Do you know how to use a pair of Chopstick?

@cheongyc (5072)
Malaysia
May 12, 2008 8:09am CST
All this while I thought only Chinese and some other Asians know how to use chopstick. But when I went out with friends from other races for lunch, I found that they have mastered this tool for their meal. Our country is multiracial, other than Chinese, the other major ethnic are Malays and Indians, who supposed do not use chopstick in their life time. But surprisingly my friends who have these origins know how to use chopstick to take the food when we were having Halal vegetarian food in a Chinese restaurant. So, mylot friends, do you know how to use chopstick to pick up the food? Have you ever use it?
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@sanzi1201 (644)
• China
13 May 08
It's a difficulty to master the chopsticks.I still rememberred that whan I was a child,I practise to use the chopsticks very difficult.I always couldn't get the dishes.But,now,it's easy to use it.So,I advise the foreigners to try to use the chopsticks.It's intresting.
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@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
14 May 08
Well. It's interesting isn't it? Most of us chinese learn it since childhood and got used to it at early age. But some of us are not holding it in the correct way though. For grown-up people, it appears to be more difficult. But after some practice with patience, it will finally works. Do you teach your friend on how to use it? Hope it would be an fun experience for them to learn using it. Thanks for your response sanzil201!
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
12 May 08
Now this is something I have never been able to master, I love chinese food and buy noodles from the noodle shop and they always ask if I want chopsticks but I can't see for the life of me how you can eat noodles with chopsticks...
@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
14 May 08
Well, being a chinese, I have been familiar with chopstick since childhood. At younger age, I use it in an incorrect way. It looks like a 'cross', or a pair of scissor. It's a common mistake made by kids. But when I grow up, I finally mastered it. It should look like a pair of forceps instead of a pair of scissor. By using the correctly, you could almost pick up any food easily, even the noodles. Thanks for your response lilaclady!
• India
13 May 08
Well I don’t know how to use a chopstick. We have a pair of these at home and in my childhood, for want of something better to do, I used to play the drum with these. But seriously, its amazing how the Chinese use the chopsticks with such alacrity. At least noodles I can still understand…but grains of rice! Truly has to be seen to be believed.
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• India
22 May 08
Dry rice is cooked the same way as sticky rice I guess only thing is that we drain off the water completely after the rice has boiled so that each grain of rice is completely dry and separate from each other. Let’s see maybe next time I go to a Chinese restaurant, I would ask for mixed sticky rice…is that correct or do you have any special name for it?
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@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
14 May 08
Hi Sudiptacallingu, it makes me smile when you said the chopsticks have been used as drum sticks. It must have been interesting. It's not as difficult as you think. But most of we chinese practise it since childhood. For the rice, we don't really pick them up most of the time. But since it's sticky, it's not impossible to pick the rice in a lump. However, most of the time, it's used in 'spade' mode to shove the rice from the bowl into the mouth. When doing the shoving, the bowl need to be held in the air and near to our mouth. Thanks for your response Sudiptacallingu!
@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
21 May 08
That's right. Different culture have different way of cooking the rice. I am curious on how the rice is cooked in the 'dry' way too. Hope you are going to make the trip to china happen :) Olympic is around the corner. You might want to consider that :) But you do not need to visit china necessarily. A visit to a genuine chinese restaurant will serve the purpose already.
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
12 May 08
When eating outside in the food court, I find more and more people of other races in our country like Indian and Malay could master the skill of using chopsticks quite well when eating food. Some of them could do even better than a Chinese when using chopsticks to pick food. I am a Chinese and I had learned the skill of using chopsticks since childhood. I find it is quite easy to eat noodles and other threadlike food. However it’s sad that the pair of chopsticks couldn’t be used to take soup.
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@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
14 May 08
I observed that too and that's why I started this discussion, after seeing my friends of other races could master the skill of using the chopsticks. Although some of them are not holding it in the correct way, but I am still impressed by them. That's right, most Chinese use chopstick since childhood and I am the same as well. It's an excellent tool for noodles, mee and bee-hoon. You are right, the chopstick is not designed for soup What I usually do is dip it in the soup and taste it by licking on the chopstick Thanks for your response!
