Dear mylotters i need ur views.....

I can imagine what you are feeling after hearing only that from your husband. Think that men and women think differently and at times show and say their emotions differently. I found that most of us women tend to be emotional most of the times and want to hear specifics and want those reassuring and loving words always. But guys tend to be quiet and have their own ways of expressing their feelings. Is your guy the quiet type or the expressive type? Maybe he is not communicating with you the way you want him to be. The best thing is talk to him very well. Sit down with him and tell him how you really feel like what you have just posted. Then you ask him what are your doubts and feelings about what he said. You maybe wrong to think that he only want you physically but deep inside he loves you so much that he dont want you to be with another guy. Think of it as: when he says he dont want you to be with another guy, its because he maybe so hurt with that and when he is hurt, it may not be his ego but becaus of his love for you. Talk to him and communicate. Suggest openness of feelings and you will get to know each other more and resolve all your doubts. Good luck!

Women think emotionally, men think logiacally. He loves you and wants you with him. His comment should make you feel good. If he could imajine you with another man, he would not be worth your time.

Fighting between husband and wife is very normal. As long as both are not cheating on each other, then anything is still manageable. Sometimes guys are more independent in relationship. Not that he don't love you, it's man are still 'ok' without sticking to his partner or spouse. Most women fail to understand this, and expect their partner/husband are sticky to them as well. They are annoyed by when seeing their spouse does not show that their stickiness. In your case, your husband is ok to be independent without you for a short while, but it doesn't mean he doesn't love you anymore. But he definitely couldn't tolerate you together with other guy during the 'separation' period. Hope this clear your doubt.

I think that's just the way he's trying to let you know he loves you and can't do without you. :) Men, they never quite know how to express themselves properly... ;)

you and i think alike becuz that was the first thing that popped in my head in reading your post and even before reading your concerns. It just struck me as very wrong. i am guessing that he did not mean it as it sounded/ guys are horrible with words and expressing themselves. it does sound typical guy.

both of you are in love with each other ...just the typical love hate relationship...just always show him your love and im sure you will both do fine and last a lifetime...

it is always the case that men have different view in love than women.But it seems he is too jealous in the quest that he can't see you with any other guy. it is not very uncommon with men. But you can better judge him why is he so.

All relationships have fights, I dont think I would let this get to me as much as you are. From my experience men in general dont think before they talk especially when it comes to relationships, now women are quilty of this also, but that is probably his way of saying I love you and cant live with seeing your face everyday.