handling or facing your problems!!!

Hello checapricorn, Sometimes, I was overcame by the problems. As you said, problem always come one after another. But most of the time, I try to control whatever problems I have in hands. I just need to think carefully what the next step I should do to solve the problem and yes, with the help and support of people closer to me, I usually be able to manage my problem eventually. Life is full of upsides downs. Sometimes you are happy, sometimes you are not. That's life.

that is really easy to say, because you think that the problem you have encounter is an easy one, but when you have problems, a difficult one you will really can't say that you can control your problem anymore, especially problems comes consecutively. before i can say that but recently i have this problem and i think i can't handle this anymore.

You automatically give it a negative spin if you call it a problem, life's issues, or life's challenges are a better way of putting it, and are you up for the challenge? I tackle them and look for solutions.

Some problems can work themselves out,however most of mine has to be worked on..Lol...I try never to let my problems control me,i try to control the problem....I never just like to sit around and let problems take care of themselves except in certain situations,mostly i have to work them out....

I take control over my problems, unless it is out of my control. There are many times that things happen in our lives that we truely have no control over. In those situations I have learned not to get upset by it, and I remind myself that I have no control over it, and it will all work out for the best.

Hi checapricorn, good subject discussion. We all live the rollercoaster of life don't we eh! 1. I try not to let problems control me but sometimes I can feel overwhelmed by them all, but only for a short time and I will get back up again. 2.I try to take control and separate and deal with a problem one at a time. 3.Problems never seem to resolve themselves, I always take action of some sort. I make a decision, even if it turns out to be the wrong decision at least I have tried to do something rather than let the problem fester away inside my head. I like you find that with the support of friends and loved ones and also my prayers to God help me through them and back out the other side. Ellie :D

I agree handinling problem with support from God and family. Seems to make them a whole lot easier then trying to handle them own your own. I have learned this lesson plenty of times in my life.

I, too, try to control my problems...but sometimes, it just doesn't work out that way .

I face most problems head on. I don't let things control me, I also don't usually allow myself to get stressed out about them.

Hi dear simple i can say that we seems to be one of same kind. How can u let problem takeover you, and if u did that u will be facing vicious cycle which will be hard to control Take care

Yeah, life is full of problems and they can just pop out form anywhere any time.. Some problems are not as big as wat we think they are, just that we often neglect it till it becomes a big problem.. ANd there's a saying, If there's a problem, there's bound to be a solution.. I do truly agree with that.. But the solution may not be the ones we like.. If we dun like the sloution, it will become a big problem for us.. Thus, the seriousness of the problem is depending on each individuals how they want it to be solved.. So i will control my problems instead of them controlling me..

I have to admit i do let my problems get the best of me at times. Sometimes life seems too difficult to handle. I don't really have a religious faith to rely on so it's hard for me. Some days I am fairly happy, other days I'm very sad. I think everyone needs to learn to roll with the punches. Try not to let the bad times overwhelm the good.

hello checapricorn, such a very interesting topic indeed. i have been through a lot in life and i can honestly say that i always try to solve my problem (if you can consider that as controlling then i am guilty big time). i realized since i was a kid that the only way for me to survive and be happy in life is to fix whatever problems arises in me. i have learned so much and it sure helps me to be a better person in the process. most of my friends always see me as a strong person coz they rarely see me affected with problems or i always seem to have answer for everything that come up. no i am not a strong person and yes i cry at night most of the time growing up but i never let people see that part of me coz i feel i have to respect myself and not let anybody see that weak person in me or they will take advantage of me more. of course now is different coz my husband will always ask me what is wrong and i have no choice but to let him know coz i know that is best for us. anyway, back to your question we all have our own way of facing our problems, i honestly dont know what is best or healthy when it comes to handling problem, i just know that it is always best to handle it the best way we know how whether it ignoring (letting it go) or facing it, it doesnt matter coz we all have our own ways. i think if i will have to relive my life again, i will chose to be the same person as i was back then coz i have learned a lot and if i know i will be this happy then i will do it again. i have always take life then one at a time and not giving up knowing that after such storm i will see the sun with a rainbow on it and it never fails me. i know my life is not perfect now but i feel i am almost there and i am happy and grateful about it. takecare!

Have you ever heard the serenity prayer? God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference. Living one day at a time; Enjoying one moment at a time; Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace; Taking, as He did, this sinful world as it is, not as I would have it; Trusting that He will make all things right if I surrender to His Will; That I may be reasonably happy in this life and supremely happy with Him Forever in the next. Amen. --Reinhold Niebuhr This is pretty much how I handle all hard times. There has been a time in my life when I allowed my circumstances to control my happines. But that time has passed. I now ask God if there is something I can do to change the way things are. If there is, I do my best to make it better. If there is really nothing I can do, I ask for peace and acceptance for the situation. Many problems we encounter are beyond our control. If we spend our time and energy on trying to make things right, its really just a waste and can actually make things worse than if we just leave it alone. I just try to be peaceful and joyful through every situation or circumstance I find myself in.

I do both I try to handle them the best I can if I can't handle them then I face them

I have always struggled with facing my problems by running away from it by binging. Not something to recommend that is for sure. It just made me fatter and didn't make my problems go away, in fact it added another one on. But I still struggle with it. I wish I didn't. If I was more spiritual maybe I could handle it better but I honestly have a hard time with faith of any kind.

Life is messy sometimes, problems arise then problems are solved. In dealing with my problems I just don't let it eat me. Problems are always there that makes our lives not boring. It is the hor's d ouevre of life I may say in short the appetizer. Without it we can never learn and grow so why worry too much where in fact there is always a solution to its problem. So don't waste time in sulking over but be positive because life is short to become sad and unhappy.

Hi there. Some problems are just sooo hard to deal with that you just let them sit them and then feel their pain worse. I have left a problem here for 17 coming 18 years and now I know that it has been the wrong thing to do leaving it. It's to do with Abuse but that is all I am saying about it. Catch ya later.

I try to solve my own p roblems and if I cannot do it all by myself I have my son help me so with hishelp; and Gods help I do get my problems solved.Sometimes it is a problem that only time can solve so I just let it be.

I like to deal with them as soon as possible and figure out the solution right away. Of course there are always problems that are out of your control, but I will do everything in my power to solve them.