If You Are A Black Female,Have You Ever Considered Dating Out ?.

Yes, I date out, as you say. My mother raised me to be versatile and always said, you just never know where your soul mate is. I've dated a wide variety of races, but never had the chance to date an asian, but my cousin did. Anyway, throughout the years of my dating, I've found that I'm more suited to date white men. For some reason I just tend to have less drama with them and we have more in common. I am very eclectic with music I listen to and have frequently come across black men who frown upon it, don't understand it, or want to give me grief about it. However, I've never held that against the next black man. Thank you for posting this discussion.

Hello dear friend. I think that so long as they both love each other and happy with each other, they are supposed to be together for dating out. In our present society, color and race should not be supposed to be any barrier to any loving couples. I hope that I could get support from you, dear friend. Well, in China, I have read quite some news about the interracial marriage affairs, one of which is a couple, a Chinese girl and an American black man and they love each other so much and they finally got married years ago. Such interracial marriage happens everywhere and every day. I think that interracial children are more beautiful and clever as they can absorb the advantages from both the mother and the father...

i agree that me go by looks and women by talks...but one can always convey a good heart. some tips: 1) Dress Well - style gathers attention 2)Kino - if you feel that you don't look very good you can practice touching and showing high levels of every when you meet some one. 3)Drink water and do lot of exercise --- www.Girlfriends.bz

I said my peace in a response to a response. People should be aloud to see whoever they want regardless of "race", I meant mindless difference people really shouldn't care about! If you nave tastes fine, thats you too. Still I have qualms with that "word". Alright I'm feeling more like talking, I'll respond to the rest of your posting. I have seen the edit of black women's mothers. It goes to both their daughters and sons from what I've observed. Also society seems to back up the claims with some vile, poisonous language to anyone dating "outside" (he's not "really black", "sellout", "acting 'white'", can't handle a "real" woman, etc). Its just a bunch of nonsense from some human refuse. A good number of them usually do this because they fail so bad at relationships in their own lives, or they are jealous of what others have. Going further and thinking about this, adults can be some very backwards and immature people especially on the subject of "race".

"Race" (I don't like this word) is irrelevant for love purposes. True love and even just phisical attraction doesn't look at your skin's color. Of course there are preferences: for instance, I like women with white skins and dark hair, but it's a matter of tastes, NOT race! Humans shouldn't be racist. Love CANNOT be.