interracial relationships
By benna24
@benna24 (2)
Kenya
26 responses
@pussywillow (718)
• United States
21 Oct 06
And exactly where is this money coming from? Do they get a bonus from the government or from some secret company for marrying a white man? Where does an idea like this come from?
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
27 Nov 06
LOL yea that is a good question cause damn it if thats the case where's my cheque?? ;)
@tennille1999 (22)
• United States
22 Jan 07
This whole topic is just wrong and out of place. Black women and white men, has nothing to actually do with money. For some it does, but you can't base all one persons views on what you may think for everyone...It has to do with love,what you have in common, common interests, etc..I wouldnt date a rich doctor and we had nothing in common, been there, done that..I dont want his money, I want to be loved..So does the same goes for the wives of Orange county that are all over TV..even though they are white, does the same guy for white women who marry black athletes, you are wrong posting this comment and question with no basis or structure or reason behind it. Obviously you have a problem with seeing it or the fact of it, and please from now on keep your comments of such to yourself..that was rude, wrong, and not a very smart question dear. You are generalizing society, research somethings before you write them, don't just go by your feelings whether its lack of knowledge or bigotry, whatever. Please dont. for those who want intelligent and great discussions. Dont do it..but you got a response out of me, so you have done your job
@carlabarbosa (1305)
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26 Nov 06
We are all people ,red,white, yellow,blue... it doesnt matter... has long there is love... everything is ok...
@cool_arvind (23)
• India
21 Oct 06
What makes you think that african women are always from poor economical background
@Sheila_Abram (1908)
• United States
21 Oct 06
What are you talking about? A lot of people marry regardless of race marry for money and not love. Hopefully most people regardless of race marry for love. God Bless
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@Cindyh2k (308)
• United States
20 Oct 06
I don't see the relationship between money and love in an interracial relationship. I do, however, know many people who are in interracial relationships because they love one another - and no one has a right to tell them that their love for each other is wrong. Who are they hurting by loving one another? No one. The world should be color-blind and judge a person's character by the actions of that person rather than the color of their skin - because we are all made of the same stuff.
My sister has been in an interracial marriage for 17 years - and they have 5 beautiful children, who are very happy and well-adjusted.
There are too many important issues in the world for people to be worried about the color of someone's skin and who someone else falls in love with!
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@Lemongrass18 (313)
• Singapore
21 Jan 07
Don't let the color of the skin bothers you. Life is what you make it out do be so ignore gossips or what others think. God created us all thus we are all equal.
@Tweety2035 (662)
• United States
7 Jan 07
It goes both ways and why be focused on black women and white men? What about black men with white women?Like I said it goes both ways and neither one goes by money it's all about love and love conqueurs all.
@TasksGirl (216)
• United States
17 Dec 06
Money??
RANDOM!
I have heard MANY more people say it is a POWER thing than a MONEY thing.
@haldirsgirl (28)
• United States
22 Jan 07
There are poor white people and there are poor black people; there are rich white people and there are rich black people; there are also white gold-diggers and there are black gold-diggers. I'm sure there are lots of marriages happening because of money, but all the interracial couples I personally know love each other very much.
@Lady_Vincy (1538)
• United States
8 Jan 07
Yes I believe that is is for love and not money. If it was vice vera it would still be the same thing. Not everybody is out for money. Plus if a Balck man and A black woman got together, who is to say the woman is not in it just for money. Lovers will be lovers and gold diggers will be gold diggers no matter what race.
@revdauphinee (5703)
• United States
12 Mar 07
I know of a few and have to say that Love like God is color blind!
@Passion4lyfe (22)
• United States
12 Mar 07
Interracial relationships are for love not money and like so many people said before interracial relationships don't see color they see you for who you are deep down, and that must be love.
@protectiva (687)
• United States
19 Nov 06
I think some interracial marriage, like intraracial marriage, is probably for money or security or something like that. People marry for all sorts of reasons...
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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27 Nov 06
if you are in love it doesnt matter what coulor you are you will still be in love
@nonpareil (78)
• United States
26 Nov 06
Speaking as a black woman, I can say I really don't care about the skin color/ethnicity of who I'm dating. I date who I care for. I base it on how well we get along together, mutual family values, etc. What matters is what's on the inside.
@sylviekitty (2083)
• United States
17 Dec 06
"still believe..... out of love and not for money" This suggests you think that African women are marrying white men for their money, am I correct? I haven't noticed that, myself.
What about when it comes to white women marrying African males? I know of a case in particular where she met him and perhaps fell in love, but was more intrigued with his wallet. They are together 15 or so years later, but she is quite obvious about the fact that it's only for money (and for what it can get the kids).
