Should I Get Contact Lenses?

@Pigglies (9329)
United States
February 16, 2008 2:15pm CST
Would you recommend contact lenses? For a long time I wore glasses. I never was able to get the right prescription. Then later I found out that what I needed was a tint to my glasses and that really helped. Now tinted contacts are available, I'm thinking of getting some. I hate wearing glasses. Everyone makes fun of me. I feel like by wearing glasses, I'm decreasing my chances to do things. For example, soon I will hopefully be going on interviews to grad schools... I will go in wearing glasses and they'll think I look ridiculous and not want me. Or worse they'll think I'm trying to be rude. But if I had contacts, I don't think anyone could really tell.
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16 responses
• United States
16 Feb 08
I've got them but I very rarely wear them. My hubby on the other hand wears them every time he goes out except for work. My eyes dry out so quickly esp around smoke - and all our family smokes. And even though I got a kind that is better for it I guess I just got so use to wearing my glasses that I just forget about the contacts LOL. But I know lots of people that wear them everyday without problems :) I think you should give them a try :)
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@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
17 Feb 08
I've never had a problem with dry eyes. But you did just make me think of something... I work with formaldehyde somewhat frequently (more frequently than the average person for sure). I guess all I have to do is make sure I still keep my old glasses on hand for days I have to work with that stuff. I know it usually irritates all the people with contacts. I think I will give the contacts a try. :)
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• United States
18 Feb 08
That would be a good idea :) I'm glad you're going to give contacts a shot. Let me know how you like them.
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@AmbiePam (94173)
• United States
17 Feb 08
I have worn both soft contacts, gas permeable contacts, and glasses. If you get get soft contacts, then I say ditch the glasses and you'll be so happy you did. If for some reason your optemtrist won't fit you for soft contacts, I say stick with the glasses. I hate gas permeables with a passion. They made me feel like sand was constantly in my eyes. Soft contacts on the other hand, feel like nothing is even on your eye.
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@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
17 Feb 08
Thank you very much for that tip! I don't know what kind of contacts these would be, but now I will definitely check. All I know is that they are whatever type can tint. For my glasses, I have to get plastic (which is okay because I hate polycarbonate with a passion after having them once) for the tinting process. So I don't know which type of contacts tint. But I definitely wouldn't want to feel like I had sand in my eyes.
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@timou87 (1638)
• Singapore
27 Feb 08
Most people wear contact lenese purely for cosmetic purposes, but those who do not take peoper hygiene of their contact lenese risk running infections that could cuse them to even lose their sight! Besides, tredny and fashionable spectacles look great these days!
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@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
27 Feb 08
But infections are treatable, so you can always go to the doctor long before you'd lose sight. I am a bit afraid of making my vision worse by wearing contacts (I've heard of that happening with hard contacts). I only have one eye that I see out of, the other one is for cosmetic purposes pretty much. I disagree about trendy glasses. I told the eye doctor I always get made fun of, so please just pick them out for me because I like the wrong thing apparently. I spent over $700 total on my glasses with the lenses... Coach glasses. Still, everyone at work makes fun of me. I even had a college professor make fun of me! I just don't want people to know I have an eye problem. How am I going to get a job if people think I'm trying to be silly and look like John Lennon?
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@nangel78 (1454)
• United States
17 Feb 08
I prefer wearing glasses, but this is because I do not like having anything in my eyes..not even visine or water. I have always been sensitive to that kind of thing. So I did not want to have to deal with taking something in and out of my eyes on a frequent basis. It makes things a lot easier for me.
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@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
18 Feb 08
I would prefer wearing glasses if they worked better probably. But it's just annoying that if you wear glasses, you can't see out the side. Or up top. Or below. It's constant head tilting. I read with my neck in such uncomfortable positions. I don't like water in my eyes either, but I'm thinking contacts might actually give me better vision.
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@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
12 Mar 08
So with contacts you can just glance like you normally would without glasses right? See, that's a huge part of why I want contacts. And a huge part of why I used to always eventually put away my glasses and not wear them.