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@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
9 Jul 08
In fact, I am not that observant. I am a gluton and my friends always tease at me, because I usually indulge myself in the food that I am enjoying. I look around only after I am done with it. . But after the meal is finished, I like to observe the people around, especially who sit at nearby table. That's how I found that people from other races know how to use chopstick quite well. The stainless steel chopstick from Korea is not bad too, as a souvenier. I bought it for my parents and friends, after I am back from my company trip to Seoul. I would like to see the ivory chopstick if got chance, but I think it's not good to own it. It's against my will, because by buying ivory product, it's like indirectly encouraging the proaching of elephants, one of the animals that are high risk of extinction. But the ivory chopstick might save our life because it could be used to test for poisnous content in the food.
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
29 May 08
Hi dear, you are really an observant guy who has noticed that other races are skillful in using chopstick when eating food. This shows that you are not a greedy type who indulges only in eating without aware of what is happening around you. Other than practical usage certain chopsticks are designed in the form of craft which are really attractive. They could be valuable item for collection and souvenir as well. I know that the ivory chopsticks are quite expensive and can be used as a tester for poison. The chopstick will turn black if in contact with poisonous food. Would you like to carry one to avoid food poisoning Happy posting and enjoy eating food with chopstick.
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@marababe (2503)
• Philippines
13 May 08
Hi there! :) I like Chinese food and I've learned using the Chopsticks when I was like 5 or 6 years old. My dad taught me how to use one while we were having lunch at some Chinese restaurant. So, I'm kinda "good" at it. Not like my little brother though. However, I feel like I'm using the chopsticks more often for Japanese food now. LOL.
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@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
21 May 08
Your dad must be a kind and patient father, who taught you using the chopsticks. Well, it's a totally different experience to take chinese/korean/japanese cuisine with chopsticks, compared to using fork and knife. Those who have tried it will know. ;) Thanks again and have a nice day!
@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
20 May 08
Hi marababe. I start learning when I was 5 or 6 years old too. But I am not holding it the right way. When I had grown up, then only I correct my style of holding it. It took me few years before I finally hold it in the correct way. Glad to know that you are pretty 'good' at it as well. Yeah, many people claim that, they feel more like eating chinese/korean/japanese food when using chopstick. Thanks for your response!
@marababe (2503)
• Philippines
21 May 08
I guess my dad really taught me well, huh. LOL. :) I enjoy using chopsticks when I eat chinese/japanese food. I don't really like to use spoon,fork or knife with these cuisines. :) Cheers!
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@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
12 May 08
i always eat chinese restaurant here in the Philippines like Chowkin and DY Dimsum here in Davao City, Philippines. Everytime we order we always have chopstick on it but you know what we spoon and fork instead of chopstick but we bring it home and never use it, it's only our collection. maybe i will practice using it so that we learned how to use and not ashamed to show the people eating using chopsticks.
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@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
14 May 08
It's interesting to know that you brought the chopstick home each time you have chinese food in the restaurant Because we always use the chopstick and never thought of bringing it home. It's not difficult to use. But to use it in the correct way, you might need more familiarization. If you hold it wrongly, it looks like a pair of scissor. If you hold it correctly, it looks like a forceps. Chopstick is very useful for noodles and noodle-like food. Thanks for your response julyteen!
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
16 May 08
chopsticks here is disposable. i customer 1 chopstick it's up to them if they use it or bring it if not it will be sell into another customer who paid that already. so much better if we bring it than allow the food change to re-sale it again.
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@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
20 May 08
Hi julyteen, I know that those are disposable chopsticks mentioned by you earlier. It's very common here too. But we don't bring back the disposable one back too . No offence, just want to let you know that the people here do not have such practice. Sorry for the confusion. The seller here will usually throw away even if the disposable chopsticks are not unwrapped.
@pitstop (13789)
• Australia
13 May 08
I've never even tried using chopsticks and am very confident that if I use one I will spill everything and create a mess - I need some classes on how to use this!
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@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
21 May 08
How to Hold a pair of chopsticks - 1) Start by holding one of the chopstick. Stretch out the 2nd and 3rd finger, curl in the 4th and 5th finger. It will looks like 'peace' gesture.
2) Now place the first stick across your hand, rest it between u-shape gap of 2nd/3rd finger, and also rest on the tip of 4th finger.
3) Then place the 2nd chopstick in between 2nd and 3rd finger (near to their tip). It's like yo are 'cutting' the 2nd chopstick with your fingers
4) Finally rest your thumb on the 1st chopstick as well. Maneuver the 2nd/3rd finger to pick your food!
