Jehovahs Witnesses
@Hatley (163776)
Garden Grove, California
March 18, 2008 9:30pm CST
What do you Mylotters do when the Jehovahs Witnesses come to your door? Do you listen to all that they have to say, do you start telling them your own views on religion or do you try to cut them off and just get rid of them?
I try to get rid of them fast but with tact but my husband used to really lay one on them. He would contradict every point they made then get his bible and start quoting different passages and in a few minutes they would say,oh we must begoing thanks for listening Then he would come in and laught because he had dragged it out so long.
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@Farside604 (870)
• Canada
19 Mar 08
I really try to be polite becasue even though they area annoying theyre not trying to be. I listen the their intorduction and ask them to go away. Usually they do but soemtimes im stuck with the odd one that wont take no for an answer. This is when i begin to get irratated and reciprocate in an appropiate manner. Ive never actually yelled at one but i have closed the door on a few. I wish just once i could go find out where they live and give them a taste fo their own medicine.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Mar 08
I do also try to be polite even though I hate being preached to by someone of a different religion. I know it must be hard to do what they are doing but sometimes they are really so pushy and downright rude. then I say I am going to close the door as there is nothing for either of us to say and then I just shut the door.
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
20 Mar 08
yes...many of them are good people. I have friends that are jahovas.....they do not show at my home unnannounced. they are my friends and do know my odd schedule. They are very very respectful. We talk of other things beyond religion even tho religion is not off limits. I think it is wrong to blame the religion but maybe as someone said that they do really believe that it is their calling to knock on doors. Maybe for their own good, we should all speak up and show them that there is another and maybe more effective way to spread the word. the door to door is a man-made rule obviously and one that irritates 99% of the population. Jahova's in and of themselves are not bad people and should not be singled out here.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
21 Mar 08
robsgirl I am not disrespectful you have your views and I respect that and only ask that you respect my views. these people came to my door univited and were very rude to me even after I told them that I was not interested because Ihad different relegious views and I was not rude nor disrespectful in any wayI am a brittle diabetic and it was noon my blood sugar was low and I said as much but they did not leave until I said I must go or I am going to pass out. Now I know there are a lot of Jehovahs witnesses that are very courteous and leave when i tell them I am not interested.are you trying to tell me that I have no rights at allwhen someone comes univited to my front door. please know that I do respect your religion and only ask that yougive me the same respect. myhome is my castle.
@lucy02 (5015)
• United States
19 Mar 08
I usually just take their magazine and don't get into a long conversation with them. The magazine always ends up in the garbage but I take it so I won't hurt their feelings. Most of them are very nice people but I just don't share their beliefs.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Mar 08
Lucy o2 you summed up what I was trying to say very nicely thanks.
@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
19 Mar 08
Growing up in my home... there was a Jehovah's witnes church nearby... and almost every saturday or sunday... they would come knocking at our gate... and offer magazines... it would have been great if they were free... but they charged a certain amount... we never let them in... but once in a while i get a magazine a pay... and this will make my mother very very angry...
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Mar 08
When I do go to the door I never let them in and tell them I am really busy and have my own religion so i do not want to waste their time. that usually works. thanks.
@gemini_rose (16264)
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20 Mar 08
I have been caught out by them many a time and they have tried to convert me many a time, but now I look out of the window to see who is knocking, as where I live now I can see who is at the door without them seeing me! So now I just do not answer the door, and you can tell who they are just by the way they look and dress, and there is always 2 of them!
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
21 Mar 08
I have come to the conclusion that it is more fair not to go to the door hence no arguments and nobodies feelings get hurt.
@gratitude (181)
• South Africa
19 Mar 08
I have on many occasions had JW's knock on my door. I just tell them that I am a spiritualist and do not wish them to force their beliefs on me thanks. They still attempt to sell or offer me their booklets like the watchtower!
I once invited a JW lady inside my home as she and her toddler were drenched after been caught in a downpour. We chatted - she explained her belief and I explained my spiritual path. For a good few months thereafter she would just 'pop' in for tea with her little one. Until...one day..her son wandered off into my son's bedroom and came out with a water pistol in his hand. This woman slapped this toy right out of her child's hand..child went flying in the process! She went off about not wanting her child to be subjected to such evil toys as there was already enough violence in the world and that 'parents' who give their children such toys are no good parents! I picked her son up, put him back into his pram and told her to get the hell out of my home and not return again! I told her outright that she needed help! Her son was not even old enough to know what the water pistol was to start off with and yet she punished him for touching it! Talk about child abuse! I wonder if her Jehovah is going to let her be one of the 'chosen thousands' to go to this so called heaven???? Now I dont take nonsense from them i simply tell them i am a spook lady thanks and goodbye and close my door!
