What will you do if your parents do you an injustice?
By lucy67
@lucy67 (819)
China
February 14, 2008 7:39am CST
Our parents love us very much but sometimes they may do us an injustice. What will you do? Will you argue with them and tell them they are wrong no matter how angry they may become? Will you give up explaining for yourself when you realize your explanation will only make them angry? Would you rather be wronged than make your parents angry?
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10 responses
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
12 Mar 08
There was a time I gave up arguing injustice my parents did, they are loving people but still they are human make mistakes. But since I couldn't get it off my chest I became a rebel and trouble maker, it took me years to realize that it all starts inside with the family and has to be solved there too.
@simplyman2006 (1706)
• India
11 Mar 08
well this happen with me many times . when ever they do wrong things then i say them that you are wrong they really get angry or sometime they agree iwth me. but it hapeens some time not at all.
@zodgfamily (285)
• China
8 Mar 08
I would rather be wronged than make make my parents angry...They love me and that's the most important thing.But for small things I would have a discussion with them just for fun...
@asawako48162 (3321)
• United States
29 Feb 08
lucy i was lucky to have the parents i had..they are both in heaven but they raised me the best they could and i used to not think so at the time..
people may love their parents but they rarely forgive them..an old adage
but my wife lost her dad at eight and never knew her mom but she grew up with relatives and turned out ok as she had a good role model while growing up.
we are married 22 years..but it is not all a bed od roses and always happy days..we have sweet and sour...as you get more experience you find more serenity in life and learn what really is the important things..love comes at it own pace..and love is always a mystery...as our parents love is unconditional..or i should say mine..was..but you don't know that until later..good luck..chose wise.
oh..by the way..yes, many times i make my parents mad at me..my bad? but the worst thing my mother told me..she called me " you dumb cookie" but this was not funny at the time as she was disgusted with me but life goes on and she forgave me and so did my dad...they say good living (money?successful living::_) forgives a multitude of sins...Good luck in year of Rat..I am Rooster and wife is a Dragoon
@zabmer (36)
• India
19 Feb 08
It depends on what level of communication one is with ones parent.If you think its going to make a difference to let them know your views then go ahead but if it only makes them unhappy then its no point hurting them.Unless you want to vent out your anger knowing its only going to hurt them besides things are not in there control they do not do injustice intentionally ,if so then there must be some reason behind it.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
14 Feb 08
My first reaction and response is that NOT all parents actually love their kids....that being said, it would of course depend on that and what the injustice was...In my case, they didnt and dont love me and the injustice was horrible...What did I do? Suffered for several yrs in extreme ways...Then I cut all ties with them...and thats how it will remain..I also learned during my healing process that it never was my fault, I was never to blame nor did I ever deserve what happened to me...It was very difficult to get to that point and finally realize and actually BELIEVE it but it was well worth the tears and hard work..
@bbsr13 (4196)
• India
14 Feb 08
Hello,Lucy! Often it so happens that for no fault of the children and not understanding their genuine problems, we the parents get annoyed with them and scold them.it is actually not good to punish the children.we must understand them and their psychology and advice them properly so that they may correct themselves if not they may react badly,this is child psychology.thank you.
@jodazaca (36)
• United States
18 Feb 08
My mother has done us an injustice. She left us in the lurch with no notice and without a baby sitter. She had lived with us and watched them while we worked. I still talk to her because she is my mother but I can't trust her with anything important.