goodhappens

@goodhappens (671)

United States • Age 60

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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what in your opinion causes unhappiness ?

K.Rajib G. @krajibg (11922) • Guwahati, India 9 Mar 09

The opposite of happiness is unhappiness. If we look into the causes of unhappiness 95% of them are within ourselves. To speak plainly we do not have happiness at all. That we call happiness is like a mirage or an illusion. Just...

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goodhappens We cannot change the world but we can change our reaction to it. There are many things that if a person allows can cause unhappiness, but it is our choice it we allow it to be that way. When something bad happens we have to remember that there is always a...

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How long was your labor process?

Lee Ka @kaka135 (14931) • Malaysia 15 Jan 09

I understand the labor process is different for every mother and every baby, I just want to know the possibilities, so that I can be prepared for it. My mum told me, when I was born, it only took her two hours...

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goodhappens If your mom had you in two hours, your delivery will probably fairly easy also. My body holds babies, weeks late for all 5 of them, even my twins. But I have an inverted pelvis so the Dr's say that is why my labor was the way it was. My first was 56...

15 Jan 09

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my socks don't match

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 12 Jan 09

do you ever wear two different socks? i do it often, people usually don't notice unless i'm at home and don't have shoes on. i think it makes it more interesting

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goodhappens My socks hardly ever match, it started as a fashion statement when I was a teenager then when I became a mom of teenagers it is more like trying to find matching socks is way too much effort....you see I still have 5 teenage boys at home, and when you look at...

12 Jan 09

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How long you always stay in front of the computer?

dhurianne @dhurianne (205) • Philippines 12 Jan 09

I'm just asking this kind of question for me to find out if I'm not alone staying most of the time in front of the computer. I spend most of my time like almost 24 hours in front of the computer. So how about you? How long is...

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goodhappens For me it all depends on the day and what my kids are doing, for the most part I only spend an hour or so during the day and if I dont have a sporting event to go to a few hours in the evening. Peace and smiles

12 Jan 09

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Breathe again---we should accept the disappointment in life

Lydiali20008 @Lydiali20008 (41) • China 12 Jan 09

Have you wonder how it feels when it's all over?wonder how it feels when you just have to start anew?never knowing,where you going when you face a brand new day.it used to be that way.now i just close my eyes and say,i just wanna...

start a new life

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goodhappens How very right you are, there are always disappointments in life, but that way we can appreciate the other times that much more. Without the bad how would we we know what the good was? There have been several studies, even different techniques for breathing,...

12 Jan 09

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woman can't think like man

abdulqayum @abdulqayum (25) • Norway 12 Jan 09

when a woman is giving a examination she only think about only the examination and nothing else more. but a man in examination situation he can other staff simultaneously .

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goodhappens Not quite sure how you came up with that, that would be called multitasking which most women are famous for. Everyone is different, I agree with the above post you shouldn't generalize men and women like that we are all individual and being that I have...

12 Jan 09

What Bevarage do you drink to stay warm?

marciascott @marciascott (25529) • United States 12 Jan 09

Right now I am drinking some Coffee to stay warm. What do you drink to stay warm? It is a little cold in my house so I am drinking some Coffee to stay warm. I can't control my heat, I live in a Apartment, Sometimes it is too Cold...

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goodhappens If I'm cold to the "bones" I like a cup of hot cinnamon tea or good ol hot chocolate with melted marshmallows,hummm that sounds good, but I bet my boys already got to the marshmallows so I may have to do without them, hehe

12 Jan 09

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i need some help?

jhl930 @jhl930 (3601) • United States 3 Jan 09

here's the thing with me and my girlfriend, her family doesn't really like me and they are always talking trash about me, and she has admitted that and i've ask her before why she didn't stick up for me, and i said i only remember...

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goodhappens Patience, I know a year seems like a long time already, but remember her family does have her best interest at heart, and to be honest the more trash they talk about you the more they push her into your arms, so don't worry about it. If she would stick up...

3 Jan 09

Parents: do you think its right to..

moonlitmagikchild @moonlitmagikchild (22181) • United States 3 Jan 09

have twins and then decide to hold one back in school so that one is ahead of the other in school? and this is not based upon them needing to be held back because they are having a hard time in school or maturity or anything but...