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Mar 08
Robs girl I just want to say one more thing you are so right in every religion there are some badies and I realize that. I have had some really pleasant experiences with Jehovahs witnesses in that after I explained why I did not want to waste their time, they were courteous and handed me some literature and then left. It was just a certain few who really were pushy and rude to me and made me feel the same way. After all you come as invited guests so to speak and while we should be courteous to all I expect my univited guests to pay me the same respect.
@WhatsHerName (2716)
• United States
24 Apr 08
I usually invite them and discuss Jesus with them. I like to talk to them about going door to door. They try to tell me Jesus went door to door and I have to tell them that He didn't, he went town to town and people were naturally drawn to Him. Could you imagine getting a knock on the door and it's Jesus?
I usually end up making friends, telling them that I will read their magazines if they really want to leave them but I won't "study" with them and won't go to their church. They are just too organized for me and I'm not about to go door knocking with them.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Apr 08
hi thatsthe way my hubby used to handle them. he hadmore tact than I didlol
@AmbiePam (93946)
• United States
19 Mar 08
Once they have identified themselves I simply tell them that I am a Christian and I believe differently than they do. Once that is said they never try to prove their point, they just leave. I do the same thing when Mormons knock on my door. Truthfully though I haven't seen a Jehovah's witness at my door in years.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Mar 08
Sometimes that really does work and its a polite way to handle the situation as I feel for them in a way as they must get a lot of doors slammed in their faces. I never make fun of anyone's religions but I expect them to treat me the same way. I do not want to be reconverted to someone else's religion. If I did I would change churches and talk to the pastor.
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@WhatsHerName (2716)
• United States
24 Apr 08
I was told that they get "points" if someone turns them away.
Persecution is a big part of their ministry so no need to feel bad.
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
23 Mar 08
Yes, it is kinda cute when you can give them back some of their own medicine. It depends on how busy I am and what mood I'm in how I experience the Jehovahs Witnesses. There were some who used to come to our house and try to give us their literature to read. I usually Just take it and thank them and say Bye now, and they leave.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Apr 08
I used to do that too and didnt mind it but when they stay and stay and I get hypoglycimic I have to say I am sorry but I am ill please leave.
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
19 Mar 08
I politely tell them that I am not interested. They usually try to leave me a book to read and in the past I have taken them and even donated money to them but that usually ensures that they will be back. Now I refuse the books...I have read them and If I want to learn more, I will find the answers on my own time.
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@sid556 (30959)
• United States
21 Mar 08
I understand that so much. I think maybe it was the title of your post that got some riled up. It is NOT just the jahova's that do this. It is other religions and sales people as well. Now the little kids selling to raise money for a good cause and the legitimate charitys don't bother me a bit.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
21 Mar 08
You know that is the real point and someone was angry enough at me to demote me from 10 to 9 which I think is unfair as it is really disrespectful to knock on ones door univited and I do not care who it , salemen or religious sales person. I wish to do the inviting if necessary.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
20 Mar 08
Hi Hatley, I just try to get rid of them as quickly as possible. A few years ago I read some of their writings and got to know a little about their beliefs. I found nothing at all in it. Now I tell them that, and ask them to take their message to someone else. Blessings.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
21 Mar 08
thanks for your response. this whole discussion escalated into something not quite what Ihad started out with.
@littleowl (7157)
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23 Mar 08
hi hatley my reply to a JW or christisn when they come to my door is 'i have my own faith, i dont go around preaching my faith to others and dont expect you to preach to me thank-you--more often than not that makes them leave-they really annoy me anyway JW's have already made up there own mind that heaven is full and the rest of us will be going hell!! what kind of religion is that? littleowl
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@littleowl (7157)
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24 Apr 08
Hi Hatley-am really sorry to hear that..I have never found any of your discussions upsetting and have rated you a few times, hopefully you will come back up soon-blessed be littleowl
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Apr 08
I have to be so careful how I comment now as I was whacked froma ten down to eight then sevedn and six. seems people do not respect my right to my own opinion even as I respect their right to their own opinions.
