Telling your sin before God, but does it have to be before man

If your husband doesn't want to know the rest of your past, then don't tell him. Maybe he gets hurt too for you, so he prefers not to know at all. If he'll ask you why you can't give him a child, then answer straightforward but in a nice way. God has forgiven you but there are things we have done in life that might have damaged ourselves and God cannot just undo it. Just try to pray harder and seek professional help hel. As the saying here in the Philippines, God will bless and help you but you must be the one to do something about what you want to do.

you asked God to forgive you and the Bible says he forgives us of our sins when we go to him with a repentent heart. Your husband has told you he didn't want to hear about your past, and I don't believe telling him would have made a difference in God's willingness to forgive you. Did you ever have an abortion? Possibly that's why you haven't been able to have more children??? I don't know. I do not believe God is denying you children because of your sins. He is a loving God, not a punishing God.

Personally I feel there are some things in our life that are Best left alone, and only God should be the one to know about them. I feel when we as Christians choose to ask for Forgiveness when are Baptized in his name, he takes these things, and hides them under the Blood to forget them and never be brought up again. I know it is sometimes hardest thing to do is forgive ourselves and learn to move on. But when we can do this in life, we are a way better person afterall.

I believe that we just need to confess our sins to God. now if you have sinned against another person say gossiped and caused that person to lose his job then you need to confess to that person. You tried to tell your husband and he didn't want to hear about the other men. You have done all you could there. I also believe that we have to live with the consequences of those sins. A man murders another person. He can ask God to forgive him but he still has to go to prison. I believe that your confessing those other men to your husband would not have changed ant thing. God forgives us but we still have to live with the results of those sins. He doesn't always take those results away.

to be honest I don't think one thing has to do with another, your inability to have children would still be there even if you were a saint, it is a biological issue that affects good people as well as bad. don't be hard on yourself, you can't mix a medical condition with a moral one, they are to separate issues. Your husband didn't want to know more so you have nothing to feel bad about

Hey s, I don't believe you need to confess your sins to man only to your Father God.Psalm 32:5 I acknowledge my sin unto thee, and mine iniquity have I not hid. I said, I will confess my transgressions unto the LORD; and thou forgavest the iniquity of my sin. I also believe that if you take your mind off trying to conceive a child you may have a better chance to conceive or have you thought about fostering or adpotion? Also, some things are better left unsaid so lightening your load by telling your husband a bit but keeping the rest between you and God may have been for the best. +'s :)

I believe that I should only confess my sins to God. God will forgive me for my sins if I confess to him and repent, but if I confess sins to people then I leave room for them to gossip and think differently of me no matter how much I have changed from the past. I feel like it's none of their business. The bible says that we all have sinned and came short of his glory so the only thing that I will confess to a person is that I have sinned but I'm not going to tell you what I did. That's for God to judge. I don't want people confessing to me I would rather them work it out with God. I believe that if you truely repented for your sin that you asked God to forgive you for then he already forgave you. You are not being punished for not being able to have children after marriage. Maybe there was just a different plan.

THere are things some men just dont want to know about . and If your god is a loving one he forgave ya before ys asked. I dont think what happened in the past had any thing to do with god punishing you for it. Its just the way it all turned out.

Well if your husband is not that comfortable in knowing all the details I think you don't need to to feel that you are relieve from the sins which you think you have confessed and ask forgiveness from them. If you are a Catholic you could do that by doing the sacrament of penance. if you are not maybe you could try you local minister or if not consulting a therapist about it would definitely help. I think you are relying too much on your conscience. I do believe that you should calm yourself down and believe that He has forgiven you and go and live and be happy with the blessings that you have. You have a wonderful and understanding husband who has accepted you and your past. Be gratefuil with what you have and am pretty sure if you become aware of that you will live a much happier person than what you are now.

remember Jesus words about prayer or confession (Matt.6:6. But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thine inner chamber, and having shut thy door, pray to thy Father who is in secret, and thy Father who seeth in secret shall recompense thee. )

I was taught that god forgives all that is all you have to do is ask,so since you confessed you should have been forgiven,confessing all the others to your husband would not have gotten you the forgiveness you are looking for and I really don't think God has held it against you.Have a great evening.

Hi suspenseful, God is great . God can do all miracles which medical science cannot do. So keep praying to god, Yu have alredy confessed to god and hope he will give you courage and confidence to you to confess in front of your partner, and tell him about all past incidence pls do not keep him in dark, if he realy loves you than he will accept you as you are. than it will the turn of god and you may have your own children. Iam sure if you did not tell all incidents and keep him in dark than life will be worst for you. Have self cofidence and move a head, Almighty god is with you.

