what would you change?

Yes I know but the heart wishes for all that can never be achieved, I am okay its only sometimes that you look back and regret but then life has to go on.

am so sorry about your mum but am sos sure that she knows that you would have done better had you know that fateful day all the same i hope you had good and fond memories of her,its always good to follow your instincts it will save a lot pain.

well at least you have learnt from those decisions of yester years am sure you will never make such mistakes again,also try to put in a little extra effort in whatever you do in life that little extar is what makes you extraordinary

am sure that course yopu wanted is still available somewhere online and can be studied anywhere from home,why not try and get down to it its convenient if you find schools that offer the course online

my dear changing the world is big task i would advise you start with your community first,come to think of it what differences have made within your family in the past 6 months if there are then you can move from there to your community,if not you have a long way to go and lots of sacrifices to make are you ready?

these are very good points and well you still have a chance to do a home study course at home,also smoking can be dealt with though i know it may be tough but its not impossible just take steps and gradually but surely you will get there.as for weight you can also work on it maybe a few pounds for a start then working out.goodluck

yes in life we sometimes realize that we have made certain decisions based on our understanding as at that period but only to find out that we could have made better decisions with good knowledge and understanding,the best part of it is that if going by where we are today we make make the best of whatever opportunities comes our way

Business is great and I see great openings too.Thanks.

better late than never how is the business doing right now,keep pushing and you will get to your goals,happy business

That really is truly excellent advice, thanks for responding

yeah,the best decision to take in life is never to fall into the same pit twice in life,its a good decicion,please keep living by it and when you make mistakes never kill yourself over them jusyt learn from them and make adjustments where necessary.

yes,well you sure have to screen people well but what would you do when they seem so qualified ?we all are prone to employ the wrong person even after taking due dilligence,thats human beings not a fault.as for your relationship i dont think you should have hiden it for so long but hope you have done the correction?then writing thats something i think you should do more often if its your mettle and of you need to learn it you should start it will help a lot,well coping with human beings can be hectic i wish you all the best but always ensure you sign a conttract of agreement with whoever you are employing in future stating every aspect of the job including work hours and remuneration,it will help protect you against people who want to take advantage of you.

that is exactly what am talking about looking back,taking stocks and taking good and plan steps to move forward i never regretted many of my decisions the only regrets i think i have are those times when my instincts will warn me against certain things and i still go ahead with them but in all i guess it pays to learn the hard way sometimes.

you are right about the kids part its not easy learning with kids around but its not impossible just give it every effort to conclude the program if you have started.goodluck

wow,well you could still do something about shool i guess if you still wanna study,you are already on your way to earning more here on my lot if you follow some good advises here,trips?well make more money and you could travel as much as you like but make sure they all well planned for

sometimes its a good thing to look back at our lives and look at the decisons we have taken or have not taken to see how we can move forward,its not about crying over spilled milk but about a re evaluation of what we could have done and not done,then to project future actions,what do you think ?this is the best way to move forwrd in life

yeah seems like the way forward, learning from the past in whatever way we can.

thats good ,yes everything we pass through in life is meant to teach us one or two things and thats a fact of life ,have you learnt anything so far?and how stronger have you become?

I've learned that everything happens for a purpose and I learn to trust in my own capabilities .

well its better to learn the hard way than never learn at all and make the same mistakes over and over,but that is not the worst of it,you can trn back and make a good decision to go for genuine business or investment and also make better judgement of people when going into relationships

well at least you got something good out of your life,however dont you think you can still get that education you talked about ?its never too late to achieve anything in life as long as you put your heart to it

hm!thought provoking i also left a professional exam out earlier in life but am glad that i went back to write the exam and today am an associate of the institute,the membership opens some doors for me today i guess if you are not too old you can try your hands on something only that it might be tougher now but never impossible.goodluck

I am very happy for you to have come to the point of accepting yourself for who you are shortcomings or not.is there anyone without a shortcoming?i doubt that.so acceptance is the first point in getting started in living life and to the fullest too.happy living my friend

little-stormy,i quite agree with you especially with our grandparents we sometimes feel they are boring because of the youthfulnss we feel,also so many times we say yes when we really are suppossed to say no but not to worry there is always another chance as long as we live,in fact i say mor e nos these days than the number of yes,its funny but it has helped,high school days are those days of carelessness maybe a little care would have made quite a big difference in who we are today,dont you think so?but we cnat turnback the hands of time can we?lets just take stock of the time we have now and make the very best of it