What's the proper married age for you ?
By Cindy405777
@Cindy405777 (300)
China
February 25, 2008 7:47pm CST
Actually , i want to marry at 25 years old , but , i admit , for my bf is too earily , he is only older than me for 1 year , and now , his career is just set up ! As you know guy usually put career on the top place ! Hey , i dont know how to do it anymore , i don't want to marry after 25 or just 26 , i want to marry at 25 years old, and am I wrong ? Friends , tell me your proper married age ..........
14 responses
@happythoughts (4109)
• United States
27 Feb 08
It all depends on you. I got married at 20 and that was right for me. I have been a stay at home wife and after 2 years I was a stay at home mom. It was hard to live on one income but it was the right way for us. Some people think they need to wait until they are financialy set or have other reasons. I just fell in love and it was right for me. We did a lot of growing up together.
@makingpots (11915)
• United States
26 Feb 08
I don't think age should have anything to do with it. You should know in your heart that it is the right time and the right person. If you know your bf is the right person, but it is not a right time for him, it may be best to wait. Follow your heart.
@kellys3ps (3723)
• United States
26 Feb 08
I think the perfect age to be married is different for each person. Some people are ready to get married in their early twenties, while others simply aren't. One thing to take into consideration is if you want children or not. It is more difficult to have children the older you are.
@clinsbull (192)
• China
26 Feb 08
so as a woman,25 is a good age ,but to men ,its too early to married./in my city,some man mirried in 28-35,32 is better.
@megumiart (3771)
• United States
26 Feb 08
It's not a huge deal for me, but I hope to be married by around the age of 30. :]
@nothingbetter2do (235)
• Australia
26 Feb 08
I don't think it really matters what age you are, as long as both of you are ready to get married. I got married when I was 26 (my husband is the same age) because that was a good time for us - we went out for about 8 years. Some of my friends got married in their early 20s and are still happily married, with a good job and family life.
@klaudyou (501)
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26 Feb 08
Apparently, a guy's age of marriage is not a chronological one, or at least that's how i think. He marries when he thinks he is strong enough to run a family, i mean financially and socially. There is a sense of self realization, as you said, more proeminent than women's, and if they don't reach a certain point in their personal development, they don't take the step. The general rule is that guys grow slower, but not only in the biological point of view, but the few other mentioned.
25 is good for a woman, because she always wants to be a young mother, beautiful and loving...that happens best when she's about this age. I believe in a difference of at least 4 or 5 years difference between members of a family...i mean, the husband older than the wife, about 29 or 30.
@klaudyou (501)
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26 Feb 08
Apparenly, a guy's age of marriage is not a chronological one, or at least that's how I think. He marries when he thinks he is strong enough to run a family, i mean financially and socially. There is a sense of of self realization, as you said, more proeminent than womens's, and if they don't reach a certain point in their personal development, they don't take the step. The general rule is that guys grow slower, but not only from the biological point of view, but the few other mentioned.
25 is good for a woman, because she always wants to be a young mother, beautiful and loving...that happens best when she is about this age.
I believe is a difference of at least 4 or 5 years between members of a family...i mean the husband older than wife, about 29 or 30.
@VampAmber (308)
• United States
26 Feb 08
There isn't really a set "proper age" for marriage. I think each couple has a right time to get married, whatever their age might be. Also, each person may have that want-to-be-married-by age, but the world doesn't usually work that way. So, if you're ready to marry him by 25, and he's just as ready, then go for it. But not if you're the least bit uncomfortable about it. There may not be a ready-by age, but there sure is a not-ready-by age, in my opinion. Any age where you're not comfortable with the idea. Try dating for a few years, the get engaged. That's my plan with my boyfriend (we've almost been dating 8 months now).
@TTdolphin (42)
• China
26 Feb 08
Hey,dear,i am also 23 years old. On the contrary, my boyfriend always wanna marry! In my view, it is better not to marry so early! We are young, don't let the shackles of marriage prematurely our life!
@m105508 (59)
• India
26 Feb 08
If u Bf agrees then its good...But mostly guys prefer to marry after they are settled.
Well i would like to marry after the age of 27yrs. cuz i would be settled by that time and will be enjoying a healthy and wealthy life with my settled carreer.
So i would also get time to sped with my loved one's and live a happy life.