What do you think that the couple will separate for a short time?

haha it seems that the mouse will play coz the cat runs away...enjoy yourself

i havenot married,but i understand..

short time separation is really good...I was all by myself for 10 day when my bfriend was away...couldn't be better... But after 10 days, yes, I missed him so much...

during the first year of our marriage my husband works on a different city and sometimes he and his boss go to different country for meetings. i dont enjoy the days when he is not around. for i am only left alone in the house and not enjoying eating alone. now that we have a baby though i miss him when he is away for a week or so, it was no longer that sad and that boring for i am busy with our child. on my side even he is around i can do what ever i want.

i think it can be a good thing. you know what they say about the absence makes the heart grow fonder. while your other half is away. You can focus on where you in the relationship and where you want to be. it is also a chance to breathe and have some me time too.

sometimes is good for the couple and others time is worst,somo of my friends do it and they have more troubles with their couple,i think the best way is talking a lot and fix the problem,no separate each other,bye pd:excuse my english but is limited im from argentina best regards!!

Couples will enjoy in their sepearation for short times isn't it? i think this will make them feel for each other more and more and also their love will grow stronger in absense of each others isn't it and this has been proved by many peopel who practiced this

Yup i agree with you. Sometimes we need to have some alone time and reflect something. Being alone is what i missed when i got married but don't get me wrong i happier when i got married and i just need some time alone to balance things with me and my husband.

I feel the same way when me and my husband are apart. I think every couple needs a little time apart once in a while. When we first got married we would spend a couple days apart at least once every other month, but here lately we aren't able to do that. But anyway, I think it is healthy and necessary to help keep both of your sanity to have a break every now and then.

I think it is a healthy break. Although a couple is a team, they are also individual. Everyone has his/her privacy and s (he) does need break from each other. Consequently, the short time separation will do each other good. Youless, I am on your side. LOL

Well I think thats the great Idea for us to have time for our self,but for sure I will miss my husband if the time comes that we have to separate for a while,and the other good side is I am free I can go and I can do whatever I want.Oh! Im so excited haha!

I went away with the children for a week this summer to a camper. We had LOTS of fun. My partner stayed behind. Though I have a cell phone I pretty much keep it off and didn't get very good reception out there in the woods. I did call once that week but he was working and his sister got the message. Though I admit there was a night or two I would have liked him there to cuddle up with, I still really enjoyed just me and the children doing something fun. But what was funny was how much my partner missed me. He was so happy to see us when we came home. He was waiting at the door right when we got in. I think it is great to have some time away from each other. Makes you remember how much you like having them around. HEHE

I agree with you ,that is right.I think separation is needed for couples,though i don't marry now.It is also for sweet.Every one need their own space to live.We have something to do by oneself,we need liberty.Separate for a short time don't mean we do not love each other,it may accelerate the relationship. You are right!

i like free ,i like the feeling of trvaling myself

yup, its really need to do, my dear. sometimes caused we always be with our husband daily, we just feel little not too missing his present around us. we sometimes feel should be adjust with his want and behaviour. but when we take separate each other for a while, as like in your case, i just feeling missing him much and want to have his present around my self :P another things, i can do anything that i like more freely than before. and yup! TV! oh gee, what a wonderful time to have the tv shows alone without anyone disturb caused wanna see anothe program in another channel ;)

My husband travels often on work and is not home for a couple of days atleast every month. I enjoy the time then...because my workload is less and I also get to watch a television at night when the kids are in bed (which I can't do when husband is around). I'm also a little peaceful and less harried because it is one less person that I have to take care of:)

i think its good. for few days staying apart makes things a little bit interesting. You can enjoy yourself, he can do so also. it also nice when he comes back.

its good for both the couple to take sometime away from each other's company. it doesnt mean you dont love each other anymore. space should be given to a relationship so as to grow for the better. besides absence makes the heart grow fonder right?!

yeah.. i would appreciate a short break also.. not that i hate having my husband around.. but i cant do much of 'my own thing' if he's around. with just the kidz... i could cook a simple meal, and they wouldnt mind.. but with my husband around.. i have to 'really' cook, and get the meals done 'on time' - it just gets a bit toooo tiring sometimes... so if he's not around.. the kidz and i would eat 'simpler' food - sandwich.. cereals... soup... and after that i could just laze around and watch tv, or read... or... sleep!!

Hi youless, You are right.I leave my wife 2 days in a week because of my touring job. I do not know whether she enjoyed the break or not, I use to enjoy because on the last day of my returning home my whole thinking will be on my wife.This break used to bring us more closer.Now we are together since last 26 years of our marriage. Good Luck.