in love with a married man

Philippines
April 5, 2008 7:50am CST
what will you if you find out that the one you love or bf/gf was a married man/woman? are you breaking up with him or not? for me i will break-up him because many person are affected like their children...i dont want to be a cause of a broken family...i will find a girl who is single and i love...
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5 responses
@s2a2n2 (1732)
• India
5 Apr 08
hmm.. you are correct. but sometimes it may not be possible
• Indonesia
5 Apr 08
It may not possible. I agree w/u..it's not that easy..moreover, if it happens accidently... I ever experience it..it hurts, and it's not easy to erase him in my head. but i don't need to worry. now I have got someone new..
• United States
6 Apr 08
I would break up with him, if he is cheating on his wife w/ me what makes me think he wont do the same to me later on? I had dated a man that had been seperated, he didnt tell me till we went to Ca. to visit his son and he tell me "oh by the way I'm not actually divorced yet". He told me he was "in the process" and I told him as long as there is still a marriage there is still a chance for him to get back w/ her and I was out of that, not sure if I was more upset that he had lied or he was married, either way, If I cant trust the one I'm with there is no reason to be there.
@mememama (3076)
• United States
6 Apr 08
I'd break up with him. But-I have dated a married man, but he was legally separated and in the process of going through a divorce. He did get divorced finally, and then we broke up lol. Perfect timing! But if a person is lying about their marital status, what else could they lie about?
• India
5 Apr 08
Yeah definetely break-up with him, coz if he lied then about his own marraige, then he wud lie again. I wud definetely not go on with that kind of relationship. And yeah i wud not want to b d cause to break-up afamily, but with a person like that breaking up wud happen eventually.
@luckycat (220)
• Bolivia
5 Apr 08
Well.I will break up without hesitation.I really don't want to hurt others.hurt a family.But if a person have a family he still find the others.That proves he is a bad guy.I will never fall in love with a guy like that