hubby sleeping with another woman?!!
By dania_elm
@dania_elm (421)
United States
January 5, 2008 7:25pm CST
how much do u trust your significant other? i trust mine 101% we just talking the other day about one of my friends that stayed with us for a few days i had left them alone for hours and he asked me why she hid when i was gone i told him i dont know then i told him that i had told her that if she wanted instead of napping on the couch she could go sleep in our bed...he was in it asleep he asked how did i know that nothing would happen my friend had a thing for him i told him because i knew he wouldnt do anything even if she did try i have alot of guy friends and he trusts me like that how much do u trust yours? would u leave him in bed alone with a stripper?
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8 responses
@emarie (5442)
• United States
6 Jan 08
see...i trust my husband...don't trust other women..i know how cruel they can be and don't want anyone trying to take advantage of him...especially when he sleeps. but hey...if you can trust him, thats all the better. i'm still a jealousy little thing and he knows it.
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@dania_elm (421)
• United States
6 Jan 08
it really doesnt matter if you trust other women if know that you can trust him i know how my friends are in my first marriage there was not trust and he did not disapoint me i never put him in a situation he did that all on his own i think a large part of it has to do with his character
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
6 Jan 08
trust is an essential ingredient for a relationship to work. this is great going for the two of you. but a shade of doubt whether your hubby is sleeping or not will ruin whatever is going. and it is hard to shed that doubt on your mind. but i admire your trust and love for your hubby. keep it up.
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@dania_elm (421)
• United States
6 Jan 08
there are no doubts about it he is not sleeping around i was just curious about how many ppl could say that with out a doubt there man would not stray kinda like a senseless survey just with a serious question
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
11 Jan 08
Well I dont see what her being a stripper has to do with it first off...Secondly..I trust my husband BUT I also really wouldnt care if he slept with my friend (which he'd never nor would any of them simply out of respect and fear of me)...what I WOULD care about though is that it was done in my house where my children live..Thats a big fat NO NO!! this is THEIR home....if he (or I) wants to have some side action take it to a hotel or the other persons house NOT in my childrens home!
@dania_elm (421)
• United States
7 Feb 08
i agree with you. i only said she was stripper to get the point across that she it totally hot. if i was a guy....
@highflyingxangel (9225)
• United States
8 Jan 08
Absolutely not. Because of past experiences, even if I say I do trust them completely, there are still times when that trust falters and when I feel otherwise. So, regardless of what I say, the doubt and fear is there, and regardless of what they say, I still would have to say no, I would not trust them in bed with someone other than me, and a few other people that I know for a fact that NOTHING would happen between them.
@dania_elm (421)
• United States
8 Jan 08
ok i can understand that you said about the few u know that nothing would happen with does that mean u only trust him with some ppl or that u only trust him with the ones that u know wouldnt try anything?
@k1tten (2318)
• United States
8 Jan 08
I wouldn't personally. But I'm the jealous type. I don't like sharing what's mine even if it's family members. I don't like sharing my partner with her mother. What does that say?
In the end though it's up to you. You're choice on who you trust and how far you trust them.
@dania_elm (421)
• United States
8 Jan 08
my jealousy used to be the same way i didnt like to share my friends either i dont know what made me snap out of that but i would have to say that i am glad i did i have a lot less stress know thanks for your response
@smwilliams (647)
• United States
11 Jan 08
LOL...Call me jealous, but Hell No! I trust him, but I dont think I would trust my girl friend...LOL...Thats why I have more guy friends than girl friends...guys are less shady...girls like to back stab...not saying this is true for everyone, just in my experience with people around here!
@dania_elm (421)
• United States
12 Jan 08
that is just to funny most of my friends are guys also. lol i know how women can be. i probably would trust him like i do EXCEPT we have the same standards when it comes to that stuff. in both of our opinions cheating is the only unforgivable act so we know what is at stake
@dania_elm (421)
• United States
6 Jan 08
ive been there and i couldnt forgive him i never really trusted him i just tried to keep an eye on him i am so happy with my new hubby its almost sick!!!serioulsy how often do all of ur friends think ur guy is gr8 and all of ur guys friends think u r gr8?
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
6 Jan 08
Wow I admire your trust with your husband.... That must be very hard for others to do. But anyhow sometimes too much trust must come also with great responsibility. Even though how trusting a person can be it may come to a point that it may fail you. I do not say that you should start mistrusting your husband but then you should also n\know that he's only human and you should not always put him in situation that can cause harm to your relationship.
@dania_elm (421)
• United States
6 Jan 08
yes i know that this is also true thank you for responding
