Promises are made to break??!!!

Very few people get stuck to promises. They take the promises to their heart they feel upset if they break the promises. For some eople giving promises is the way of life and feel they need for follow it. They must have made the promises our of enthusiasm and to please the people who surround them. It is better not to make the promises and once made it should be kept up to maintain the reputation. It reflects the honesty of a person.

there are reasons why promises are broken. most often than not, these are unavoidable circumstances. give your friend the benefit of the doubt until you know the reason behind.

The same thing happened to me also. It was other way round. I am the girl and there was a friend who promised me to be my friend foreever. After few months, he started avoiding me. about 4 months back he acted very rudely with me and chaeted withy me. He only stopped all communications and now we are no longer in touch.

I am also having the same situation as yours may be slightly different in the sense that mine is nothing to do with that promise breaking thing.What happened is one of my friends stopped talking to me 2 weeks ago if i remember correctly for no apparent reasons. She simply said that she doesnt wanna be friend with me anymore. Frankly speaking the relationship between us was a little bit more than just normal friends.

Hi Gole... Why do u think she broke the promise..May be she became a Granny. Hahhaha..Lolz.

promise is just a word...... it can even be bended at the same time... just don't do any thing.. that will do any hurt for both of you...

it is certainly not right. there are some people in the world who don't regard their promise as something they can't break easily. i think you can congratulate yourself on her breaking her promise so soon. otherwise perhaps you will feel more difficult to get out of it. try not to be bothered by it any more. do not use her mistake to punish yourself.

Well, such a thing did happen to me two years back. It was such a shock that I took nearly three months to recover and that too partially. :( Actually, we were supposed to be 'in love'; and then one fine day, after promising so many things, the guy just stopped communicating. I still don't know what I had done that made him do that! Re-thinking over the matter, I feel it is good, in a way. I mean, who wants to be stuck to such a character for life? Characters who can't keep their word don't really turn out to be good friends, lovers, or spouses. You are better off without such a friend. There are plenty of good people in the world...

Initially any person will feel guilty and depressed at the same time thinking why the hell did he/she do it to me...if something of that sort would have happened to me, though there's no fault of mine being involved, i would have gone and asked that person the reason behind it...and if that person would have replied in a vague manner, i would think that person doesn't deserve the concern i show towards him/her and try to be optimistic in finding newer and better friends but at the same time keeping in mind not to repeat the same mistake of trusting anyone more than necessary...one will probably feel better by getting involved with other people and should also try to forget the tragic past as soon as possible so that it doesn't affect the future...

I obviously don't know the whole story, but is there a chance that maybe she is busy with life? I had a lot of friends that I graduated with and we all promised to be friends forever and after graduation promised to always right and alway call and to be honest there isn't always time for that. One of my friends that I grew up with I haven't seen in almost a year. A couple of others I haven't seen except once since I got out of school (almost 8 years). Unfortunately, that is a part of life. You get busy with other things, you lose touch, you meet other people and everything changes. You might not have done nothing at all. It just happens.