Expectations from myLot friends

I have some definite ideas about it which I implement: 1. I do not want large number of friends to boast of when I really cannot remember who is who. 2. Thousands came in and went out (I mean I deleted) and some of them left mylot. But what is important is accept some 25 to 50 friends. 3. I feel friends should understand (as much as I understand) that every response I receive from a friend, deserve a reciprocation. 4. I have been accepted all freinds requests. They keep posting hundreds of discussion topics. If I have to answer only their discussion topics (some of the topics, I have no knowledge), then I end to servicing one or two friends. 5. Therefore best thing one can do is to resopnd to a friend's discussion topic only when you receive a response (anything can be first or last). 6. Secondly, there should be some exchange of thoughts through PM. If all these are absent, then it is not worth having so called friends.

Ironically I have had some expectations when it comes to myspace friends in the past but not so much anymore. And I don't expect anything from my mylot friends. And if I met them in real life, I would give them a hug and arrange a lunch day or something. And of course I read their comments and discussions. I do my best to stay in the loop but sometimes I admit I miss things. I try to keep up though.

i am happy everytime a user invites me to be included in his/her friendslist. that means they took notice of my posts. i've never invited a user before. not that i don't want to it's just that i head straight to discussions right away. i don't have an internet connection at home. i just rent one anytime i'm free. it usually takes time to open this site and really, my goal is to earn money. i don't wanna waste time. not that inviting is a waste of time. maybe, i'll invite you guys when i have my own connection. by the way, i always approve any invites. thanks!

I just have 7 friends, I try to see if they have posted something and try to reply to some of them, but even with these few friends I don't cover all of them in the same day, and I think if you have accepted someone as a friend it is to try to help each other out, not that it is completely necessary but I do think that's the idea behind friends. My 7 friends are from different parts of the world and fortunately all of them are posting some interesting discussions so it is in fact easy to reply to them. I don't think I would like to have more than say 10 or 20 friends, as I think that is the largest number I could have a nice reciprocal friendship with, as it is I, don't communicate with the friends I have, you know messaging etc. What do I expect from them? Well maybe see if I posted something and reply every once in a while if what I posted interests them., I'm not interested in being rated.

I do not know how many friends read my discussion,but it doesn't natter!Because you could not let everyone like you !If the friends come infront in realy life,I will very happy and invite hime or her to have a dinner !Then betweeb us ,our friendship will be more depth!

I just hope mylot friends can stay with me on line when I am down. I am scared of alone when I meet something unlucky.

i do not expect much from friends here. i just want they will answer few of my discussions. alos will rate me positively when they respond. i have seen amny peopel add as freind and then nevr bothers to answer.it orritats me.

i dont expect too much from them, i am happy to see if they responded on the discussion i started. i always read from my email the discussion they started too, and when i know what to say or if i know what they are talking about then i respond. some of the topics i dont know what to say, for example are topics about dogs or cats.... whether i like it or not i cant respond because there isn othing i can say to them that would be a help. so if they dont respond on my discussion and its okay for sometimes i dont respond to theirs. some of my friends here we communicate through emails also. and help each other when real life friends of ours are new on mylot.

I'd like my mylot friends to respond to all my discussions that they can but not every one, as I haven't found anyone with my exact same interests. I will also try as much as possible to respond to theirs but some I can't and hope they realise that. I'm not sure about in real life as I think some it would be good and some not so good, just because of the interests in common.

Hello!I join the mylot has only 10days !At first time ,I want to make some money from my mylot!But then i find i can get a lot of good useful information from mylot.And when my discussion get other's response ,I am very happy!And i will to response to their discussion because I am very appreciate for their response from my hurt!And I want to look at the really people!