My friend is pregnant and is not sure who the daddy is

United States
October 31, 2006 12:17pm CST
How can I help my friend. She is pregnant but is not sure who the father is. She said it could be one of five differnt guys. I can't belive she did not use protection with any of them.
6 responses
MOM4LYFE
@MOM4LYFE (13)
• United States
31 Oct 06
OOOOOO! The only thing you can do is advise her to have some dna tests done. Baby should know biological father.
dnapoa
@dnapoa (7)
• United States
10 Dec 06
I am a single father. I was also just reunited with a daughter who turned 18 in March whom we had to place into adoption in 1988. Coincidentally, I also own a DNA testing company and like helping people out. SO if you or your friend need my help, I'll help you any way I can. Just drop me an email. Jeff
MrsAdvice
@MrsAdvice (623)
• United States
11 Dec 06
Wow, you should contact this guy and get your friend set up with the testing! What a generous offer!
Meljep
@Meljep (1666)
• United States
31 Oct 06
Sounds like the village bicycle. Everyone got a ride. She will have to do a paternity test once the baby is born. I hope she will learn from her mistakes and try to give her child a good, stable, home life.
classicaljazz
@classicaljazz (1628)
• United States
31 Oct 06
Yes but paternity tests cost money and if she doesn't get the guy right the first time she will have to retake the test til she does.
vipul20044
@vipul20044 (5793)
• India
31 Oct 06
camry - camry
jeez! She should go for a sperm or a gene test probably something like that
nancygibson
@nancygibson (3736)
• France
31 Oct 06
oww, thats not a good situation. Just be there for her and hopefully she'll realise that she owes it to the baby to slop sleeping around
zuri25
@zuri25 (2125)
• United States
31 Oct 06
Chromesomes - Whose genes are whose???
I can't say that I feel sorry for her. She made her bed and now she has to sleep in it (pardon the pun). I do, however, feel bad for the child. If she wants to know paternity, the only thing she can do is confront her five partners and ask them to take a blood test. What she really needs now, probably more than ever before, is you (a friend).
emilylynn2003
@emilylynn2003 (876)
• United States
10 Dec 06
I think your friend got what was coming to her .. if your not going to be safe then your going to be sorry .. thats why if she was my friend id just say i told you so ... now lets go pick out baby furniture..