@vivasuzi (4127)
• United States
12 Mar 08
I agree, always have to tilt your head. Driving is 10 times harder on the days I wear glasses b/c I can't just glance behind me to see. I actually have to turn all the way around to see!
@martinha (631)
• Portugal
17 Feb 08
I don't think you should change just because your friends make fun of you. That's really stupid of them. You should change because of you and your health. I had to wear glasses, them I changed to contact lenses and know I'm free of both. It's better to use contact lenses than glasses, it's easier but if you don't wash them it can cause you serious problems in your eyes. If you really want it, go for it.
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@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
17 Feb 08
It's not just my friends that make fun of me, I've even had college professors make fun of me or single me out for wearing glasses. I just don't want it to affect my future negatively. I'll have to wear glasses or contacts forever. Before contacts weren't even available to me. Now that they are, I'm seriously considering them.
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@rombus (13)
• United States
17 Feb 08
Well, in you think that contacts are best then go with them. You have to be ready for all the hasle of taking care of them. I got mine like three weeks ago, and am now at a ritual of careing for them. It is easy to get used to them and the only problem is putting them on...
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@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
17 Feb 08
I think I'll be able to put on contacts. I can touch my eyes no problem. I haven't had screws fall out of my glasses or anything, but I do tend to be bad and take them off and I know with contacts I really wouldn't do that. I don't keep my glasses clean at all, but with contacts I'm sure I'd have to. And I know I'm capable of keeping things clean because I used to have tons of special needs pets on medications and I was constantly cleaning syringes and stuff very thoroughly. As long as it's a routine, I can do it. :)
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@elmiko (6630)
• United States
17 Feb 08
I recommend contact lenses. There are alot more comfortable for me. I don't have to worry about glasses being loose or the screws falling out of them.
@MGjhaud (23240)
• Philippines
17 Feb 08
I think wearing contacts looks better on people. I have a friend who wears contacts and its color is good when look closely. If your eyes is your best asset, try getting a contact lenses. I have contact lenses but it has no grade at all, just a fashion whatsoever given by my friend. I never wear it outside because i'm afraid of dust or whatever that might hurt my eyes then. but really wearing contacts is good to look at. try getting those with colors. :)
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@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
17 Feb 08
Mine will definitely be tinted, just like my glasses. They'll probably just make my eyes look a bit darker, which is okay because I have those colorless grey eyes.
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@vivasuzi (4127)
• United States
12 Mar 08
Why would they think you look ridiculous for wearing glasses? Half the people I know wear glasses. If anything, it makes them look smarter on the interview. I definitely love my contacts though. Contacts stay in place much better than glasses, and they are less iritatting to wear all day. Glasses tend to bug me after 1/2 a day.
@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
12 Mar 08
I just don't want to look rude on an interview. My normal glasses look like sunglasses to some people. I'm not sure why, because if they were sunglasses, they would be way too light to do much good. But I don't want to seem rude. One of my professors thought I was being rude before. I'm always taking my glasses off. If I don't really need to see clearly for awhile, I just take them off. So that'd be good if contacts are not as irritating. 2 more weeks and I'm going in to check out contacts!
@Loen210 (1540)
• United States
12 Mar 08
Wow, that's so bad for people to make fun of you. If I didn't know your age, I would think that you are a young elementary school child. That's when I was so against my getting glasses. I feared being made fun of, looking ugly, and becoming a dork if I wore glasses. I really shoudl have, but i was very athletic, where glasses got in the way, and I hated the feel of wearing glasses rubbign againist the face. I actually still really hate wearing glasses, which i do. It's mostly for comfort. I've seen many people who DO look really good in glasses. I remember back in my younger days, in high school, I was so attracted to this one person who had glasses. Without his glasses, i thought he looked kind of funny, especilaly how used to that I was. And he was really popular too. Anyway, back to the main subject. I have had a great deal of trouble switching to contacts. They also really bother my eyes. Like I hate the feeling of having glasses stub into your fface, contacts stub into my eyes, and make them quite sore too. I can only seem to wear them for a couple of hours. But others I know hacve no problem with it, and just have to try not to forget to take them off when it's time to hit the bed. I could never do that, as I can feel them so strongly. So, works for some and doesn't for some. Good luck. Give them a try and see how it feels. Some get bad headaches also with contacts, so you'll see how it goes.
