would you lie for ur friend
By adnanezzi
@adnanezzi (243)
India
16 responses
@DefiniteMaybe (3)
• United States
11 Feb 08
Yes, it is rare but I have before. I would NOT lie to save them from punishment if I felt it was a serious offense, or would negitivly effect others.
@kat_princess (1470)
• Philippines
11 Feb 08
He's not really my friend actually but I love him the same because I love the people around me.Well,he threw a plastic card in the air and it slashed my cheek.My teacher wanted to know why I shouted in pain.I told her about the card but I didn't say who threw it.
@sheenshaukat (2617)
• Pakistan
1 Feb 08
Telling lie is not good habit. But it works positive in some situations. If your telling lie can save some one from punishment, then it seems a good action. If some one caused a serious guilty then he or she should rewarded by punishment. In such places we should never try to defend them by telling lie. This may cause to convert the punishment to some one innocent. If some one did a minor type crime, then you can save him by telling lie in fever of him or her self. Such type of saying lie is a friendly gift from your side.
@shrub62 (42)
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1 Feb 08
No, I will not lie for anyone. Invariably it will come back to bite you in the butt if you do. Lying is never good for any situation. A person may be upset for a while if you tell the truth but they will get over that much better than if they find out you lied to them. Take it from someone who lives with a lier. It will destroy your life and those around you.
@pastorkayte (2255)
• United States
4 Feb 08
No and if they asked me to lie for them they would not be my friend anymore. Being a friend is being by thier side but not destroying your morals to do it. We all want to be good friends to those we love but lying is not the way.
@Liasonfan (1702)
• Canada
30 Jan 08
Ok, yes I would say I would indeed lie for a friend and have done so on some occasions. Little lies that if the truth were known it would really hurt another friend, etc. Of course, there might be a limit, I am not sure, I have never actually been faced with something really serious and likely would not lie or purger myself in court, it is just something I could not (I don't thinks so anyways) bring myself to do. I would say it would definately depend on how good of friends we were and what the lie would entail. Ok, I just contradicted myself, I know, but let me just say that I hope I am never put in that situation and have to find out!
@jhazie (340)
• Philippines
31 Jan 08
Hi, some other situation if thats good reason why not, but if you lie about his or her wrong just to run funishment thats not right. you teach him or her to do that again and ruin life after all, no changes guys. some cases they save friend for good, so they lie. theres so called two lies on earth.
@SukiSmiles (1991)
• United States
31 Jan 08
Yes, in college and I will never do it again. I didn't realize it until later, but that girl really wasn't my friend and I thought she was. A real friend would not have you lie for her to get her out of punishment. I felt horrible that 1. I had lied and 2. She used me. At least I learned a lesson.
@chrysz (1602)
• Philippines
31 Jan 08
Not yet but if I do, I would lie for a friend to save him/her from SEVERE punishment but s/he must not abuse it because I won't do it all the time.
@Farside604 (870)
• Canada
31 Jan 08
Im definatly familiar with this type of situation. I have probably bailed my friends out of trouble more times than any one person should. As for lying to keep a freind out of trouble i dont think its such a bad thing.
@jhl930 (3601)
• United States
30 Jan 08
I've lied for my friends before when they were in trouble but that was in high school....like one was cursing and someone went and told and the teacher came and ask us if he was really cussin and we all swore that we never heard a curse word come out of his mouth. I haven't ever really lied to save a friend from a serious situation like going to jail or anything. Of course I have never been put in that situation either...where if I didn't lie for a friend he was going to jail....but I think that if it was something that wasn't really serious I might lie but if it were something that I could get in alot of trouble for...I highly doubt I would lie
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
30 Jan 08
If it was something major then there is no way I'd lie for them..they made their mess they can sit in it as far as I'm concerned...If it were something minor, chances are I'd just completely avoid getting involved at all....I have no time for that sort of thing and there is no place for it in my life