Would you have done the same thing?

@snoopy04 (718)
United States
February 28, 2008 9:36am CST
Last night I went to Walmart to pick up some groceries and my husband kept the kids so I wouldnt have to rush. So as I waswalking into the store and went and got a basket I noticed this lady and this little boy. The little boy was crying and the woman was getting very upset. I honstely dont know what set the woman off but she grabbed the little boy by his shoulder and slapped him across the face open handed. When that didnt work she started shaking this little boy and screaming at him to shutup. I was in shock because the little boy may have been around 4 years old and he seemed to be in a different world. What was even more shocking was that no one was doing anything about it, people were walking by with a look of disgust on their face. So I went over to the woman and asked the little boy if he needed my assistance and he just looked at me and started crying.His face was bright red and there were bruises on his arm. So I told the little boy to come with me and that I would find a manager to help us. Well when I told the little boy that the lady took off and tried to flee Walmart. Well she was caught by some employees and was held there until the police came. I found a manager and stayed with the child until the police came. So I was shopping after talking with the police and telling them what happend when the little boys mother came over and was crying and hugging me and telling me thank you. She is a single mom who works night and had hired the lady from a nanny agency to watch her son at night while she is at work. She had no idea what was going on and she said after talking to her son the babysitter has been physically abusing him for awhile. So she wanted to thank me for stepping in and making sure her son was safe. I couldnt believe you wouldnt know if someone was abusing yourown child but you could tell being a single mom was very stressful for her. So I gave her my name and number and told her to please call me if she needed a friend or possibly someone to watch her son. Everyone was making a big deal about it but I couldnt stand by and watch that little boy get abused like that because he wasnt moving fast enough for the babysitter. Would you have stepped in or turned the other cheek so to speak?
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@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
28 Feb 08
I would have stepped in! There is no reason for anyone to get that way with a child. You did the right thing and should be very proud for saving that child from that woman.
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@miller1978 (1101)
• United States
28 Feb 08
I to say well done. Not many people in this world would have done what you did. It's sad to see someone has to manipulate their position as a caretaker. I don't like seeing any child get abused for any reason. I would have done the same thing as well.
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• Australia
29 Feb 08
good for you, i personaly would of done the same thing in getting the kid and taking him to the manager. Sure enough i see people giving their kids a hit on the hand in the shops but nothing like that. And as for the people just walking on. These days people mind there own buisness i think because they are scared of either getting hit themselfs or involving themselfs in other peoples private affairs but when it comes to children being treated badly i think everyone should put there fears aside and protect the ones wo can't protect themselfs.
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• United States
29 Feb 08
its funny..my wife was a nanny most of her life..here in Washington DC and in her homeland in the Philippines and Japan..but this was not tolerated unless the child was abusive to the nanny...once the little boy about four hit my wife in the head with a hard toy..but she saw *stars* so she swatted his bottom side..more noise then actually hitting..but it was not like you describe and the mother was from New Zealand and told the boy he deserved to get this as he should not hit people in the head..i met this child an he was a little devil..lol.but he cried when i married his nanny and took her away.. but what you describe is assault and battery and what you done took courage but it was the right thing to do...to tell the truth? i wish i would do what you have done but i never did this or maybe i too was like the other people who ignored the pleas of a child in distress...it takes guts to do what you did and courage is a better term..i think my wife would have and I would like to think i would have but in this crazy world of lawsuits and libel and slander even doctors are afraid to help in case of an emergency..as some will sue even if the other person is a doctor or not..but lawyers will take the case..and this is what puts confusion and lack of courage into men and women..but the right thing is not always the easy thing to do..you did well not to turn away...this is a good thing for all of us to ponder.."what would we do?" and "what if that was your child being treated this way?_;(
• United States
29 Feb 08
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@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
1 Mar 08
Good for you!! I wish more people would do that. Someone did it for me when my boys were little, it'd been a long day and after one thing and another I was at my wits' end. In the parking lot of the grocery I almost lost it but started to cry instead. A kind lady walking by stopped and talked with me so I wound up feeling much better and didn't yell at my kids. From then on I've nearly always stopped when I saw a mom on the verge of losing it. If she's hitting her kids I tell her to stop and offer to help. You can't believe how many moms are so relieved just to have someone say a kind word to them, just as I was. People should get involved! These kids that are being yelled at and abused are the ones that we're going to be turning the world over to. That's scary.
• United States
29 Feb 08
WOW! You definitely did the right thing. Would I have done it? It is very hard to know when to step in. The situation you describe...yes, I would have done what you did. Or, at the very very least, had there been an employee nearby I would have asked them to approach her with me.
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• United States
1 Mar 08
I'm scared to step in alone, and this is why: my mom works @ walmart and saw this scene in front of the deli one day: a little girl was crying and the mother was threatening to PULL HER PANTIES DOWN... IN FRONT OF EVERYONE and spank her silly. The little girl was obviously upset and scared, so a woman stepped in and said "hey you shouldn't talk to her like that, she's just a little kid" and this mother SHOVED the woman so hard that she flew backwards into the deli glass. The mom got taken out by police car and the poor woman by ambulance. But, if I saw something like that, I'd bring my husband or I'd get a group of people ASAP and intervene.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
29 Feb 08
May be I would have done the same thing.Its very bad to hear that the child was assaulted like this by the baby sitter. I have seen many cases where children are tortured by baby sitters. I also remember a case where the child was killed also.Its really kind of you.
@slavezero (833)
• Philippines
29 Feb 08
Oh my! I cant imagine that happening to my kids. Its really hard for the mom since she is a single mother. I wonder how the nanny has able to do that with the poor child. Me, I cant imagine leaving my kids with a nanny. My wife is the one taking care of the kids. Though I know that it is not possible to all... I wonder how can a parents be assured that their kids are safe with their nanny.
• India
29 Feb 08
Let me congratulate you first! You brought to light the case of an abusive babysitter and helped the boys mother. I really don't know how to answer your last question though. You see, we still don't have the 'babysitter' problem. There is always someone in the family to take care of the kid. So, I guess I would just have thought this was something between the mother and her child and wouldn't have interfered. I am being honest... I really dunno what I would have done.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
29 Feb 08
I would have stepped in for sure. I also don't believe her story about the nanny abusing the child. I think she is the abuser here and is looking for your sympathy. sounds like she is looking to blame the nanny and you are a witness. Obviously, she was being very abusive. Im sure she needs a friend and I'd probably listen to her with an open mind but I would not be babysitting her son. this could turn on you. So did the cops buy her story? Is she off the hook? she shouldn't be.
• Philippines
29 Feb 08
Wow, you were pretty brave to take action on this. I'm sure his mom is so grateful for what you did, I would had this happened to me. Would I have done the same thing? I'm not quite sure. I guess I'd be scared to get into other peoples mess, but given that I am a mom myself and seeing people hurt kids, maybe I would step in and do the same.