@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
12 Mar 08
Some people there wear glasses, but no one else wears tinted glasses. That one professor was a Southerner and I guess in the South it is rude to wear tinted glasses.
@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
12 Mar 08
I had glasses in elementary school, but they never worked for me. The problem is, I have 2 problems. So in elementary school, they were trying to treat just the one. And that one wasn't causing me all that much problem. I didn't care about glasses in school because everyone had glasses back then (what 7 year old wears contacts?). But wearing a patch, that was another story. Fast forward to years of not wearing glasses because glasses gave me headaches (turns out I have never had the right prescription). Now I finally know what's wrong, but I have to wear tinted glasses. You must not have worked in an office before, but people constantly joke around and pick on things. They make fun of my glasses all the time. And I've had a college professor say how rude it was to wear glasses before, and I didn't realize he was talking about me until 15 minutes into it... when I turned bright red. I do hate the way glasses rub on my nose. And I hate the way the frames limit my vision (I only have one useful eye, so without glasses I have 135 degrees of vision, but with them, I have to turn my head constantly it seems). I get headaches all the time. Finally having the right glasses has mostly stopped them though. So I'm hoping that contacts will be as good as glasses, and actually, better. Because it would be nice to have 135 degrees of vision again. I hate how glasses take away your peripheral vision.
@Loen210 (1540)
• United States
12 Mar 08
I don't know what college you go to, but it seems like the teachers are a bit high ego, in an inappropriate way. I've never heard of any teacher saying that it is rude to wear glasses! I've had so many teachers who wear glasses themselves. And I've never been in an office where they continually make fun of people with glasses! That's ridiculous of them to do. None of them wear glasses? Or at least I'd think their own family members or friends do. (Unless perhaps they are all college age, who often wear contacts, I suppose.)
@Rhoadan (42)
• United States
16 Mar 08
Nobody seems to have mentioned this, but you can choose frames for aesthetics or fashion. This might make a difference in the mockery. If all you've got is BCG's (military issue glasses aka "birth control glasses" because they're notoriously ugly) or the aesthetic equivalent, you're going to hear about it. Stupid, I know. If you do decide to go for contacts and they will make for better peripheral vision, talk to the ophthalmologist about gas perms vs. soft lenses. Soft lenses are much more comfortable, but gas perms will stabilize your prescription if it changes a lot from year to year. Basically they're rigid so they have to be ground to conform to the shape of your eyeball. That said, while you're wearing them, they keep the eyeball from deforming further. I have a friend who wears them for that reason.
@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
17 Mar 08
Oh, I already took care of that angle when I got the glasses. See... normally, I like guys glasses. I like that bar along the top. But I knew no one else does. So I made the glasses lady pick a pair for me. I ended up paying crazy amounts of money because of this, ended up with Coach glasses that after the lenses ended up costing me over $700. And I hate these glasses, but they are definitely in style. I don't have deformed eyes, so I don't need special contacts for that. That's not my problem. My eye ball shape should give me 20/20 vision in both eyes. However, one eye doesn't see hardly anything at all and the other is not 20/20. All I need is some regular contacts. My prescription might change, but so far I think it really never has. Every time I go to an eye doctor I get a radically different prescription, but the main reason for that is that I am not good at reading black letters on a white background.
@rombus (13)
• United States
17 Feb 08
Well, in you think that contacts are best then go with them. You have to be ready for all the hasle of taking care of them. I got mine like three weeks ago, and am now at a ritual of careing for them. It is easy to get used to them and the only problem is putting them on...
