i need advice...help me

if you both have feelings for each other, then why not give a chance for the two of you. To have a successful relationship, you must develop trust to your bf. so you said you thought he's a player because of the characteristic he possess, you should know him first before judging, not just in the outside but more importantly the inside. Give him a chance to show to you who he really is, and what is his real feelings towards you. I just noticed in your post, you have mentioned all the positive criteria he has, i hope you are just fascinated with him or like him just because you thought he is the perfect guy for you. I hope you it is love.

I would say why not try knowing him first before making any assumptions. You can try dating or maybe a casual lunch will do. Make friends first and don't think about relationship for the mean time. Update us okay?

Give it a shot, get to know him better. Just don't put your heart and soul into the relationship too soon, make sure that he is not what you originally thought he was and that he is genuinely a good guy. If he is interested and you are interested then go for it.

I say if you havent got any thing against him except for just doubts, you should give him a chance and give your self time to judge things through facts.

And as far as his not dating others is concerned,may be he`s just a little reserved like a lot of guys i know..take a chance..

hey maria560, dont think its too good to come true..may be there are somethings in you that he really likes very much..i think its what inside him that counts..try to know him well-deep inside out..may be u`ll understand why he likes you too,if he really likes you..understanding is necessary for any true long relationship..and trust also..

There's nothing wrong if you would date him. In fact that's the purpose of dating - to get to know each other better. It's not like you're going to sleep with him right away or marry him or anything like that.

I think you already know the answer there. You deserve better than him. Yes he is probably a nice guy but it's not what he has or what he looks like. It's what's inside that counts. If you thought originally that he was a player than there must have been something that made you think he was. What has changed since your thoughts on that subject. Don't put yourself down or compare yourself to him. You are who you are and not what other people want you to be, if that makes sense. If he doesn't think you are good enough for him then he definitely is not good enough for you. You deserve someone who will treat you like the terrific person you are.

May be he is just not really sincere about you. Well just do want you think is right and proper. Expressing yourself to someone you like is not that bad, but if he does not respond to any of your gestures may be you could drop him and find another man to hang with that can make you happy. May be this guy does not know what he wants and or confused I guess. Or blind, that he dont even see your beauty. Just do not waste time to a man that does not show interest in you. Good luck!

you have to know him first even if hes a player or he is popular or rich. the important is he will respect you and your parents. date him and know him well. okay. Relax

i think you should go for it but dont automatically put him above you. He might be a player still and just hiding it really well or just that nice of a guy. Ive been accused of it alot but if you really wanna know. you should go for it, thats the only way you will really find out

I think your looking for car,dresses,job,cute,popular player and i think for love it doesn't matter whether that person has those things but this may be attraction between you and him so now a days it is common to maintain girl friend so please verify more details through his friends what he is so it can really help to read his character then you can do what ever you want.