How do you feel about your spouse going to a STRIP CLUB?

I would never let my husband do that. You shouldn't look at anyone like that but your spouse. Even thogh I think it is wrong to go to strip clubs, Your boyfriend has the right to do what he likes, you are not married. You should just tell him how it would make you feel and that if he decides to go to let you know. Then you will know if your feelings matter to him.

I am not much in favour of strip shows. I have seen both male and female strippers and it does not appeal to me. If my man wanted to go to a stripclub - be my guest. I do not see why he'd feel the urge to do so, but I will not stop him. We have been together for several years and I am sure he will not cheat on me or anything like that.

It depends on the situation and what their behavior is. The thing that really bothers me about strip clubs is private lap dances, because I've known dancers who went beyond what is technically legal in the services offered. Just going to a strip club itself isn't a big deal to me, especially if it's a special occasion and not something you're doing all the time. Of course, I wouldn't mind going to a strip club, either, if there were one near me. What I'd really love is for my hubby and I to go together, which would work fairly well since I like girls too.

In my opinion it's kind of disrespectful. I wouldn't do that to my wife. On the other hand, some women are ok with it. Some women actually enjoy going to strip clubs with their boyfriends or husbands. Back when I turned 18 my buddies brought me to a strip club to celebrate. It was cool and fun, but I was single at the time. I'm married now and I would be VERY offended if my wife felt the need to go to a strip club. I'm always here for her and ready to fulfill her needs so there's no need for her to go and pay see some guys stripping for money.

My husband has gone to strip clubs before he met me. He says he doesn't feel the need to go to them anymore and really didn't before but he went because his friends did and well...sometimes thats what guys do. Anyway, I am glad he doesn't want to go because try as I might..I am a jealous girl. He doesn't want me to go to a male stripclub either, so it works out well both ways. :)

i mean i would be upset but not really you need to trust him do you think he would do something? i mean but and things arouse them and thats what males like. strip clubs can really be a problems in relationships but you have to let a men be a man

I will be certainly upset if my husband go to the strip club.. I think there are no strip club in my place since it is considered ilegal by our government, However if there is any undercover and I knew that my husband went there I will honestly be very upset about that..

well, never gonna happen if he wants to be with me and us be a family. it's degrading and very disrespectful to me. my husband doesn't even go to hooter's if that tells you anything. God bless

I would never date or marry someone that went to strip clubs and if I found out that someone I was with was going, I would dump him right in the spot...Its not acceptable, it's disgusting and he should be happy looking at me not a stranger in a bar....

I am not totally against strip clubs. If my guy wants to go every now and than its not a big deal to me. But I once dated a guy who frequented them. And when I say frequented I mean he use to go once a week. He had a regular night and all. It wasn't like that when we first started dating. It really put a strain on our relationship to say the least. It made me feel as if I wasn't good enough or something for him to have to go every week. Our relationship eventually ended because of this because emotionally I just could not take it no more. He was literally addicted to going to the strip club.

there r the many uncertainities in our lives ........so don't bother abt the any particular by frnd ........ just leave him if he is not loyal to ur emotions.........

Mine goes sometimes. I dont really like it but then again it gives me some piece and quiet. I guess its all based on trust. However, there is no male strip clubs here either. If there was mine would have a FIT it I went lol. But I find it only fair. Thats just how men are I guess. In general.

Though I trust my husband, I will not allow him to go there. In the first place, why would they go there? For enjoyment? Entertainment? I can't think of any good explanation why would they go to a strip club. Granting boys will be boys but they should've done that when they are single and not married.

I have personally experienced this with my fiance', soon to be husband in May! It started out with him complaining about not being able to go anywhere when I am gone with my friends because we only have one car, and he won't be able to get one comfortably until we move.His whole arguement was not being able to go with his friend and he have the car! But the funny thing is, this incident happened when his friend drove, so that pissed me off even more! Back to the subject, we got into a minor arguement about me going out with my friends and him not being able to, but I've never told him that he couldn't. I mean, it isn't like he needs my permission, all I ask is that he let me know and don't do anything I wouldn't do! Well, he decided one saturday that he wanted to hang out with his best friend after he got off, and I was like okay, we hadn't had anything planned and I was at work anyway. My fiance' told me that they might go to Rookie's, which is this entertainment bar. That was the last thing he told me, so, naturally, I thought that's where they went. The next day, he had to go to the hospital for an abcest on his leg, then he said "I have a confession to make, and I don't want to keep this from you any longer". My heart dropped, because anytime your boyfriend/girlfriend or fiance' say this, it's always something really bad that you'll be arguing about later. So I was like "What is it?!" he told me that him and his friend went to a strip club in town! I was furious,I still am furious about it because he was like "we just hung out". THERE ARE MANY OTHER PLACES TO HANG OUT OTHER THAN A STRIP CLUB! A man with a girlfriend that goes to a strip club is just sleezy, an engaged and married man that goes to strip clubs is just trying to live a single man's life, and it doesn't look good; period! What if someone in your family sees him that is single? what if someone sees him outside of it that knows you or him? And to top it all with my story, my parents live the next street down from the strip club!! They can practically hear the music from the strip club, and make out what song it is!!! And the only other justification that my fiance' had for going was that he's 21 about to be 22 and he wants to enjoy being 21 since he couldn't all last year when he turned 21!!!!! I wanted to smack him! But, we are over it, and i try not to bring it up anymore, and he said he wasn't going to do it anymore. So, if you're boyfriend or fiance' go to a strip club, it IS okay to be mad, because it is just as disrespectful as cheating! Lucky for me, in the state I live, lap dance is illegal, so my fiance' didn't come back home with a skid mark on his shirt!!!! LMAO!!

I will swear, that wouldnt be my wife-I would simply have to consider myself unmarried if my wife did that! I guess those women who those acts are the kind that have given up on the marrital values

I have been to a strip joint with my husband years ago and I just don't see what entices guys to go in there. At least the one we went into it was just like any other bar only with the added addition of strippers. If he wanted to go now I would let him. The basis of a marriage is trust and he wouldn't be looking for anything.

Well maybe im just one of the lucky ones but my gf doesnt really mind me going to Strip clubs. She was the first time i went but the second time i took a trip there with friends, she was invited along so came to see what it was like and we ended up having a dance together from one of the strippers. Ofcourse though my girl does happen to be a little on the Bi side so enjoyed it and actually not long after the dance (aswell as drink being involved) just wanted to take me home to bed. Now whether i go to a strip club with or without her, if she's knows im there alone, she knows im just getting all hot and steamy to come home to her so that she gets all the advantages of it. And she makes sure i don't have to ever look elsewhere for what i get at home. Plus if we go together, after a while she just like i said, wants to just take me home to bed.

I very want to go to strip clubs, but i very very cherish my life. If i went there, my wife will kill me . sigh

Me and my boyfriend met in a strip club. I was a bartender and he was a bouncer. I know what goes on in these places. I can assure you that 99% of the women that work there are there to make money. They are NOT interested in your man and they aren't going to try and sleep with him. They just want his money. Don't feel disrespected if he goes. It's something that guys do. Lay out ground rules for him. Mine for my guy are, you can go but you may not waste money on a lap dance. Tipping is fine. If anything, feel good knowing that he thinks it's awesome that you are ok with him going. And that he is coming home to YOU!

i say it so dissrespectfull and if he whants to go let him you cant controll him and then that is just what he whants to do so dont try to stop him