friendship

This actually happened to me. I was so incredibly upset! I do not want to post the exact details of what happened here but escentially I had a friend who did me a huge wrong and I told this other friend about it, every detail I could remember. She then proceeded to, well, sleep with the friend who had wronged me and she also set him up with another friend. When I found out she had set them up I accused her of not caring about me at all. Her words were "well, I wouldn't say that I don't care about you, exactly". I told her that I did not need friends like her in my life and to please never talk to me again. She spent months trying to be my friend but the wrong she had done me was too great and hurt too much for me to ever forgive her. We are no longer friends.

It depends on how severe it is. Is the scam something severe id let him have a nice long chat with the authorities and my lawyer, otherwise id probably not be his friend anymore.

I guess it would depend on what the scam was and how serious the outcome. I'd certainly confront them with it and ask the reason why they'd done it. Then, depending on their reason and the seriousness of the scam, I would probably walk away from them, and never tell them another thing about my personal life. Brightest Blessings.

you can't do anything about the past and un-tell what you have already told, so cut your losses, and move on. We all get betrayed by someone we thought we could trust. We dust ourselves off, get more cautious, and move on.

That already happened to me and it really hurts.At first,I wanted to keep my friendship with him but when I heard that he doesn't want to be friends with me anymore,I just sank in sadness.I eventually hated him to the point that I wanted to kill him but I guess the best thing to do is to forget everything that happened between the two of us including our so-called friendship after what he did to me.

That "friend" is a bad friend. I`m not agree with this type of comportment. Shame for him.

I would be so mad and hurt and would end the friendship quick. I have been done that way several times in my life and when I try a new friendship, I tell them about it and I also tell them I won't take it anymore.

I most certainly would not be friends with them any more. Thats the easiest way to say it. Its happened to me before and I can forgive to a certain point but if it is something serious and major they would definitely lose my respect and friendship.

If you are scammed by a friend who you trusted with your most confidential information, I would suggest confronting them with your concerns, without being bitter, explain your disappointment and that in the future you will know better then confide in them. You can add that you forgive them and only wish them the best. At this point you can move on and remove yourself as a friend or be very close mouth around them. When you forgive someone you can release the anger or hostility that wells inside and it is healthier emotionally and physically. Plus you set an example of what love is. Good Luck

of course, i'll get upset but i will not say anything to her/him, i'll let karma comes after her, am sure; she did it to me, so, somebody will do the same thing to her/him, then he/she will know then how i felt. i will not befriend her anymore cuz she/he is not a friend, anyway.

I'd be hurt and mad and would not be very close to them anymore at all! I am leary of trusting people in this first place, so something like this would most definitely damage this friendship.

Since it is a very close friend, and being a person who cares much about friendship, i will probably work things out instead of just ending our friendship rashly. He/She probably have a reason for scamming you. After reasoning out i can forgive this close friend if he/she is sorry for what every they did and still treasures our friendship. But if they are not sorry for their actions nor treasure our friendship, i guess its not worth being friends with them.