No matter what sins you have committed before having your husband. There is one who is greater than us all and the Forgiver of ALL SINS. Your sins are already FORGIVEN. Psalm 32 verse 1 says" Blessed is he whose trangression is forgiven,and whose sin is covered. So you see your sins are already covered by Jesus Christ the only Son of God. Pray and ask him to help you in these difficult times. If you dont mind Yon can choose to read the Story about The woman Hannah. 1Samuel Chapter 1 Verses 1-18. She wanted a child and God bleesed her with Samuel. So if your husband choose not to hear anything, maybe it hurts for you to tell him more about your past, so if I were you I would not tell him anymore, but be to him the best wife you can ever be. God bless you both.

Jesus tells us that only way to the kingdom of God is through Jesus, not men... I believe confession works same... When you confess & ask for forgiveness, it's through Jesus, not your husband... That being said, it would a personal preference if you wanna tell your husband... If you tried & he doesn't wanna know about it? Well, I guess you can respect that... If you still feel the need to talk to your husband about it, maybe you guys can go to a Christian counslor & talk about it...

If you are a truly Christian, before you confess it, God has forgiven you. I can't see the connection between your confession to your husband and God will grant you a child. If God wanted you having children, He will give to you even though you are a sinner. If your husband didn't want to hear the other sins, do not push him. Because there is no relationship between your confession to him and having a baby.. Just thank God for every opportunity, for your husband and learn from your mistakes.. If God wants you having a baby, nothing is impossible. But if God doesn't want to give it, He knows what's the best for you..

God is Sovereign!! Remember when Rachel begged Jacob to give her children? What was his response to her? I can not give you what only God can. (paraphrased that) We NEVER deserve anything good God does in our lives. It is all a result of what Jesus Christ did on the Cross for us. Without His blood we could not stand before a Holy God and be clean. Now You are to confess your SIns to God, your faults(I worry too much) to one another. Your husband does not need to know all of that other stuff because that is not who you are now. I am so thankful God does not judge us based on our past! Remember it rains on the just as well as the unjust; in other words a physical condition does not equate sin or evil in your life. It is just a fact of life. WE go through things with his grace upon us to bear these trials. Don't think God is punishing you! He loves us and will draw us closer to Him by allowing us to go through things we don't understand. Just continue to live for Him, teach those babies about Him and see what else He provides for you.

If you have asked forgiveness from the heart, i believe that God has forgiven you. But you also have to forgive yourself. In committing sin, we bear the consequences of those sins even after we have been forgiven. Being unable to conceive is just a consequence of the sins that you made. God doesn't actually punish us because God is all loving and forgiving. You also have to forgive yourself and tell the truth. As they said, guilt could hinder you to go forward. Subconsciously, you may have felt guilty because you have not told your husband the whole truth. All i can say, is to keep on praying because miracles do happen. God loves you.

You need to realize that only God can forgive you of your sins, not man. Whether you tell man or not is totally irrelevant and not always necessary. Also, you need to realize that God is a miracle worker. By that I mean, you may think that you can never have children...but God can restore and heal anything and everything. There have been cases where people have tied, cut, burned, you name it to their tubes and miraculously they were put back together as if the surgery had never been done. YOu have to have faith and pray. God isn't punishing you for you past. if you have asked Him for forgiveness and truly meant it, then God doesn't even remember the sin you committed in the first place. Every sin that God forgives is wiped away and He has no memory of it. Keep the faith and pray. Good luck to you and God bless

Have a faith in god.God is great.he loves all of us.As some one say's "Only one sacrifice clear our all sins of life" Its true and also If you look to the god he looks to you.

wow, this is a tough one. I was in a different but the same scenario. The first one was accidentally revealed and I was forgiven but it was all too hard at the beginning. There were times that we recall it and then she would cry and be quiet for awhile. I mean, it was almost a year ago when it happened and we seldom talk about it now. I was glad that she found out about it. I knew from then that she really loved me because she accept me even though I have already betrayed her. Maybe what I am trying to say is if your marriage is based on Love and not just the papers, you should tell him. take the risks of all those punishments. if he forgives you then good. if not, let it move on. It is hard keeping something from the one you love. and if you truly love your husband. you should be honest to him. Now, it is up to your husband how to react to it. And you should accept it. That is what we call consequence. No sin gets unpunished. just my thought. you decide.