Unnecessarily graphic
By kbourgerie
@kbourgerie (8780)
United States
March 5, 2008 1:41am CST
I just received a forward from an acquaintance of mine and it was in regard to not using your cell phone to text while you are driving. Along with the warning were the most graphic pictures I have ever seen in my life. They were pictures of mangled cars, dead people and dead people with arms, limbs and half their torsos missing. I have never seen pictures like this in all of my life. I am sure I will have nightmares tonight and I consider myself to be pretty strong. I have seen commercials that also contain graphic images that were so strong that I couldn't believe they were showing them. Do you think its really that necessary to show these kind of images to get the point across?
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22 responses
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
5 Mar 08
I don't think that those graphics are unnecessarily.
I have seen teens text messaging everywhere...
People are visual, images can speak more than thousand words.
@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
5 Mar 08
I understand your point, but wow these graphics were so disturbing, I'm just really having a hard time getting over them.
@Deea48 (1166)
• United States
5 Mar 08
Most people know that talking on a cell phone and driving are not a good match, texting is just so much worse then that. But I do not think they have to present a horror show to get the point across, stricter laws, bigger fines, could be just as effective. Go ahead and show the results, but I do not think they have to go to the degree you are talking to get that point across. Katherine I hate things like that myself. I am sorry you had to veiw it. Yuk!
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@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
5 Mar 08
In some respects it was my own stupidity, it did have a warning attached, but nothing could have prepared me for what I ended up seeing.
@RowenaTheWitch (947)
• Italy
5 Mar 08
I'm with you here, I don't think they should use these kind of pictures.
My cousin forwarded me also an email full of pictures about a girl who was happy and had lots of fun and then had an accident. The "after accident" pictures were unwatchable. I'm starting to think that people who make these emails only love the horror for the horror sake.
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@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
5 Mar 08
Yes, some do show pictures like this for the shock effect. I know that there are people out there that get off on pictures like this, but uuughh!
@bongkarpasang (1377)
• Indonesia
5 Mar 08
oh my! really, I just can't stand seeing such a graphic like that. it will really deliver the message but it is just harsh. sometimes I also got some warning forwarded from a friend with such pictures, I had pretty felt sickened seeing the way they showed it, and I haven't even gotten such graphic you mentioned so I understand how you feel. it is just not a proper way to use these things to deliver the warning message.
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@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
5 Mar 08
I guess the reality of it is, that these kind of pictures will affect some, but others will see them be bothered by them, but still continue to do what they have previously and think to themselves, "It won't happen to me".
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@paid2write (5201)
•
5 Mar 08
I think it is horrendous that anyone should be texting as they drive. If it takes a few nasty photographs to make them stop I think it is justified. It is against the law where I live to use a cell phone whilst driving, unless you have it on hands-free, but even then I think it is dangerous and many drivers ignore the law and continue to hold their phone to their ear as they drive. Texting is many time worse and more dangerous than talking on a phone.
@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
5 Mar 08
Its not that I don't agree with you, because I do. Texting has caused way too many accidents, but if you had seen the nature of these pictures I'm sure it would have stopped your heart. I won't be able to stop seeing them in my minds eye for days to come.
@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
5 Mar 08
Kitty, I don't think I would want to take on the responsibility of showing these pictures. Everyone may think they are necessary, but even if I put that they were xx graphic, some may take that lightly. Some of these pictures depict someone with half their bodies torn away. I just wouldn't feel good about showing something of that nature.
@wickedangel (1636)
• Dominican Republic
12 Mar 08
I must admit that I am very careful what I forward on to my friends and I do tell them most explicitly if they have forwarded something inappropriate. Like you I can't stand to see anything too violent or graphic, as I will be dreaming of it every night and then dwelling on it during the day.
I have worked with people like that who laughed at seeing Thai boxes fighting and breaking a limb - it was shown on video. I threatend to spill the beans to our HR section if they forwarded such material to me. What is one persons laugh is another persons nightmare. I really feel for you. How awful.
I hope you have now got over it (it was sent to you a week ago now)!
