Do I come across as too serious on here?

I'm going to answer the question this way Lecan. If you think you are too serious on here, then I must be doomed. -_- I don't think you are too serious or anything. In fact, you are quite fun on here. If anything, *I* should probably be asking this question.

OK Lecanis, you asked for this. My reply is solely based on how you are feeling today and whether you are much better than earlier on in the weekend. If the answer is "Yes, I'm fine" then my reply is that far from being too serious I think that you set a good standard for the rest of us to aspire to. I love your sense of humour and your writing. If the answer is "no. I am still feeling grotty and should take the advice of my friends and take care of myself better". Then you are paranoid and need to lighten up. Either way, keep up the good work.

I don't see a need for you to lighten up. I enjoy your discussions and even though it is true that you tend to start discussions that have a serious tone, I find them interesting and enjoy reading them. Not everyone is the same way and light does not necessarily mean quality. I enjoy many of the themes you choose, and love the creativity of your poems.

I enjoy reading most of what you have posted. Even though I do not reply to all of them, I still get to read them through the notification posts. When ever I can, I will come to read them. Serious or not, most of the time you get the response you want from your readers. They stick to your topics and you are able to interact with them with regards to the topics posted. So being serious about wanting to talk about something is good. I do not think you come across as TOO serious though. I have come across too many posts that does not make good sense heads or tail. Being able to interact with some serious posters like yourself is really refreshing!

Anything intelligent is good enough for me! Serious is good! At least you are not goofy!

you know what every time you answer on my posts i just admire the things you say because you help me learn more from my posts. you talk maturely and that is what i wanted to see on my posts. mature people who are really talking.

Geesh, I'm always looking for more serious people and posts! I don't start a lot of posts, as I am definitely too serious for most, and either I get few responses or almost everyone takes me wrong.. I'm very interested in serious discussions and avoid almost all 'fluffy' discussions.. I wish we could organize our friends list..

hon you are who you are and that is right for you, serious is great, I am serious, sure I can have fun but I am a serious person, and I like who I am. I suggest you start liking who you are too, and those that can\t take you serious or otherwise can go read somebody else's discussions

I think no. you may not sound so serious here but you start sensible discussions here. Last few days its seem taht you were concerned with your son's health and also yours. I think all those discussions will obviously be serious.No body can make a joke out of it. otherwise i do not think you are too serious.

I don't think you need to "lighten up" exactly -- personally I think youhit just the right tone, a balance between the serious and fun discussions =) But hey, that's me. I'm told I'm either too serious or I'm not serious enough, so a balance, to me, is refreshing.

Hi lecanis. I do not think you come off as too serious. I think you are interesting and come off as quite intelligent. You seem to put alot of thought into your discussions and responses.

Argghh. Wat up lecanis? haha. I don't think you or anyone could be considered too serious on here. You are just simply being yourself and showing your personality through your responses and discussion topics. My question is how could anyone be too serious on MyLot in the first place? Maybe because you lack the ability to joke.

Lighten up LOL!! I don't think you are too serious at all! I think at times when you feel you need to be you are and other times you are goofy like the rest of us. Did ya see your sexy (blushing) discussion...umm your definitely not too serious!

Your avatar gives you a serious, contemplative look. I've just been to your profile page to add you as a friend :D and heard the music. Seems to me you're well balanced. I don't think you come across as too serious. I think your responses and discussions reflect someone who thinks rather than saying things impulsively.

There's nothing wrong with being serious! Sometimes seriousness is welcome rather than frivolity some subjects need to be talked on with a serious rather than a jovial note, I think it also depends on your mood you have a lot going on in your life at the moment and what you are going through with your beloved son, sometimes it's hard to put a different face on if you know what I mean. I like to act the clown because it's the way I cope with life, we all have different coping mechanisms and how we present ourselves to others, just because we may come across as serious doesn't mean that we don't have a sense of humour. I like you the way you are my friend xxx

ARe you kidding me?! sure you have your serious moments but I wouldnt consider you to be any more serious than anyone else on here..IN FACT I would say you are far LESS serious than several ppl at MyLot!

I think you need to give yourself a break. If you are coming across as serious lately and you are, it is because you are facing some very serious issues in your life. I don't read that you have self pity, or that you are wallowing in despair, Your just reaching out to your support system here in mylot. We all need to do that. I have been around you long enough to know you bounce back and the jovial play in your words will resurface. You are not being paranoid, nor do you need to lighten up until your soul is read to do so. We have big shoulders as your friends here in mylot, we can help you carry that load until it lightens of its own accord. Untill then you need to relax and give yourself a break. I am not sure how well I would be handling things in your shoes.

Heck no, you're fine just as you are. Mylot will be really dull if you're not you lecanis :p Btw, check out "poet's corner" in case you missed it :)

You know, with what all you go through, you come across a lot better than if I were in your shoes.. But your poems are different, they are not serious, especially the last one you posted, that is, to me, a very uplifting poem..:)

I value every response you have ever left me and I think your discussions are terrific. I think I'm too serious ALL the time so it is hard for me to see as you being too serious if you are just speaking your mind about the discussion topic at hand. I know from just the experience I have had with you I never once sat back and said to myself "Woah, she really needs to take it in the butt! That might make her lighten up a bit." So at least in my eyes you're discussions and comments are perfect :)