show me love
By winterose
@winterose (39887)
Canada
March 7, 2008 5:17pm CST
I once got an email about children who were asked to define love, and one of the answers was just so dead on,
the child said love was how her grandmother could not bend down to paint her toenails anymore, and her grandfather painted them for her. Now if that is not love I do not know what love is.
What does your special love do to show you love without saying it?
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8 responses
@ellie333 (21016)
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7 Mar 08
I received that one too, very touching and so very real. I haven't a partner but my son when he wakes each morning gives me a huggle (cuddle/hug) and syas mummy 'I love you' makes my day every day and he does it so automatically, he also sense if I am feeling low and will give me what he calls a squeezy hug to make mummy better. Ellie :D
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
8 Mar 08
that is beautiful, I think my son told me he loved me maybe two times in his adult life, it makes me sad but I do know he loves me.
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@GardenGerty (160665)
• United States
8 Mar 08
At this moment he is out buying pie. He turns on the bed warmer each night so the bed will be warm when I get there. He turns on my paraffin bath for my hands to get softened. He drives me anywhere he can when we can be together.I have coffee ready when I get up in the morning. Sometimes I get coffee in bed. I came into his life late in the day, he came into my life after great losses, so we value each other.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
8 Mar 08
that just warms my heart, I wish more people would read this discussion it is very good for the soul.
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@GardenGerty (160665)
• United States
13 Mar 08
Thanks for BR. Your discussions require thought, they are good.
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
8 Mar 08
I'm happy that he treats you like a Queen GardenGerty, those are the most sweetest things I have heard anyone do for somone they love :)
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@preetam9533 (229)
• India
24 Oct 08
Caring for a person and unconditional support is true love
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@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
9 Mar 08
I wanted to take dinner. Not a dinner at a posh restaurant but one at the hawker centre. He told me he was broke and can only afford a simple and light meal. I offered to pay, he insist he has to pay. He ordered only my share and said he will settle his at home. He even refused to share what is on the table saying it was barely enough for a decent meal. It was just a simple act, so simple yet so touching. Perhaps I was naive, but I choose to believe in the sincerity.
@freshrainer (284)
• China
24 Oct 08
my wife every day will phone me just saying " Don't be too tired. learn to rest." you know, we teachers are often very tired after class. when I return home, she is always preparing a cup of tea for me. we seldom say " love", but love shows everywhere.
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winterose, long time no see. I haven't been here for two years. But your word have made a big difference in my life. I am now a teacher and an editor of a newpaper for high school students. I write about the techniques of writing in English. I wish to get your help. thanks. Best wishes to your family.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
24 Oct 08
yes those are very much ways of showing love.
glad to hear that you are working and doing so well,
glad to hear from you,
not sure if I can help you with the english language as in terms of the technical aspect, I am not all knowing of the rules like an english teacher, but would help with what I know.
@Sungoddess1818 (43)
• United States
17 Oct 08
I also got that email and its so totally sweet! My boyfriend will just be watching tv with me and just start rubbing my feet, I think its totally sweet of him to do! I never complain of my feet hurting he just does it because he wants too and I think its a great way for him to show he cares.
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@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
8 Mar 08
Oh Ummm, hmmmm, .... ummm... ummm... *thinking* ummm oh this is a hard question to answer!!
I'll have to come back to you on that one.
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