What kind of husband would you like to have?
By lucy67
@lucy67 (819)
China
January 22, 2008 3:15am CST
Would you like to have a husband who can't earn much money but can help you with housework and look after the kids or a husband who can earn lots of money and has high social position but has little time to be with you and the kids. You have to look after the kids all by yourself. Besides you feel worried that he may have a love affair with other woman because he is a wealthy man with capability, other women may also love him.
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10 responses
@princysherly (28)
• India
23 Jan 08
how i wud like is he shd earn and smart enough to tackle any situation and shd be true to me and to have a complete understanding for both though he doesn't look after the kids it doesn't matter may in the weekends if he has tym to spend with us i wud b more then happy... wat abt u???
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@celiayun (11)
• China
23 Jan 08
er,it's hard to choose,I think every woman would like a husband with high income and a lot of time to be with the family.However,it's rare to find such a guy you like.so I would like a hunsband with income higher than average,and more time than those people in high position.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
23 Jan 08
I like the one that I have. He is loving, caring, nice, giving, and always there for me when i need him to be. He helps me get things done around the house and helps me to make it through life.
He is also a good father.
@jerritts1mom (816)
• United States
22 Jan 08
I want my husband to want the family as much as I do,and will work just as hard to keep us healthy and happy, by doing his share, financially as well as taking part in daily activities and helping to raise them.If I am married to a man, whom I think will cheat so easily, then maybe we shouldn't be married,or having children ?
@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
22 Jan 08
I want a husband who will love me & our children. The one who will work to provide our financial needs. The one who will stay committed to me & to our relationship. Let us admit the fact that love, commitment and responsibility are three things that makes up a better husband. But it is hard to find nowadays.
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@asawanialvin0611 (1877)
• Philippines
22 Jan 08
a husband who is thoughtful ,responsible, faithful, a friend, lover, partner
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@spoiled311 (5500)
• Philippines
22 Jan 08
hi lucy!
well, i have the husband that i would love to have already. he is sweet, thoughtful, caring, attentive, good communicator, and most of all, God fearing. He is loyal to God and so it follows that he is loyal to me, too.
sometimes, we have misunderstandings, for nobody is perfect, but i wouldn't want any other man in my life.
always exercise wisdom when it comes to choosing a partner. it is not merely for the present but a lifetime of commitment.
God bless you always! :-)
@basicblack001 (43)
• Philippines
25 Jan 08
Being a woman, I would rather have my husband be simple and go home after office hours or be at my side as often as possible and help me with the chores than be wealthy, almost non-existent and have me cross-eyed with worry all the time!!! Who says that women should take care of the kids and do all of the household chores, etc., etc.? We, women, weren't born to be wooed, married, have children, and be a maid (this last one is definitely not in our birth certificate or even in our marriage contract.
The main reason we get married is because we have decided that this man's face is the last one that we want to see before we close our eyes at night and the first thing we see when we open our eyes in the morning. For me, marriage is not just having kids, home, etc., being married is having a partner with whom to learn and discover new things together and have fun in doing them (even with the kids)! Marriage shouldn't be a boring chore full of rules and restrictions.
BUT .... Who wouldn't love a husband who is always by your side, says I love you everyday, cooks dinner, helps you with the kids and the household chores, BUT is still earning a lot of money?
There is no harm in this scenario right? Why can't we have the best of both worlds? Why do we have to choose between the two? I want to say that this may be just a fairy tale or is quite hard to be done, but why not?
With two people who really love each other, I do believe that anything is possible and I want to be thankful that I am having this kind of adventure in my life. All it takes is giving and taking and understanding each other and yes, learning to earn together. (wink)
@suzzyL (21)
• United States
26 Jan 08
I want a husband who is finacialy secure (not rich)who is calm,patient,understanding and dedicates a good amount of time to his family.someone who is decisive and does'nt need to lean on me to make all the decisions, someone who has a cheerful personality and wants to have fun in life not just work all the time I wouldnt mind a little help around the house but sometimes thing are done better when done yourself.