@mbs730 on myLot

yona06 @yona06 (585) • Indonesia 12 May 08

at starting new discussions. I was looking at the "discussion I've started" section and I saw way too many un-responded discussions. And the other discussions only have very few responses. I only have about 3 discussion overall...

failure

new discussion

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mbs730 I don't post very often but I admit sometimes I feel the same way as you. My discussions that I have posted don't really get many responses. But I think a lot of times people miss what I have written and again I don't really post that often.

12 May 08

Rozie37 @Rozie37 (15499) • Turkmenistan 12 May 08

I know for me, revenged seemed like an almost natural thing. I know that it is not now, but I still struggle with forgiveness sometimes. I remember as early as the age of 12, I was seeking revenge on my aunt who I lived with at...

forgive

let it go

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mbs730 I used to seek revenge and that does nothing but hurt you. I admit I have a HARD TIME letting things go. And I am NOT forgiving. If someone upsets me (delibrately and never apologizes afterwards), I am angry for a long, long time.... that hurts too but I just...

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cheongyc @cheongyc (5072) • Malaysia 12 May 08

All this while I thought only Chinese and some other Asians know how to use chopstick. But when I went out with friends from other races for lunch, I found that they have mastered this tool for their meal. Our country is...

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mbs730 Yes I use chopsticks quite well actually. I always have and I love Asian food, whether it's Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Thai, you name it, I LOVE it.

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highflyingxangel @highflyingxangel (9225) • United States 11 May 08

My mother has a terrible, terrible habit of leaving all of her household chores lag behind for weeks or months at a time it seems. She'll continue to wash clothes and never fold them or put them away until you can barely get into...

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mbs730 I have a tendency to let things pile up but lately I have been better with tackling it sooner and procrastinating less. It's so easy to procrastinate but when you realize you had put these chores off to the last minute, not only are you overwhelmed but you are...

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cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 9 May 08

Do you have a problem? Any problem. Something that is eating away at you, a decision to make and you don't know which way to go, something keeping you up at night? Tell me what it is and I will try to give you an...

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mbs730 kasamba.com is an online service for experts, and you could get paid for your advice on there.. you can set your own fees. Why not???? Give it a try! As far as my problems are concerned, if you REALLY want to know I could send you a message!! Thanks for...

10 May 08

dragon54u @dragon54u (31634) • United States 10 May 08

Because I doubt my sons will remember Mother's Day, their dad never made a big deal of it because, after all, I wasn't HIS mother! So the boys never remember my birthday or anything but not because they don't love me. Anyway, I...

attention

hurt feelings

immature adults

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mbs730 My kids are still young but one day they will become that way. I know how hurt I would be if my kids did not acknowledge Mother's Day. But I will remember this because sometimes their priorities are messed up. However, that is not acceptable, and that would be...

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gxnfly @gxnfly (1147) • China 10 May 08

Remember that man who insulted me and my people yesterday.He just said sorry to me trough msn,here are the lines, "i am very sorry.at that time i was very angry and it all went wrong when i saw ur work.I am really very sorry and...

beg pardon

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mbs730 What he said to you was very nasty and you have every right to be angry. But like what most of the others here said, wait until you are calm to make a decision. Its good he apologized, you can always accept it but you don't have to talk to him again. I know...

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chechuva @chechuva (1275) • Philippines 10 May 08

Some say that what you don't know won't hurt you. But what if you know that you don't know something? Won't that hurt too? though it sound as a tongue twister, at times, personally i would rather not know. coz...

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mbs730 It depends on what it is. In some cases its best to know certain things even if its unpleasant only because you could be affected by it. However sometimes its best not to know something only if it will get you angry and won't affect you in any other way. For...

10 May 08

twoey68 @twoey68 (13627) • United States 8 May 08

The other day I was at Walmarts and there was a woman in her early 20’s who spoke in such a way that you could tell that she was somewhat mentally retarded. There were also 2 girls about 11 that were making fun of her. The one...

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mbs730 Thats just awful. My daughter is only 6 and she knows to not make fun of anyone and I would never stand for that. The girl may have been cognitively impaired but you never know, she may have understood more than one would think! My son is under the autism...

10 May 08

webeishere @webeishere (36313) • United States 10 May 08

Okay when we go out to a nice restaraunt the setting consists of a sald fork, a dinner fork, a sppon, a knife, and possibly a soup spoon. My question is at home do you have a silverware set with the salad forks, soup spoons etc?...

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mbs730 Oh I have all types of forks, salad, dinner, you name it. But they are scattered in my utensil drawer and no matter what I am eating, I grab whatever fork I see in the drawer. Even if that means I am about to eat a steak and end up grabbing a salad fork for it...

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Sparks @sparkofinsanity (20471) • Regina, Saskatchewan 9 May 08

Giving birth doesn't make you a mother. Raising a child doesn't make you a mother. What makes you a mother is the ability to nurture, support, encourage and respect the people in your life. Mothering is the instinct to care...

kudos to moms everwhere

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mbs730 hehe yeah you have a good point there

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wooitsmolly @wooitsmolly (3613) • United States 9 May 08

I am going to try an experiment with this discussion. I know there are some people here on mylot who do not much care for me. I also have a lot of friends here, but anyway... I would like you to comment on this discussion...

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mbs730 I don't know you that well but what I do like about you is how honest you are. I can be the same way and it can be a real asset. And sure that will trigger some negative responses, being overly honest... but just keep doing what you are doing, you are who you...

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magrylouyu @magrylouyu (1627) • United States 8 May 08

Do you always do healthy food or do you give a lot of junk food? For me, I dont do junk food very often. Every once in a while, maybe once a month will they have fast food. I dont believe in giving them chips every other day or...

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mbs730 I rarely eat junk, thank goodness my problem is not junk. It USED to be but I luckily stopped. Chips, candy, fast food does not appeal to me at all! I actually eat very well but why am I overweight??? Because I eat TOO MUCH! Even too much of a good thing is...

9 May 08

checapricorn @checapricorn (16061) • United States 4 May 08

Life is full of problems. The more you solve them, the more new ones come up and solving problems can be very slippery! When you have problems in life... 1.)do you allow it to control you? like you don't like to work or prefer...

problems

solving

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mbs730 I have always struggled with facing my problems by running away from it by binging. Not something to recommend that is for sure. It just made me fatter and didn't make my problems go away, in fact it added another one on. But I still struggle with it. I wish I...

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cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 9 May 08

Do you have a problem? Any problem. Something that is eating away at you, a decision to make and you don't know which way to go, something keeping you up at night? Tell me what it is and I will try to give you an...

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mbs730 lol okay are you sure you want to hear about my problems? Are you REALLY sure? It will take a while to read and to respond, that much I can guarantee. Thats wonderful you can help so many people, have you considered working at an expert site like kasamba for...

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TerryZ @TerryZ (22076) • United States 9 May 08

I just got the call from the hospital and I have to be in there at 5:30 monday morning for my surgery. When she said 5:30 I said WHAT? But thats a good thing because I will be my doctors first one because he does a couple of these...

surgery day

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mbs730 Best of luck on Monday and I'll be thinking of you.

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