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K.Rajib G. @krajibg (11922) • Guwahati, India 9 Mar 09

The opposite of happiness is unhappiness. If we look into the causes of unhappiness 95% of them are within ourselves. To speak plainly we do not have happiness at all. That we call happiness is like a mirage or an illusion. Just...

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goodhappens We cannot change the world but we can change our reaction to it. There are many things that if a person allows can cause unhappiness, but it is our choice it we allow it to be that way. When something bad happens we have to remember that there is always a...

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Lee Ka @kaka135 (14935) • Malaysia 15 Jan 09

I understand the labor process is different for every mother and every baby, I just want to know the possibilities, so that I can be prepared for it. My mum told me, when I was born, it only took her two hours...

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goodhappens The journey of parenting is so fun, challenging at times, but fun. My natural children were 4 boys 1 girl, my girl is the oldest, my twins were and for the most part still are night and day, one is in anger management, he feels he has to protect the world, at...

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Lee Ka @kaka135 (14935) • Malaysia 15 Jan 09

I understand the labor process is different for every mother and every baby, I just want to know the possibilities, so that I can be prepared for it. My mum told me, when I was born, it only took her two hours...

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goodhappens oh how cool, I remember those days, enjoy them. My oldest girl is 21 now moved on to a different state, a 20 yr old son, just moved back home last summer, 18 yr old son, graduates this year, twin 17 yr olds, wrestling champs, and now two 14 yr olds one lives...

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Lee Ka @kaka135 (14935) • Malaysia 15 Jan 09

I understand the labor process is different for every mother and every baby, I just want to know the possibilities, so that I can be prepared for it. My mum told me, when I was born, it only took her two hours...

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goodhappens If your mom had you in two hours, your delivery will probably fairly easy also. My body holds babies, weeks late for all 5 of them, even my twins. But I have an inverted pelvis so the Dr's say that is why my labor was the way it was. My first was 56...

15 Jan 09

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Lee Ka @kaka135 (14935) • Malaysia 15 Jan 09

I understand the labor process is different for every mother and every baby, I just want to know the possibilities, so that I can be prepared for it. My mum told me, when I was born, it only took her two hours...

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goodhappens Reading this I had to laugh, I also gave birth to 5, my first 2 were singles, then twins then a single again. I am now remarried and have 8 kids but I know you know the feeling when I say there is never a dull moment, hehe

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Lydiali20008 @Lydiali20008 (41) • China 12 Jan 09

Have you wonder how it feels when it's all over?wonder how it feels when you just have to start anew?never knowing,where you going when you face a brand new day.it used to be that way.now i just close my eyes and say,i just wanna...

start a new life

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goodhappens Thank you, I cant send you a message since I was so "smart" (grrr)and hit deny instead of accept as friends and couldnt undo it, so I sat, time to Breathe....put in a request for friendship from you and here I am. :) Peace and smiles

12 Jan 09

dhurianne @dhurianne (205) • Philippines 12 Jan 09

I'm just asking this kind of question for me to find out if I'm not alone staying most of the time in front of the computer. I spend most of my time like almost 24 hours in front of the computer. So how about you? How long is...

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goodhappens Thank you, and with kids just remember balance is the key, they don't want us there non-stop, they need their own space at times too, but they do need that mom or dad time, it is way important. They grow so quick

12 Jan 09

marciascott @marciascott (25529) • United States 12 Jan 09

Right now I am drinking some Coffee to stay warm. What do you drink to stay warm? It is a little cold in my house so I am drinking some Coffee to stay warm. I can't control my heat, I live in a Apartment, Sometimes it is too Cold...

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goodhappens Plugging up the fan, ok I'm jealous I really dont like the cold ;0

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marciascott @marciascott (25529) • United States 12 Jan 09

Right now I am drinking some Coffee to stay warm. What do you drink to stay warm? It is a little cold in my house so I am drinking some Coffee to stay warm. I can't control my heat, I live in a Apartment, Sometimes it is too Cold...

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goodhappens Had to go w/ the cinnamon tea, ewww I have some black tea I may have to get that out, boys not only finished the marshmallows but the chocolate too :( looks like i'm going to the store tomorrow. grrrrr, at least they don't like tea, yet at least

12 Jan 09

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poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 12 Jan 09

do you ever wear two different socks? i do it often, people usually don't notice unless i'm at home and don't have shoes on. i think it makes it more interesting

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goodhappens My socks hardly ever match, it started as a fashion statement when I was a teenager then when I became a mom of teenagers it is more like trying to find matching socks is way too much effort....you see I still have 5 teenage boys at home, and when you look at...

12 Jan 09

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poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 12 Jan 09

do you ever wear two different socks? i do it often, people usually don't notice unless i'm at home and don't have shoes on. i think it makes it more interesting

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goodhappens And I thought I was the only one, I usually have a diamond post in my right ear and a dangling crystal in my left. I have 2 holes in each ear also but don't usually wear anything in the top holes anymore, That is too funny.

12 Jan 09

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dhurianne @dhurianne (205) • Philippines 12 Jan 09

I'm just asking this kind of question for me to find out if I'm not alone staying most of the time in front of the computer. I spend most of my time like almost 24 hours in front of the computer. So how about you? How long is...

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goodhappens For me it all depends on the day and what my kids are doing, for the most part I only spend an hour or so during the day and if I dont have a sporting event to go to a few hours in the evening. Peace and smiles

12 Jan 09

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Lydiali20008 @Lydiali20008 (41) • China 12 Jan 09

Have you wonder how it feels when it's all over?wonder how it feels when you just have to start anew?never knowing,where you going when you face a brand new day.it used to be that way.now i just close my eyes and say,i just wanna...

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goodhappens How very right you are, there are always disappointments in life, but that way we can appreciate the other times that much more. Without the bad how would we we know what the good was? There have been several studies, even different techniques for breathing,...

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abdulqayum @abdulqayum (25) • Norway 12 Jan 09

when a woman is giving a examination she only think about only the examination and nothing else more. but a man in examination situation he can other staff simultaneously .

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goodhappens Not quite sure how you came up with that, that would be called multitasking which most women are famous for. Everyone is different, I agree with the above post you shouldn't generalize men and women like that we are all individual and being that I have...

12 Jan 09

marciascott @marciascott (25529) • United States 12 Jan 09

Right now I am drinking some Coffee to stay warm. What do you drink to stay warm? It is a little cold in my house so I am drinking some Coffee to stay warm. I can't control my heat, I live in a Apartment, Sometimes it is too Cold...

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goodhappens If I'm cold to the "bones" I like a cup of hot cinnamon tea or good ol hot chocolate with melted marshmallows,hummm that sounds good, but I bet my boys already got to the marshmallows so I may have to do without them, hehe

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moonlitmagikchild @moonlitmagikchild (22181) • United States 3 Jan 09

have twins and then decide to hold one back in school so that one is ahead of the other in school? and this is not based upon them needing to be held back because they are having a hard time in school or maturity or anything but...

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goodhappens I agree with you there, my thoughts on this child being destined to failure is because our minds are so powerful that though he may be more mature and able to do the work easier, in his mind he may be thinking his parents don't think he/she is smart enough and...

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mrsgoode2008 @mrsgoode2008 (28) • United States 3 Jan 09

Okay, I have a friend. Her and her Bf have been going thru some things. It started he wouldn't come home at night and then it led all the way up to him cheating on her twice. He said once but we have met the other girl. He treats...

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goodhappens If she is scared she needs to get out of it. She can make it on her own if she puts her mind to to, I have 5 children and put up with abuse for many years till my husband at the time starting abusing my children, I went from happy little homemaker to single...

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