living with my husband mother,father,my husband kids to his ex wife..
By lynkawaai
@lynkawaai (17)
Japan
January 21, 2008 7:03am CST
im living with them,and we have a own child,my husband mom,doesnt like me,and his kids hate me,what will i do?anybody can help me?i will tried to talk to them but its not work,give me an advice to make have a long patience with them..if you are in my situation what will you do?,
3 responses
@celiayun (11)
• China
23 Jan 08
Talk to your husband,let him know all your feelings,then you both make great efforts to change the situation.If he didn't care for you,then he does not worth the pain you are taking,leave him,if you can't,just take care of your own kids and yourself.That's exactly what I think,just for reference,I'm just a college student.My experience is limited.
@nyumix (1658)
• Belgium
22 Jan 08
If I were you I will move to other house, and try to find solution about his kids from his ex wife. Living with parents was not really good experience for me. I did it for one year, and even it was my own parents i still think it is better to live separate.. :)
@lucy67 (819)
• China
21 Jan 08
i think it will be difficult to anyone in your position. it's very hard for your mother-in-law and your husband's kids to accept you. perhaps it will be better if you don't live with them because too many trifles can be causes of conflicts. if you can't move out for the time being, you can turn to your husband for help. have a talk with your husband and ask him to tackle some propblems.