@Courtom (287)
• Canada
23 Mar 08
We recently moved to a smaller house, and every two months it seems they stop by. The first time I answered the door and they went on and on about women and abuse, how reading their newsletter would save me. I took their pamphlets was kind and polite, and threw them out once they left. When they came a month or two after, I had just gotten out of the shower threw on my robe... and mas quite frustrated. Thinking that my attire would cue them into thinking it was a bad time... Well it didn't and they started babbling. I told them they were just here a month ago, and asked them why they were here again. Then I told them I was being polite the first time, and to be honest, I just threw out their stupid cult brochures. My soul is not for sale.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Mar 08
thanks courtom that is what I was trying to say all along my soul is not for sale either.i respected their beliefs but they did not respect my beliefs at all.
@getunaddicted (210)
• United States
23 Mar 08
I used to break out the Bible and Debate their interpretation, then I have just gotten to where when they introduce themselves I say, "Please leave, and have a great day." That works, with no mess no fuss.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Mar 08
l love it and how simple will try that the nexttime they are rude to me.
@shmeedia (1044)
• Canada
19 Mar 08
what i don't get is why everybody opens their door to them in the first place? i understand not everyone has the luxury of a peephole, but...if i look out the peephole and don't recognize the person standing there, and am not expecting a visit, i just don't answer.
i do wish there was a 'no call list' though, like what they have to avoid getting telemarketing phone calls ;)
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Mar 08
You are right but I am such a wuss and then am peeved at myself for answering the door. I hate to hurt anyones feelings but some of those people have been downright rude refusing to honor my right to my own beliefs and to my own church and actually suggesting my religion is the wrong one. so now I do not always open the door at all.
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@CherylsPearls (1269)
• United States
19 Mar 08
I do the same thing that I do when Mormons or Baptists come to the door. I don't go to it. Or if I do, I shut it and walk off when I figure out who they are.
I know where all the churches are...if I want to go, I will. I don't need someone coming to my home preaching at me. If I wanted to hear it I would go to church.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Mar 08
I agree if I want to change my religion or my church I will do so on my own I do not like to be preached at on my own door step.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
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20 Mar 08
I am not a JW but I am very fond of our local chap. he comes round every Sunday regular as clockwork. He gives us his magazine, we have a laugh and off he goes. He doesn't try to convert me, but I expect that he lives in hope,and although he takes things a little seriously at times he has a good sense of humour. In a perverse way I quite like him to come calling. Tells me that all is well in the World.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
21 Mar 08
robsgirl I do understand your beliefs and I have not direspected you in any way.You were not responsible for the rude people who came to my door and yes I have had very nice very courteous Jeovahs wittnesses who came to my door and respected my views and my request that they move on to a more suitable subject. I am sorry you have misunderstood me all the way through and I am sorry I ever brought this discussion up. it has hurt both of us.
@queenofarms (1659)
• United States
20 Mar 08
I usually tell them my beliefs are different than theirs. I had some show up around christmas and once they seen my tree they were done.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
21 Mar 08
I always tellthem that I have my own beliefs so please respect them and spend your time with someone else.
@rohini33 (55)
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19 Mar 08
try to get rid of them of course i mean dont they have anything better to do with there time than trying to convert the world to there religion i really believe that religion has nothing to do with it once you live your life in a good way then its all good religion causes half the warsd in the world man
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Mar 08
I do agree. I have tried to be polite and respect their right to their own beliefs and have expected them to respect my right to have a different religion. I have explained that they are wasting their time with me and it goes right over their heads. I do not want to be reconverted to a different relegion.
@radairc (98)
• United States
19 Mar 08
We don't have them anymore, relatively few of them out here in our neck of the woods. But when we did get them.. I didn't tolerate them for long. If I said sorry, I'm not interested and they didn't get the hint, I very clearly stated that I would be slamming the door in 3 seconds. My boyfriend, however, merely answered the door in his boxers with a "we're not $()O#ing interested!!". Seeing as he's a 6'6" large man with facial hair and a daunting scowl, they usually just turned and walked away... we did this only with repeat offenders though.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Mar 08
Hi radairc I would have loved to have seen their responce to your hubby lol. we do not have them here as we now live in a gated apartment complex which sure cuts down on door to door sales people and Jehovahs witnesses.