What is it that makes a Man Sexy?

I know that a handsome man is good but some of the sexiest men is not always their looks..I think it starts in their eyes,to way they listen to you when you talk,and attention they give to what you are saying..The easy way they can have,not always ready to jump and assume but they ask you and talk with you about the things that bothers them...They treat you with respect, showing that they care for your feelings and the gentle way that they can treat you..A man that is not afraid to take you places,and is not a control freak, but allows you to be the very best you can be,a man that talks with you,not about you...Always proud of you,and what you do..Always lets you know that he loves you...A man that treats you gently,helps you when you need help..A man that will keep himself up for you so you can be proud of him...A man that talks with you,not talks down to you...,and a man who always give you the benefit of the doubt...Also a man you can talk to without him getting mad and throwing everything you have told him back into your face when he is mad.....A real man, not a hen pecked man but one who generally cares about you and your feelings...If this man is handsome thats just an extra benet.....

hello Donna :)) My Shallow side is just like every females. Good looks, rock hard muscles, great stature shouts sexy. The thing with me is however that all of those things fade pretty quickly if I can not touch the human part of the man. I must have a man that is soft spoken, not inclined to argument that finds my ambitions and dreams as exciting as his own. I find motivation, stimulating conversation along with wondrous humor and a sense of adventure, all the more sexier then looks alone. I must say your picture really floats my boat :)))

i have no idea what makes a man sexy, is there such thing, i never seen a sexy man

Wow there are so many different things that I find sexy...A man with compassion who isnt afraid to show his feminine soft side is one thing...The pic you posted is another...A man who is gentle and caring with the elderly is yet another...A man with a sense of humour WITHOUT being a d!ck yet another still....A balanced man is also very sexy to me...

I really can't define what makes a man sexy. I think it's a combination of things really. He's got to be beautiful - and I'm not talking just about his psychical appearance. Because the most handsome man can be completely unattractive. To me at least. I imagine that everyone has different things that are sexy to them. A few things I've noticed is confidences - but not overly confident, there has to be some innocence to him/about him, some sort of intelligence (I use to think Vin Disel was hot until he spoke in public once and I was like - he really shouldn't talk)...those are just two of the many things. And of course the basic kindness, gentleness, ect all apply. There are very few people that I've actually met that I find sexy - can count them on one hand. There are some celebrities but not too many of them even. I guess I'm really picky LOL. Some things that have nothing to do with the above things but I find that I liked (of course happily married now) was (black) painted fingernails. Love that. I painted my hubbys nails a couple of times when we first started dating...though it was blue 'cause I didn't have any black before then. I don't know what it is about it but I love it.

I don't have a particular criteria of a sexy man... i just know it when i see it... the man can have the looks of Brad Pitt but i don't him as sexy... although i love Brad Pitt in every angle... A man can look, talk, and act like Simon Cowell... but will find him 100% sexy although i don't think much of Simon Cowell... So i don't really know what my own definition of a sexy man is... i just know and feel it once i see this something in a man...

Don't laugh but I find a smiling laughing man very sexy...that melts my bones. As for dress, give me a tall guy with big shoulders in jeans, boots, a big smile and a cowboy hat and I'll be in heaven.

I think a man is sexy when he loves to talk about his feelings and hear yours, When a man asked what he can do to help! When a man opens the door for me. when I see a man order for his woman asking her what would she like and even setting the table for both of them is so sexy. When a man watches romantic movies or better rents them for both of you to watch together. When the man makes plans for the family, like going to the park or some weekend vacation. I believe if a person heart and mind is good his sexiness will shine through.

I'm answering this before being able to see the attached photo, for the record. So, let's see, what makes a man sexy? A great sense of humor and the ability to make a woman know he finds her attractive but also respects her. It's something that's hard to explain but it's definitely not only about looks, in fact there are men who are extremely sexy who wouldn't be considered particularly handsome. Annie

I feel the way a man carries himself and he has the confidence and ability to carry it off, to me that makes a man sexy. Not arrogance mind you, but a quiet assured confidence.

I can't really add too much to the conversation here, being a straight man, but I do find this an interesting topic. I am one of those guys who (and I'm not trying to brag, honestly) who have never had a hard time finding women, in fact they usually throw themselves at me. I have never understood why. I'm not overly successful, or good looking, so I'm kind of puzzled.

A man is sexy if he have a very nice attitude inside and out. Not like giving everyone else a good facade or good record but they are rreally not that good..Hmm...

I have to agree as well, that is a very sexy man. He is just like I like a man, tall , dark and handsome. That is what I find to be sexy, but sexy is very different then would I go out with him. Some men can be sexy, but you could not pay me to date them. But if I am just looking then I like them tall dark and handsome, lol I also find a man who is confident,yet gentle to be a huge turn on. Never even mind how he looks then.

i like mans have burns ,it feels good if touch

I think a man is sexy if they have love handles, baby eyes and a loving touch!

A good figure, looks after him self, oh yeah, and has to look good too

A sexy man isn't someone that has good looks or a body with rock hard muscles (but it doesn't hurt). A sexy man is a gesture, a kind word, a killer smile and eyes to match. Blend all of these together and you have sexy.

I think a lot depends on a girl's personal taste, but I think confidence and self esteem is very attractive in men. :]

As far as physical appearance goes, the "type" of man I find most sexy is tall (6' and up), larger build (no skinny men for me... yuk!), dark hair (mostly short, but long enough to grab onto should the need arise), caucasian, and if he has a goatee happening.. OH MY! He must be well groomed... obviously one who showers and brushes his teeth on a daily basis, and dresses in clean and not sloppy clothing (track pants are OUT unless at the gym). Those characteristics are what will get me interested at first. To KEEP me interested, it's more of a mental thing. I need conversation. I need a man who is witty and intelligent and has a warped sense of humour like myself. Because I have a young(ish) family, I would find his interaction with children important. Just like that picture you added to the discussion... that is a HUGE turn on that is!

What do I find sexy about a man.. I love a hardworking man, definitely someone in his uniform, covered in smudge, but not enough so that his gorgeous smile can't shine through. I have to agree with you, the man in your picture is a sexy man because it shows that he is caring, and obviously taking care of his responsibility. BTW..I love your analogy!