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@wickedangel (1636)
• Dominican Republic
12 Mar 08
Not surprised! When someone did that to me I was furious. I can still remember it but thankfully I don't dream about it any more. Be brave!
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@Araiya (61)
• United States
5 Mar 08
Yes, apparently, it is.
I've nearly been run over by too bloody many ignorant RAZR-wielding drivers in the past six months (Hi, I walk or ride a bike or take a bus wherever I go), because the driver has their cellphone in their ear, a latte in the other hand, and they're trying to steer their honking huge SUV with their left knee.
As much as people have received texts (Twitter subscribers may remember the Tips appended to short tweets that they've received: "Don't text and drive. We love you."), normal emails, newspaper articles, and other media that they have come across, all suggesting that, hooooly boats, try driving in your cars for once, without the phone in your ear... People inherently seem to ignore polite messages.
It's been in my experiences that you have to offend someone to get their attention about something serious, so I hope to see that email circulating around in my neck of the woods soon. Maybe I won't have to practice my SUV dodging so much.
Sorry if the email bothered you, and sorry if this post offends, but if it's had that much impact on one person, maybe it'll get across to some others.
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@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
5 Mar 08
No, your response does not offend me at all. I don't necessarily think you don't have to be as graphic as that email was to get your point across. I just couldn't help but be a little freaked out by it, therefore, the post.
@mbs730 (2147)
• Canada
6 Mar 08
No I think it's wrong. I have gotten lots of graphic emails too, forwards and those who are sending the forwards probably don't even take a good look at what they are sending to begin with. Powerful words will be more effective than graphic material.
@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
6 Mar 08
I'm sure they meant well, but gee it sure came as a shock.
@Trace86 (5030)
• United States
6 Mar 08
Maybe you could email the aforementioned acquaintance and ask them to give some warning before sending that kind of thing. Maybe separate the pictures from the text with a big space and a statement that the pictures are very graphic and think carefully before scrolling down to look at them. Almost how people do spoiler alerts; a overly graphic picture alert.
If the pictures bothered you, they most certainly bothered others too.
@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
6 Mar 08
Actually they did have that kind of warning, but even though it was there I still didn't expect to see anything nearly as graphic as what it was. Next time I'll take heed to the warning.
@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
6 Mar 08
It comes down to some people paying attention while others simply do not. No matter what you do.
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
12 Mar 08
I think it's crazy that people even think they could text while driving, that is just plain stupid and obviously only thinking of themselves. If it means sending out graphic pictures like those ones just to get the message across then I'm all for it. I have heared so many sad stories on the news lately because of texting and talking on cell phones while driving, it's really heartbreaking.
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@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
12 Mar 08
It is heartbreaking and I've received even more about it since posting this discussion so I see the validity of your answer.
@Kaeli72 (1229)
• United States
12 Mar 08
Hard to say. I'm guilty of texting while driving, but I try to do it when it's safest...ie...stop light.
There are so many distractions going on when one drives, why add to it? My friend is a fire/rescue volunteer and he can tell me some horific details of what he sees when he gets to the scene. Some things he won't tell me because it will give me nightmares.
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@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
12 Mar 08
Shame on you, but at least you are stopped when you do it.
@onewickedsoul (540)
• Philippines
6 Mar 08
Sometimes it takes a horrific image to actually send a message and make it a wake up call to someone. Some people would just disregard a message like "Don't Text While Driving" because some people can just say they can multi-task, but we know better. A lot of texting/calling accidents have already happened and it is real. Showing graphic images makes it real for some people, although I'd rather not see them.
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@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
6 Mar 08
Yes it does make it real for some and then there are others as you pointed out who will pay it no mind at all.