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@camaro68 (34)
• Canada
17 Feb 08
I would definately recommend contacts, I too had glasses and people always made fun of the way I looked, but one day a friend recommended contacts so I got some. I saw my friends the next day and they didn't even know I had contacts. It was great!
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@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
18 Feb 08
That's what I'm hoping, is that you won't even be able to tell I'm wearing contacts when I get them.
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@podqueen (340)
26 Feb 08
Yes I would recommend them. As much as I hate anyone touching my eyes I don't seem to have a problem inserting lenses into my own eyes, if you know what I mean. I wear soft lenses and they are so comfortable to wear. You shouldn't let what other people think worry you and affect what you want to do. Maybe you should try some contact lenses on a trial basis and see how you get on with them and see how you feel. I'm sure you don't look ridiculous with glasses, maybe it's an age thing, I remember when I was younger I was teased a lot at school for wearing glasses - being called 4 eyes etc - usual childish nonsense!
@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
27 Feb 08
People always say not to let what others think of you affect you, but in reality, we all do it all the time. If you're dressing up for a job interview, you care what others think that might hire you. If I'm switching to contacts, I want to look like a good applicant for graduate schools. I never got teased a whole lot as a kid, but I rarely wore my glasses because they gave me horrible headaches. I finally got the right prescription now (well, close enough) and it has a tint to it, so people laugh at me. Not at school so much (except for one professor), but at work constantly.
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• United States
18 Mar 08
I've never encountered an issue with my glasses, like mockery or limited opportunity because of glasses (at least that I'm aware of), but I think it's strange you find it so. Wear whatever is more comfortable, convenient, and within your price range. I wear glasses and never even tried contacts, but colored ones definitely tempt me. Trust me, if your doing interviews and your glasses are bothering you this much, it's best that you immediately deal with it and embrace the frames, or just do the quick fix and get contacts. There are bigger things in your life, I'm sure, to worry about than this. If it's convenient, and within price ranges, get the contacts. You obviously dislike and feel uncomfortable with glasses.
@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
19 Mar 08
My price range isn't very high, but unfortunately my lenses cost a lot. My current glasses were $700+. I'm going in next week for new glasses or hopefully contacts. I have no idea how much contacts will cost yet, but if they're not too bad I'd like to get some. Mine will have to be colored, but I don't think it will be too noticeable. Definitely much less noticeable than glasses. It's not the frames that bother me so much, mostly just the lenses. I don't like the frames, but I know they are supposed to be popular (they're Coach frames). So I doubt the frames are the problem.
@alamzaib (1287)
• Pakistan
2 Mar 08
contact lenses whould be benefit for you If you are buying contact lenses from your optometrist they will be able to tell you the contact lenses that will work best for your eyes and the prices. They will also be able to order them right away and you won’t need a copy of your prescription. If you already know the contact manufacturer you prefer it will make shopping around a little easier.
@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
3 Mar 08
I'm not familiar with brands at all as I've never tried contacts. I'll have to buy my contacts directly rather than online because online places won't do special orders like tinted contacts (which I'll need).
@paidreader (5143)
• United States
28 Feb 08
Hi Pigglies. I chose to start out with soft contacts when I had an exam that indicated I needed some correction for nearsightedness. At that time, I had a very busy schedule and would sometimes fall asleep with them still in. Unfortunately, this isn't recommended. While infections could be cured, photophobia, a sensitivity to light stays with you. As you are already using tinted lenses, you may already have this. Be sure that you're prepared for the additional time it's going to take for the care and cleaning of your contacts so that you don't add to your problems.
@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
28 Feb 08
I already have extreme sensitivity to light. It couldn't get much worse. I can't even read black letters on white without glasses for more than a few minutes. I'm good about cleaning things that really need to be cleaned. I don't have much extra time, but I figure if I have enough to brush my teeth I have enough for contacts too. With tinted contacts, you won't be able to tell and they're still supposed to help with light sensitivity.