Thanks for doing that. And I hope you got some basic idea how to hold the chopstick in the right way. I have attached a photo showing how to hold the chopstick. I forgot the final step. You need to rest your thumb on the 2nd chopstick as well. Enjoy and have fun!
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@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
14 May 08
Well, your wish is granted. I have created a set of simple instructions as below. Hope it helps You start by holding the 1st chopstick. Stretch out the 2nd and 3rd finger, curl in the 4th and 5th finger and your thumb. It will looks like 'peace' gesture. Place the first stick across your hand, rest it between u-shape gap of 2nd/3rd finger, and also rest on the tip of 4th finger. Then place the 2nd chopstick in between 2nd and 3rd finger (near to their tip). It's like you are 'cutting' the 2nd chopstick with your fingers. Maneuver the 2nd stick with your 2nd and 3rd finger to pick the food. Practice makes perfect, and I really hope it helps. Thanks for your response pitstop!
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@pitstop (13789)
• Australia
14 May 08
Thanks for those instructions - am gonna print them out and try it!
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
11 Oct 08
I have visited quite a lot of chinese restaurants but I never managed to get used to use the chopsticks. I always use fork or spoons to eat.
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@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
12 Oct 08
I see, seems like you like Chinese food a lot, since you always visited the Chinese Restaurant. Using chopsticks for noodles is really a different experience. How about you give it a try next time you visit the Chinese Restaurant next time? Once you get used to it, you will definitely like it. All the best and have a nice day!
@diansinta (7544)
• Indonesia
26 Sep 08
Hi cheongyc, Yes, my Dad bring cute small chopstick with hello kitty at the top of it from Japan, when i was 10 years old. Those two chopstick still connected with a plastic wire, I can learn using it easyly. You know cheongyc, eating the same noodle with spoon and fork and eating it with chopstick taste different. How can it that be? Happy posting always , oxox'dian from Bali island.
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@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
26 Sep 08
That's cute! I have never seen chopstick with such lovely mascot on it. I think, as a little girl at the age of 10, you must be elated to receive such adorable gift. Besides, it's a pair of chopstick suitable for kids, because it helps to keep it together. Eating noodles with chopstick is the most suitable and comfortable (provided that you know how to use it) way to enjoy it. So, that's why you feel different Thanks for your response diansinta and have a nice day!
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@elisa812 (3026)
• United States
10 Jun 08
I don't really know how to use chopsticks. I can remember someone showing me how to use them when I was little, but I don't really remember how to do it now. I don't really eat very much Asian food at all though, so I guess I don't really need to use them.
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@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
20 Jun 08
You are right. Exposure and the need of using will affect how familiar you are with the chopstick. I think if you are exposed more to people are using it consistently, then you might pick it up faster. So, I guess you seldom visit Asian food restaurant. Thanks for your response elisa812!
@Bd200789 (2994)
• United States
2 Jun 08
I've tried it once, but I don't know how to use them.
@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
7 Jun 08
Glad that you have tried it. Practice makes perfect. You might need someone who know how to use to show you. In such a way, you will learn faster. You won't regret it once you have learned how to use it. Trust me :) Thanks for your response by the way!
• India
9 Jun 08
hey, i have tried so many times to use one but always failed to do so. I find it extemely difficult to use one.
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@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
20 Jun 08
You might need to look for the guide on how to use it. I suppose it's abundant online. Keep on trying, may be a person who know how to use it, might show you the faster way of learning it. Good luck in your quest in learning to use a pair of chopstick. Thanks for your response!
@jerzgirl (9291)
• United States
7 Jun 08
I wouldn't call what I do with chopsticks "mastery", but I do use them whenever I'm in a Chinese or Japanese restaurant that offers them. Mostly, in our area, the Japanese restaurants put them on the table and only provide forks if someone asks for them. But, I do use them, except for soup and rice. I have never been able to eat rice with chopsticks. And, I know I don't hold them correctly, but I do try to eat with them whenever I am out. I am not at all Asian, but born in the USA with ancestors from all over Europe. As foods become more known around the world, the traditional way of eating those foods also becomes known.
