What do you think of her death?
By lucy67
@lucy67 (819)
China
January 13, 2008 6:44am CST
I learned from the net that a woman jumped off a 24-storied building and killed herself when she learned her husband had a love affair with another girl. I feel sympathy with the woman but think she shouldn't have done it for that shameless man. What do you think of her death? If you were this woman and your husband had betrayed you, what would you do?
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@mollyrose (414)
• United States
13 Jan 08
Well in my opinion no man is worth dying for. If I had found out my husband was cheating I would have kicked him to the curb. I then would take him for spousal support and probably turn vindictive and ruin his name and his girlfriends name. Ending your life is wrong unless you are mentally ill or physically suffering in extreme pain. Will that husband feel any remorse? NO probably not he will probably run off with his girlfriend. This woman had her life ahead of her and she could have rebuilt it and moved on and found a man more worthy of her love. This deeply saddens me. My own mother has been obsessed with love in the past to the extent that she almost killed herself and it always irked me. I got her help and fought with her to be strong and move on. She has gotten stronger and moved on. Its not worth dying over.
@IshaAdarsh (1)
• India
14 Jan 08
If my husband do this with me then I take some serious action.First,i go to that bloody woman with whom my husband had an affair and tell him that if she do love with my husband then this dream of her never be done.If she do then I kill her.And then i talk to my husband if he do affair with her then I will take you to the court and also to the media and tell them what type of person you are.So every body knows about you then not any husband thinks to do this with her wife.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
13 Jan 08
That is something else. I feel sorry for that woman. That is awfil that she took her own life because of what her husband did to her.
If my husband did something like that to me, I would be hurt for a very long time but I really don't think I would hurt myself because of it.
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@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
13 Jan 08
I never understand why people kill themselves for someone who cheated on them. Sure it is an awful thing, and I do feel sorry for these victims. But i would never do it, I would leave the jerk and get myself a happy life with a good man! You can always change your life for the better if you try!
@garnet80 (349)
• Australia
14 Jan 08
I think she was silly to do that. Yes he cheated but she is still young and there are more people out there who would treat her better. He husband will feel guilty for the rest of his life too. The good point about this and I know that sounds bad, is that maybe next time he will think twice before cheating again. I feel so sorry for that poor lady and her family. I hope that they did not have children together for the kids sake.
@debbie97420 (15)
• United States
14 Jan 08
Hi
I think it sounds like this woman had more issues going on then just a cheating husband.If I had been her I definitely would not have killed myself. I don't know what was going on in that marriage but if a person strays it can be because the marriage is not going well and they are lonely or some people need to cheat because they have low self esteem and need the ego boost.Whatever the reason I would not have killed myself. I would be in court suing for divorce and taking him to the cleaners.
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@ganga472007 (624)
• India
13 Jan 08
Now this is a rare incident. The depth of that girl's love towards her lover is great which might have developed possessiveness and be the cause for her fatal end. If I were like this woman, I will part him happily.
@candytang (341)
• China
14 Jan 08
I'm sorry to hear that about the woman.I think I can't really have the same feeling with the woman,but I think she is so fool.Why she did that ?Can this solve the problem?How about the people who love she ? I think she should live a good life and let her husband knows she can live well without him.If is me ,I think I shouldn't do that.I will have my own life which will without him,and maybe I can meet some other people.
@abdulwahab468 (384)
• Pakistan
14 Jan 08
its really bad. but she did worse. killing your own self should be the last option.
i would rather have become very isolated in my life.