EXCUSE ME, BUT I AM UP HERE...thanks;)

OMGROFLMBO!!! Yup, been there done that!!! Usually I just turn and walk off. I have gone from big to little and back to big again, not intentionally, and not by surgery! I weighed 140 when I graduated high school, I got down to 87 at one point. And yes, they are the first thing you lose when you lose weight. Now I'm back up to 126 and they seem to be the first thing that came back. I liked it better when they were smaller. They didn't draw attention. I find myself wearing big baggy shirts to try to hide them.

In our defend, I have to say that its hard to think when blood is flowing out of your brain and going between your legs. I make it a point to keep my eyes above the neck when talking, just so I don't get caught doing something stupid like that. Men should at least pretend to be gentlemanly in front of a lady...

This is so funny. I think men are just geared that way. Recently, I bought a new shirt that was pretty low cut to wear under another shirt. It got really hot the day I wore it and in the afternoon, I took off the overshirt. I ran several errands that day and realized that not one man I talked to ever looked me in the eye for more than two seconds! Even a man I used to work with that was really proper had an especially hard time focusing on my face. Me and my 15 year old son went to look at tires at Walmart and when we left, my son said "I don't think that man knew which tires he was pointing at when he was telling you the price, he couldn't take his eyes off your boobs." I laughed and my son said "I think I'm going to throw up!" Lol I guess if I don't want them to look so hard, I'd better wear that other shirt.

When you get lines like that it's because the guy is trying to flatter you so that he can score! You women like compliments don't you? Well some guys compliment that way. You can't blame us guys all the time. I have noticed many women love showing their cleavage by wearing plunging neck lines. Make up your minds please! If you don't want us to look at them then cover them up!

Maybe it's really because we guys are shy, and can't seem to raise our eyes up but so high. Maybe we just need a big ol' lingering hug. LOL!

"Excuse Me, But I Am Up Here" - your statement and topic Yes I see why its annoying and people should stop drifting to the area Jerritts. (and if someone actually said what you reiterated in discussion then yes that is just plain wrong). Some guys do it thinking they are cool (the ones with the remarks) but many guys like the physical female form. Of course that's a crime in stateside, but hey, women like the physical male form and that's not been shamed into oblivion -_- Women also react adversely to the other side of the coin too. What I mean is that this situation is similar to women who frown or have this sour face on when I'm talking to them, thats in a similar context and much more annoying (at least the men want to look at you, the women in my case look like they are seeing Medusa). "Excuse Me, but I'm not a monster. Quit with the weird faces and other crap" - me When talking/interacting I know what you are thinking, but I'm not going to be in your presence for long. There's no need for scowling because I don't look like whatever the hell male celeb you want or better, bugger off about it. Hmph. The best is when its verbally admitted (think of the quotes you put down, turn them to overall physical status and magnify the cruelty). Disgusting creatures. -_- Just like you asked guys and the question is easy to deduce, I'll ask my question to girls: "Why would you do something like this??" And unlike your situation, your thoughts and what a couple of other respondents said, I have ZERO recourse. Can't threaten, can't respond, can't be physical. Its implied we have to take the garbage. It may seem different to you, but its quite similar. Both negatively effect conversation. Both can make a person feel uncomfortable. The difference is, there's some objectification in your case but still people want to look; in mine its the opposite (well, still objectivified but far worse). Just something I thought of when encountering this Jerritt. ************ If it happened to the GF, I might get reactive. No doubts. ************ Later.

hahahaha!! omg i loved this soo much i couldnt stop laughing!! oh yess yess..i have been threw this my whole entire life..i used to have DDD's..and when i got prego with Skylar i went to an F ibelieve..and man my back killed me lol.but im down to DD's and i still get it..and i used to get infuriated..and would say outloud no matter where i was at..HELLOO MY EYES ARE UP HERE! and i wouldnt care if they got embarrassed..lol..i used to have a shirt taht actually said if ur talkin to me i best see your eyes..lol..but now im soo over it..and no matter what i do it stil happens so i blow it off most the time..though i have my aggitated moments that i will stil hell hey my eyes are up here!!!!! but noiw i just take it as ya..they rock on and enjoy lol..im just tired of fighting..its a hopeless cause anymore lol..

Well, this is a tricky theme)) But, well, I just stop talking and wait till he rises his eyes, it's so funny to see their reaction later, how they apologize, blush and are simply talking weird stuff))) And, by the way, try to look at it from the funny side, it's them who must feel uncomfortable) ^_^