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goodhappens Wow, I have never heard of anything like that, and why would anyone even consider that is beyond my thinking. I agree with you, it would make one feel less adequate in my opinion and that is just setting that child up for failure, wow I can't even imagine...

3 Jan 09

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advice for a friend dealing with an ex love

shanemre @shanemre (357) • Saudi Arabia 3 Jan 09

My friend came to me today, she told me that she saw her ex boyfriend with his new girlfriend today. My friend told me that she felt pain in her heart seeing that scene. She is now in a relationship, and as a matter of fact, she...

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goodhappens I agree with the last post, what she is experiencing is completely normal. Emotions are connected to the heart, be thankful you have a friend that is so loving and caring. We can't turn our hearts on and off when we want to. Because she felt this way doesn't...

3 Jan 09

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Is it necessary to switch off cell phones?

MAHESH2008 @MAHESH2008 (844) • India 3 Jan 09

It is beng said that cell phones should not be used while we are on fuel station or petrol pump, is their any logic behind that. why it is required to switch off cell phones their?

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goodhappens Its the static electricity, if you are on your cell while your at the pump the fumes and the static electricity may cause an explosion, I have never turned mine off, but I do leave it in the car till I am away from the pump. Peace and smiles

3 Jan 09

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Help For a Friend

mrsgoode2008 @mrsgoode2008 (28) • United States 3 Jan 09

Okay, I have a friend. Her and her Bf have been going thru some things. It started he wouldn't come home at night and then it led all the way up to him cheating on her twice. He said once but we have met the other girl. He treats...

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goodhappens If she loves him unfortunately until she is ready to see with her own eyes the only thing you can do is be there for her. You can remind her of what a great person she is, if she could get back her self confidence she would realize she is worth more than...

3 Jan 09

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I'm new and already need some help lol

Cryssystar @Cryssystar (53) • United States 29 Dec 08

I'm 18..and just started college Fall 08. I'm not mature enough..very dependent on my parents ( living at home obviously) I'm spoiled..and trying to break the habit and grow up. (Yes..I'm not afraid to admit it.) Any tips,...

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goodhappens Hello Cryssystar, You will be wonderful at whatever you do as long as your have faith and believe that you can do it. You are your thoughts. You already have a job, so apparently you have learned work ethics, now just know that the money you make it what...

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Any wishes to 2009?

lynpreety @lynboobsy11 (11343) • Philippines 30 Dec 08

This is only a follow up question to my previous discussion, since I ask before the things that happened to your lives, now I just want to know what are the things you have wished for the past years that still never came true. And...

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goodhappens Hello Lyn, I would have to say I received all my wishes I made for last year, I also received some challenges but I believe they are going to make the year to come even better. I too know I am being guided and with faith this year is going to bring...

30 Dec 08

happy new year to you all

daceyp @daceyp (327) 30 Dec 08

after about a month of not being on here because of one thing another,im back,not to sure if its a good thing as yet as i still cant find alot to reply to and still haveing a bad case of not knowing what to write. so what do you...

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goodhappens Happy New Year to you also, I haven't been on here for a while either, and now I'm back. I got off because I found that I was neglecting other things that needed tending too, so I stepped away from the mylot, hehe As far as what to say, if a friend asked...

30 Dec 08

What Would You Do

Bytemi @Bytemi (1553) • United States 30 Dec 08

I am the enforcer at my company, I have no better way of putting it. The company has very specific rules about e-mail attachments and what can and can not be forwarded. I go to lunch with the same three people every day, we...

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goodhappens If it is borderline, I would talk to the person about it, let them know that as your job you have to say something but this time it will only be to him or her, but please do not send stuff like this again because it puts you in a bad position. Its the...

30 Dec 08

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Whats the Difference Between "Hi" & "Hey"??

Tushavi @Tushavi (2077) • Karachi, Pakistan 30 Dec 08

Hi to all Well, I chat a lot & I got these a lot of times But Don't Understand Whats the Difference Between the "HI" & "HEY"??? Its they are same words??? have a nice day.

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goodhappens They are pretty much the same if your in a chat room, unless someone says something you kind of disagree with then they would say "hey", but for the most part they are both just greetings. Peace and smiles

30 Dec 08