Who Can Get A Real Love?
By Bluestream
@Bluestream (235)
China
January 16, 2008 1:16am CST
We often hear of some man who can not get a female to love him because of his poverty. Without enough money, it is always hard to court or woo a female. It is always the case in every country and from ancient time till now. But we also often hear of that some man who can not get a female to love him really because of his wealth. The man is too well-off, too rich, and the female comes up to him not for love, but for wealth. So it seems that a man who is too poor or too rich can not find a real love easily. Then my questions are: Who can always get a true love in his life? Is money useful in courting a girl? How rich is the best degree in courting a true love?
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13 responses
@bigcatwsy (36)
• China
16 Jan 08
The girls are wanna be praised and be noticed by the boys and the other girls. So if a boy wanna gain the girl's favor he can not very poor so as to can not buy a rose to her. Furthermore,he must be a man than have some characters like faithful,brave,virtuous,active,facetious etc. In a word,he must let the girl feel very happy when they get together. Actually,before he gain the true love he must give her his true love.
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@Bluestream (235)
• China
16 Jan 08
Well yes, I think you are right. A man must be lovable first and then a woman may love him.
@bigcatwsy (36)
• China
16 Jan 08
Sorry,a mistake. The sentence should be "Furthermore,he must be a man who has some characters like ..." without "than have".
@Bluestream (235)
• China
16 Jan 08
Ah,a female is the biggest mystery to me. I simply do not know what she is thinking.
@BeniceC (33)
• China
18 Jan 08
Personally,I consider woman of all ages who have different ideas.like in between ages of 13-22,they almost like romantic,23-30,they combine romantic with reality,etc.
Although money is not eveything,rich man gets the woman more easily. Because no money can do nothing.
@Bluestream (235)
• China
19 Jan 08
My friend, so according to what you mean, If I want to have a marriage, I should go to a woman of 20-30 years old, but if I want to have a real love, I should go to a girl of 10-20years old?
--Can a woman of 30 yeas old feel money nothing?
@djmarion (4898)
• Philippines
18 Jan 08
everybody can have their chance of a true love despite their financial status. now everywoman are gold digger or social climber; making money their gods. there are also simple minded person out there that can give unconditional love to a person deserving of their love.
if you want true love, make sure you can give it too.
@lucy67 (819)
• China
16 Jan 08
money should have nothing to do with true love. if a girl and a boy really love each other, they care nothing about money. but if they are in true love and have much money at the same time, that would be better because they needn't worry about money and money can make their love more romantic.
@Bluestream (235)
• China
19 Jan 08
Yes, I think so, too. Many is nothing for a couple in true love. How can I get such a true love!
@Bluestream (235)
• China
19 Jan 08
I did a wrong type. I mean money is nothing for a couple in true love. If only I could have such a love!
@mjweed21 (693)
• Philippines
16 Jan 08
I guess riches has nothing with love. But we can't shut ourselves away from the reality that in wooing a girl, money does matters. We can't deny that because people aren't contented with what they have. And what's always in their mind is money, money, money.
But for me, all it depends upon the girl.
@Bluestream (235)
• China
16 Jan 08
Especially nowadays. We now live in a materialist society,We will use a car when we travel, we will have a large party when friends get together,we will spend more and more money in today's life. Without money, we can do almost nothing.
@fianne (1057)
• United States
17 Jan 08
bluestream, hello! how are you? as for me, i am having relationship with an average man in his life now. he is not rich but he is not poor too. in real love, you both struggle in life, it does not relate to money at all. if a woman sees how poor or how rich is the man, she is being practical and sees if she can live with the man. but still the relationship will not last because the girl is not happy with the man, but only with the money.
@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
17 Jan 08
I agree it seems women really consider your financial status. What I find senseless is that they'll probably take a good look at your car or your cellphone to judge whether you "have money" or not. Financial intelligence is more important.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
17 Jan 08
I don't agree with you at all. I was very much in love for several years with a man who was very very wealthy. His money had not one thing to do with my feelings. In fact I had no idea how wealthy he was until we were well into the relationship. I am currently seeing a guy that is so so poor. He is nice and kind and has a great sense of humour. We have alot of fun together. Love does not care about money.
@khan4ever4u (15)
• India
17 Jan 08
Love is not at all a passion.Love is not a trend.it should be come from the heart of two loving peoples.
@angieang (262)
• United States
16 Jan 08
Men are looked at for money and women for their body in most instances. So maybe if the rich men quit looking for the skinny, gold digging women that look good on their sholders they might actually find love. And for the men of poverty need to start looking for ways to be romantic even when funds are low! Take walks, woo her with hand made cards.. even if you have to copy the words from a hallmark card!! Most woman are natural romantics... if you have charm you don't need the money!
@murderslastcrow (44)
•
17 Jan 08
True love depends on finding the right person, regardless of financial status. However, you need to be stable and secure or your chances are decreased.
