Are you a jealous type?
By ciades
@ciades (1623)
Philippines
March 27, 2008 11:52pm CST
Well being jealous is a common feeling especially if your in a relationship. Relationship with NO jealousy is BORING. But too MUCH jealousy is also UNHEALTHY and BAD.
It's not bad if your in the right track and time. Too much Jealousy is characterize by a PARANOIA. Obsessively anxious of something or unreasonably suspicious of thoughts and motives or what we called PARANOID.
Trust in your partner is one big important aspects in having a relationship. Without trust you can't work out of it. It's Good to be jealous but too much jealousy is nonsense and unreasonable. If you don't have trust in your partner and you always act as being paranoid better to end your commitment and try to heal yourself and move on to recover.So, Are you a jealous type? Is sometimes, you thought of things thats lead you into to feel jealous even you don't see any proof?
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16 responses
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
28 Mar 08
relationships with no jealousy is boring? that is ridiculous, a relationship with no jealous is healthy, it is the best relationship to have total trust in your partner, when you finally have a relationship like that you will know what I am talking about
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
28 Mar 08
that is very immature you don't need stupid games to spice up a relationship,
you can always keep your relationship spicy because of the love and respect you have for each other,
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@ciades (1623)
• Philippines
28 Mar 08
I just thought about it and its basis on my experienced from friends thought too. Actually YOUR definitely RIGHT but in a relationship sometimes you can't avoid to feel this way..To keep it or to confront the person is just the same in a fact that you jealous.
Im glad that you responsed to this discussion winterose.
Thanks for dropping by. I like your attitude. happy mylotting!
Thanks for dropping by. I like your attitude. happy mylotting!2 people like this
@ciades (1623)
• Philippines
28 Mar 08
I think sometimes it is..you know seems a little bit spice up of your relationship. There are some couple like to see if his partner to make jealous inorder to feel if that person is really attached to them but not in the point...i dont think so if you got my point here..well, i think i am wrong of my thought...
Why? Didnt happened to you ever? are you not a jealous type? Well, thanks for your responsed! And I know what you mean and i really got it.
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@williamjisir (22819)
• China
28 Mar 08
Hello dear ciades. I don't think that I am the type of person on the jealous side. I trust my wife and she trusts me. It is this simple between us. hehe
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@deepti15 (1190)
• India
28 Mar 08
I am sort of. I won't lie. But I hide it really well so it seems like I'm not. When people know you're jealous, problems arise.
I believe all humans have the capacity for jealously, because by nature humans are selfish. And of course jealousy is selfishness is one of the truer forms.
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@dolce_vita78 (8062)
• Philippines
28 Mar 08
Well, to some extent, I am the jealous type of partner. Of course, I do trust my boyfriend. However, there are times when I can't help to be jealous. He is such a friendly fellow that sometimes, there are other people especially girls who misunderstand such friendliness and they start hinting on him... even with me around.
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@pollydhuca (227)
• Indonesia
28 Mar 08
i think the girl more jealously than boys ! that happen to me ...
i never had mean with my friend, but my partner think i have relationship with her...!
it's weird ! just because she more interesting when we talk one each other ! my partner angry to me ! i hate it...i never jealous if My partner talk and enjoy with her friends even they're boys....!
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@arjun999 (1004)
• India
28 Mar 08
I would like to believe that i am not, but i have no idea wheter i am a jealous type or not. I have not been in that serious a relationship to find out. I hate jealous types and i think that its always better to trust your partner as you say. But i havent been in situations where i should be jealous about too. So i dont really know how i will react.
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@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
29 Mar 08
I am not a jealous person, but I am not extremely trusting either. My husband and I made sure that the other one knew that we were there for eachother, and that there was no "outside interest." After all, we were once total strangers, and he'd been diorced beore, so we wanted to make sure we were comfortable enough with eachother, before taking the relationship further.
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@spiritwolf52 (2300)
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28 Mar 08
I'm not the jealous type. It has a lot to do with who you are with. I would have a hard time if I were due to the fact that my hubby is out three nights a week with band practice. I trust him or I wouldn't be here, 6000 miles from home.
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@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
28 Mar 08
In my opinion, if one is deeply involved and cares about the relationship, I believe there is bound to be some jealously regardless whether he/she wants it or it. We all know that it is not healthy to be jealous but love is something that is easily tested. The knowledge of him alone with another woman is enough to make me jealous if there is no business relationship between them.
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@manya_pearl (1901)
• Singapore
29 Mar 08
I'm not a jealous type... I will jealous for something that is logically supposed to make me jealous. Just like if i see the girl is really that always try to get closer with my bf, i even talk to her that she is supposed to behave, because she just look that weirdo for me. No wonder, my bf actually looks cute even he is wearing glasses. But if i see that girl around closer to us, i will catch my bf hands and doing something that makes that girl gets mad... i dont care! Hahha...
@pollydhuca (227)
• Indonesia
28 Mar 08
yeah . . . taht's good remark !
i agree with u, i'm jealous typical. but i only jealous if i see my partner go with someone...! i doesn't think negative about my partner, i just thoought if i can't give the best for her...i'm affraid she leaved me...
so i give her a freedom to go with anybody for spending time in bored if i can't join with her caused i was in buzy..!
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@wy2008 (185)
• China
29 Mar 08
well , i think i am not the jealous type . although i feel i feel uncomfortable when i see my boyfriend talk and laugh with other girls . that is natural feeling . that means you care about him ,if you don't feel jealous in this situation , it means you don't love him any more.
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@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
9 Jun 08
Hello ciades,
I am a jealous person but I won't get jealous without reason. I have 100% trust for my spouse and I always remind him not to make me feel guilty to trust him completely. Whenever he wants to go somewhere or meet someone, I won't ask too many questions but I still prefer him to inform me the details. It is not because of jealousy but more to safety reason. Anything can happen and I prefer to know where my spouse will be instead of having no clue of what he is doing or where he is.
@season0907 (671)
• India
28 Mar 08
Hi ciades,
Some times I feel jealous - but within few minutes I will correct myself saying to me that I should not feel jealous and immediately I feel happy.
Good Luck.