@cortjo73 (6498)
• United States
5 Mar 08
I sort of do! People are so careless because they have an attitude of "nothing is going to hurt me. I am invincible." If more people got a real eye full of what could happen to them or others when they get behind the wheel of their potential murder machine, and do stuff like text and put nail polish on (yes...I saw a girl doing that one day), then maybe they will think twice about doing stuff behind the wheel that can wait until they arrive at their destination, or could have been done before they got into their car. It pisses me off when I see people doing stupid stuff in their cars that can wait a little while longer to do. I actually feel threatened by them because it feels like they are trying to kill me on the road. Yes! That sounds harsh but, one second too long and they can kill me. That is all it takes. I was in a very serious accident about 6 years ago because a man reached down to pick up his cell phone that had fallen on the floor of his car and he didn't see that the flatbead truck behind me, me - who was in a new beetle, and the pickup truck ahead of me had all slowed to a stop on the highway along with everyone else in front of us and all of the people next to us. He ran his van into the flatbed behind me, the flatbed hit me, I, in the smallest of the 4 cars involved in this accident, ran into the right corner of the pickup in front of me and I got knocked across traffic to the other side of the road. I was originally in the left hand lane and when I was pushed across traffic, I mean that I was pushed into the right lane and across it while traffic was still moving in that lane as well. If one person in that right lane had been texting and not keeping their eye on the road, they might have hit me and probably would have killed me. So, gory and disgusting or not, some people need to see that to get it through their heads that a car is for driving not for primping or typing text messages or anything else that takes your eyes off the road.
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@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
5 Mar 08
Point, very well made. Sorry you had to experience something that scary.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
5 Mar 08
Well they certainly hit home the message of the dangers of using your phone whilst driving, but to use those graphic images which you'd probably only CHOOSE to see if sitting down to watch an x rated horror film, but to take you unawares like that I think it's pretty gruelling and macabre, I take it the commercials are late at night and not where children can view them? That's where I draw the line. If the commercials are working, they can obviously look at figures to see if the commercials are really hitting home and reducing accidents and deaths. Sometimes we need to have something like this to drum home the dangers of using your phone and driving.
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@Ohara_1983 (4117)
• Kuwait
5 Mar 08
i think no, for me you will be confused more, sending msg. good word it will be great than making you afraid, we dont know all people will understand, sometime they just afraid of everything so they will be come more worry for thier driving just thing bad will happen to them.
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@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
5 Mar 08
I guess things like this affect different people in different manners.
@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
5 Mar 08
The email itself warned of graphic images, but I took it in stride, continued to scroll down and no matter how strongly I was warned, was not ready for what I saw.
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
5 Mar 08
I worked in a Factory in the 1980's, and at the time there was a "wear your seatbelt" drive in effect. The Powers-that-be decided it would be good public relations to show a film on how the seat-belt prevents auto deaths and what the results could be if the belts are not worn. The Company paid their Employees to watch this 20 minute video. It was Bloody and Graphic and I remember one scene where a driver's body was partially hanging out of the open driver's door, and as the car coasted past a utility pole, his head was taken off. This video was very effective and I remember my fellow employees telling each other that they had the seatbelts in place on the way home that night. However the video backfired on the company! Quite a few women were so upset they took sick-leave after the viewing, and stayed home for several days after.
@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
5 Mar 08
Wow, thats really graphic. Yuck. This email I received wasn't far behind what you are talking about.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
5 Mar 08
No I sure do not. when we read about these accidents we usually see some of that but to blatantly send graphics likethat is sick I think.Dont these people realize we are intelligent peoplewho can wellvisualize an accident but we sure do not need our noses rubbed in it. words should surely be enough. I worked for years as a nurses aid and then in later life in the library. I saw my share of mangled bodies and so on so I do not needanyone to remind me of the hazards of using a cellphone while driving or to shove graphic pictures in my face.
@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
5 Mar 08
You know it doesn't matter what they do, some people are going to continue to do it anyway, knowing full well what the results might be.
@clowdine (1402)
• Philippines
5 Mar 08
I guess some peeps are not being responsible. They don't respect other people's sensibilities. I also had a friend that I really scolded because he forwarded to me a picture that showed a road accident that was so bloody and gross. I haven't eaten corned beef or any meet product after having seen that. It took me weeks before that memory in my mind became less vivid. I really don't see why they enjoy seeing strong graphics or showing those.
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@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
5 Mar 08
Generally I don't let the graphics they show in commercials get to me, but it will be a long time before I forget the images I received in this particular email.