who will you marry with?

I prefer to be the giver than the taker here. In a r/s there is much to give and take, so I believe that before I take, I should work hard to give unconditionally. For it is only through this will real love be real and for a r/s to blossom. Don't get me wrong for a hopeless romantic or idealist. On the contrary, read along the lines and you will know that there are no free lunches in this world.

Mostly people would like to choose the one who love her.But I think I will marry someone who I donn't love and he doesn't love me either.^^I just think it is fair.

well to be honest, i am already married for almost four years now and we both love each other very much. it wasn't a i love him or he loves me, we loved each other from the start. we have had our problems, but what couple doesn't. i got lucky and found my one and only true love as well as he found his. i believe that you shouldn't just settle for someone because you don't wanna be alone. i believe that everyone was born to love one person with all their heart and soul and sometimes it takes a while to find that person, but once you do it is so worth it. he's my soulmate and i was born to love him and only him in a way that i could never love anyone else in my entire life. thanks for posting and God bless

ha ha...I'm lucky, I love my partner, so does my partner, we love each other, it's really perfect. if the two could not become the same one, perhaps I would select the one who love me, lol...the life will become beautiful, too.

the person i would get married to is someone who loves me for who i am we both sould return love

It should be both. Marry the man you love, and he should love you in return...

Nobody can give the accuracy. Nobody. Every person expects a perfect life. I would be a conservative one now by following the wave after my past experience, the gain and pain from a relationship, because nobody's perfect as just like wants to. We and they were born with both black and white side. So pushing our target seems more burden than having what we wanted on our past wishes. No one can guarantee love-based marriage life will be a successful family. But living single yet has its own itself difficulties. In both circumstances, if you choose one of them, you will need to be ready to accept both sides, no one can change basic personality and habits easily unless the person him/herself, no one can change the unique life of other's will. Changing is just temporary for curing the wounds, which one time it will be returned again, the situation will be happened now and then. Swing up and swing down in other occasion. My advice is, just adapt to the swing, if you want to be a married one, then you need to prepare mentally to accept both sides of a new life where you never had in your single life. We live on a wheel, sometimes we are on the wheel, sometimes we need to face the dilemma that we are under pressure below of the wheel. "If you want to be forgiven, forgive yourself is the way"

I will marry the man I love and who love me in return. Love is a two-way relationship. If one doesn't cooperate and feels the same way, it will not work out. It will end as a failure.

I think I'll finally choose the one I love,even if he is not love as much as I do. I know it is wiser to choose the one loves me, but if I really do so, something may happens to me. I may have a extra-marital affair, maybe I will encounter ONS. I'll treat him as my family, my close relative. Thus it is unfair to him, right?

I think I don't have choose.hehe.It is very sorry that i don't have girl friends yet.I love the one who not love me.Who love me But I don't love here.Very awful. The last girl I loved is a clerk of a foreign company.She is the most beautiful girl I have ever seen.and she is very friendly and excellent.but she don't like.becasue I don't have hourse and car.This is the last one I loved. I think I worn't love anybody from now on.

I think i will choose the one who loves me,because i like the feeling being loved.It's a tough thing to love a person,especially when he doesn't love you back.and i think even though you may not in love with the person, you will gradually find his/her advantages when you get along with him/her ,and after he doing so many things for u ,you will find yourself fall in love with him/her suddenly.that is to say, the love can be cultured.it's not absolute whether u love a person or not.it may because u didn't put your mind on him/her so you couldn't realise his goodness. and once i married with the man, i think i will try my best to love him.In this progress, the one who loves must offer much more than the one being loved.so maybe i'm just a little selfish, i don't want this tough progress, so i'd rather choose the one loves me.

So far,i am single. because i always find my best lover.but old age comes very fast.if i can't fall in love with my best lover when i am old, i will choose the one who love me, and i have a little feel with her.i think we will fall in love and be together finally.

thats a great question. thats hard to answer because i dont have a set person that has all the requirements i want in a guy and i know i will never get a guy who has them all so i jus decided to let the right guy come to me. the guy i have in my life could be the one but i dont know yet because hes the jealous type and i am the jealous type too so i dont know how long we are gonna work. i mean we do talk on the phone to each other everyday since we can see each other. we live in different statess thats a hard thing to cope with right now

If I was in your position, I'd go for the one who loves me. I too, believe that there is someone out there for you. Though not perfect, but believe me, as a guy, I wouldn't cheat the one I truly love. Just try to be as outgoing as possible. And good luck on your choice.

its hard question to answer. as like you said that it would be so much perfect if married with someone who we loved and giving us love back. but in some case it cant be happened. in those situation i prefer to marry with someone who loves me much more than himself.caused its already typically person in love when you love someone, you able todo anything for the person that you loved for :) at this moment, i am on that situation, i know it was difficult onthe first time but as long as you can go along you would be able to be happy with your spouse

I'm currently married and given another chance I'd marry the same person (if she'd agree). I know that I'm nothing without her!

As for me,I think I will keep single if the one i love and the one loves me is not the same person.Yeah,it is lucky for the individul to find his/her real lover,I mean soul-mate,that is perfect.And in my mind everyone can find his/her ideal one,which is just only a problem of time.Best wishes to you!

of course, i prefer to marry a man who loves me than i love him. because i can be precioused by my husband, i mustn't be afraid he will go away from me. and i will have a stable family from then. lisa

I Will marry with the one loves me more.If i don't love him at all.i perfer single.why i choose the one loves me .i don't know.but i know i will really do it.i 'm very easy touched by others, if he loves me more,i can change myself to receive him.

it's deeply to tell the choice from my heart due to my neglection of the girl's gentleness, leaving me in the lonely city. years latter, no girl running in my mind, I choose reading and working as all my life, causing my unbelieving of this feeling. consequently, waiting, just waiting is my response to the God's invitation. regretfull I am after her leaving with departing seems happenning yesterday. So for the very one, just waitting, and make mistakes not again.