Are you going to give up your man for the sake of friendship?
By ashlar
@ashlar (41)
Philippines
8 responses
@lib_assist19 (79)
• Philippines
23 Jan 08
for me,I won't because a real friend respect for the things that make you happy.that kind of friend is a selfish friend.A real friend would not ask like that if she really cares for you...
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@bishu_sinha (1457)
• India
23 Jan 08
I will feel very bad instantly, but after that I will encourage him to continue his love with another girl friend.
Although,I neger forget him and will wait for him again.
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@lucy67 (819)
• China
23 Jan 08
i wouldn't do it and i won't regard her as my best friend any more. as a good friend, how can she take my boyfriend away. it's she who doesn't value our friendship. at the ssame time i will try to find if my boyfriend loves her more than me, if so, i will leave him.
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@buster14 (121)
• Fiji
25 Jan 08
I'd hate losing them both so best option would be too share my boyfriend!! WOW!!
@JiiFFii (7)
• Canada
24 Jan 08
honestly my point of view is that ha no way would you friendship be worth it if you best friend wanted your boyfriend...a true honest and good friend would never do that EVER....my best friend has like the same person as me but usually im like the one to say go for it there plenty of fish in the sea...as far as a relationship and your friend asks you to break up with then for get it find a new friend..theres better ones out there...
@justrachel (98)
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24 Jan 08
If she was any decent friend she would set her sights elsewhere and not on your man. I would seriously consider whether or not you want her as a friend.
@sunshinelady (7609)
• United States
23 Jan 08
A true best friend would never ask you to do that. She would respect the fact that you love him and not ask you to make such a impossible choice. To choose between your relationship between her man and your friendship with her. That to me would be a very heartless person who has only herself that she is looking out for. I would not do it.
@YamiKiba (937)
• United States
23 Jan 08
I've never experienced such a situation before. .but if I DID. I'd say no definately. Unless there has been some suspicious activities in the relationship. But love is about trust. .so. If you really value your friendship over your man's love I'd say go for it. .but in the end it really is your man's choice. If he loves you so much, he wouldn't go just because your best friend asked you to. .unless you left that detail out. You can always make new friends. But if you think this man is "Mr. Right" I say keep him.