@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
20 Jun 08
Actually, you need to use it like a 'spade' to eat the rice. It's not necessary to pick up the rice with the chopstick, but just shove the rice into the mouth, with the chopstick hold together parallel. For soup, it's impossible. What I can do, is dipping the chopstick into the soup and test it in mouth LoL. Thanks for your response jerzgirl!
• Philippines
9 Jun 08
we love chinese food. although i know how to use chopsticks i still ask for spoon and fork.
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@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
20 Jun 08
I do that sometimes too. I mean I do not use chopstick all the time. For some food like western style dish, I still prefer using fork/knife/spoon. But for noodles, I would like to use chopstick very much. Thanks for your response crixiegreen!
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
22 May 08
yes i do!! my parents taught me to use chopsticks when we were young and my father always use one every meal. it would be awkward if we do not know.
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@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
24 May 08
Start learning from young would be much easier. I couldn't remember when I first use the chopsticks. It's like about the age of 5 or 6. I think it's good to know how to use a pair of chopsticks, isn't it? I am glad that all members of your family know how to use it too. I just use a pair of chopsticks for my lunch just a moment before I make this comment However, I do not use chosticks for every meal. Thanks for your response chiyosan!
@whywiki (6066)
• Canada
21 May 08
We had a student from Taiwan live with us when I was a teen and she taught me the fine art of chopsticks. I am a little rusty but I can still manage to get the food from plate to mouth without spilling too much!
@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
22 May 08
It's good that you got a chance to learn from your Taiwan friend. No worry, you might just need some practice before you could pick things up steadily with a pair of chopstick. I have uploaded a photo showing the way of holding the chopstick and some simple explanation. Hope it gives you some idea on how to improve it. http://www.mylot.com/w/image/1933343.aspx Thanks for your response whywiki!
@twallace (2675)
• United States
21 May 08
I have always wanted to learn how to use chop stick but have not learned yet. I like chinese food and i use a fork to eat with so that shows how much i want to learn. Where i life I don't know where i can get chop stick from other than the resturant but if i learnd i would like to have my own instead of wooden ones.
@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
22 May 08
Once you have the intention, you can work your way faster to achieve faster. Nothing could stop a determined person from getting what he wants. I have uploaded a photo on how to hold a chopstick and some brief instructions too. Hope this will help. I like the Korean style chopstick most. They are silver in colour and look shinny. http://www.mylot.com/w/image/1933343.aspx What you need is practice. Good luck and thanks for your response!
@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
22 May 08
I do know how to use the chopstick. I remember, when my mom is still alive, every weekend our whole family used to eat at Japanese Restaurants. It's our family bonding time. All our family members knows how to use it. I even taught my husband to use it.
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@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
22 May 08
I am glad that you know how to use a pair of chopsticks. Family gathering is very important, although some take it for granted. It will strengthen the relationship and bond with our family members. My parents used to bring me along to gathering with our relatives. Through these family gathering, I have the chance to play with my cousin sisters and cousin brothers. Even when we have grown up, we are still in contact, although we rarely have chance to have gathering events nowadays. Well, I think your husband should be doing good with chopsticks now. Thanks for your response dhangski!
22 May 08
i was also suprised to find out that a lot of people know how to use chopsticks...no offense meant of course. i'm a asian too and i love using chopsticks especially when i'm mountain climbing since it's easier to store and lighter than normal forks and spoons. =)
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@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
22 May 08
I have the same feeling too. I mean, that's also why I am surprised that a lot of non-asian know how to use chopsticks too. It's good though, that these unique utensils is known world wide. So that I can find it in every corner of the world when I travel abroad. LoL. Just kidding. Right, stuffing a pair of plastic or wooden chopstick would be the most handy and lightest cutlery that you can carry in your traveling bag. Thanks for your response!
@fluffysue (1482)
• United States
31 May 08
I am not too good with chopsticks, but I will at least make the attempt, if everyone else is doing it. It is actually a good idea for me to use them, as it forces me to eat slower so as not to make a mess. I think I don't actually hold the chopsticks right, and someone tried to explain it to me in relation to holding a pen/pencil...but I don't do that right either! lol
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@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
2 Jun 08
It's absolutely all right. Not everyone is perfect. But I am glad that you know using it at least. It might seem slow but more practice will allow you to be more familiar with it and thus you could start eating with smoother pace. Hope you can continue to improve the skill and you will find that it's really enjoying to take your meal with a pair of chopstick. Thanks for your response fluffysue!