO understand your anger!

That would have made me mad too. He should have asked who it belonged to before he drank it. When I buy something for me then I don't want someone else to use it unless I tell them to.

hahahhahhaha still secretbear, its a sibling fight only what happens sometimes we do feel we are too old for this and ...... but in fact we remain the same and our relationships remain the same unless some extraordinary thing happen to u.it was not abt money somewhere inside he knew he can drink because its urs and u too knew okk i'll see u kinda ,the same old.....lol dear

hahahahaha to me it seemed absolutely s sibling fight ,it is kinda cute and u had the money ,lol

Things like this really happen often. We can't do anything but to control ourselves for the worst thing that occurred. Anyway, your brother was wrong in a way. He must have asked you in the first place really.

secretbear, I too have the same problem except it is my son who disrespects others. He takes from others whatever he wishes and pitches a fit if someone does the same to him. I am past angry and have grown very concerned; he is now 19 and I am beginning to wonder if he will ever change. Your brother should be ashamed of himself; but, not to worry, there is such a thing called karma. Use your energy to focus on more positive things in your life, karma will take care of your brother, lol.

Dun be angry. secret ^_^;; This has always happen to me too when i buy things back home, in the hope of eating or drinking the next day, but in the end, it ended up missing either in my parents stomach or they say they duno that's the thing i wanna eat :( SO now wat i do is, watever i bring home, i will eat or drink it straight away so that i wun miss it.. hehe Like u, i hate it when ple go thru and mess up my things and especially my mails!

Secretbear, Some years ago, I sent a gift to my friend through my sister. Later, I realized that without my knowledge my sister opened the gift and took one of the stuff, which was meant for my friend. I got too pissed off that, I scolded her so badly that she could not even see my face for about a week. But, after some weeks, I felt so bad for my little sister for scolded her so badly. I even regret for what I had done to her. So, I went and told that I forgave her. She too told me that she would never do the same thing again, and she keeps her promise that she never does the same mistake again till today. I just hate when someone takes my belongings or something that is meant for someone else. I strongly believe that even though we are sisters, brothers or one family members, we should always show respects to each other. I find it very unfair to touch someone else's things without asking his/her permission. I can imagine and understand your angry. Anyways, one day your brother will come to know that he had done something wrong and that he has to know some lesson. Cheers!!!!

I hate when something like that happens, specially when someone takes stuff that I buy every day. I have found this ice-cream that looked so delicious and I put it in the freezer and had to live house for a few hours. When I got back there was no ice cream any more, my mother had some friends over and she offered the ice cream to them. I was really pissed off because my mother usually does that she always gives the best things to the guests, she was doing that when I was little too. I bought that ice cream in a shop some 6km from our house and I rarely go there and you can't find it in any other shop. They can buy 10 other ice creams but it is not that one that I really wanted to try. My folks don't get that because they don't like ice cream so it is the same what they eat.

Well i hope he paid you back all the $$ for drinking it all up LOL