Do You Want to be Rich and why?

You're welcome. I am glad that I could help you out a little bit. That isn't right that women leave you just because of money. It takes more than money to have love and respect for one another in a relationship. I work seven days a week online so it is easy for me to work with Mylot as well. It isn't important to be rich, I just want to live comfortably and survive without having to struggle all of the time and do without alot of things.

Hi steph, thanks again for commenting. I will work hard at finding true love and not just focus so much on trying to be rich ;) .. good luck in your work and hope to see you more in mylot, most definitely .. ;)

Hi steph, I salute you for still being able to concentrate and commit yourself to mylot despite being busy working 7 days a week. I honestly respect your opinion and think that to be having lots of $ is truly an added bonus in life. It is definitely not a necessity thanks for enlightening me on this topic. But I do wonder at times when women left me because during the time I wasn't having a stable job, they said that they need me to be having lots of $$$ to be more secured. And they chose guys that have $$$ more than me. So, that was why I was wondering how important it is to be rich in life, and whether even your relationship(s) depend much on it. Thanks for your time in answer my discussion, really appreciate it so much..

Hello ruby, I thank you for giving an answer the best you know and truthfully from your heart. I agree that our core being is the most important thing and that being rich with $ is just an added factor to it. It is like a good incentive to be having lots of money but it definitely is not the MOST important thing in life. Thanks for your answer..

Well Zed its my honest opinion....all the dollars in the world wont equal happiness....

You are absolutely right, my dear friend ..

Hi bro, haha I love your idea of being "rich"...I want to be rich and anonymous as well and not have to worry about paying this and that...let's hope for the best in our financial status then...thanks a lot for responding ;)

I also want to do a lot of things in life :( .. let's pray for our success in financial situations and other aspects in life too.. Thanks for responding..

I think there's a fine line there that you have described which I really like so much; being rich and living comfortably... Thanks winterose for your input ;)

Thanks clowdine .. I think you are absolutely right that people tend to forget themselves and get big-headed after getting rich. I've seen it happening to a lot of people surrounding my life .. and I pray that I will not succumb to that someday should I get rich..

I like Mylot. I don't prejudge people. I like to talk to international community to see different perspective in life. I was lucky to talk to people from all over the world. Sharing knowledge and opinion is always good for your mind and personal growth. You can use whatever you want in your blog...:)

First of all, let me read again. You have a Doctorate Degree.........??? WOW, AMAZING...seriously. For someone as intelligent as that, you are still mingling here in mylot, I have that much respect for you. And a bilingual one at that. I hope you don't mind me asking, why do you surround yourself with mylot?? Just to know the reason. You are super-intelligent and it's certainly refreshing to know someone like you willing to join in a forum site like this and share your experiences. Don't get me wrong yeah, I just would like to see your answer on this. I like that quote: Money is just an illusion of power, WOW!! Can I take that and use it on my blog?? . I'd like to borrow the quote and make something out of it. You are certainly knowledgeable and I'm going to put a mental note to take a look at your other discussions, ha! Take care and have a good remaining there..not sure what the time is though.

Thank you, gorgeous. Your wiseness is really awesome and I like conversing to your type of person. It is good to be open-minded and worldly. We must know about others' perspectives, cultures and religion so we will be more broad-minded and more civilized and at the same time respect one another. Thanks again, hon. :)-

Thank you for your kind words :)

You are so much welcome ;)

Thanks for your response, I think you are a very honorable person, to have that kind of mindset to be "secured" in life so that you could offer a hand in help to your kids should they end up in dire straits someday. I think that it's great to have extra money for saving in times like these, which I call "rainy days". It is not hurtful to get rich, but hopefully we know how to make full use of it, or rather, make full use of saving it for difficult days down the road. And I totally 100% agree with you that money does not buy you happiness. In fact, money just play a role in developing your happiness, but at the end of the day, it's "us" that shape ourselves to be happy. Thanks again and have a nice day ;)

I agree zed! I am always trying my luck in any way! but, I don know if I am destined to be rich! hahahaha...I wish but as long as I will not do anything bad to commit it!Happy posting!

Hmmmm, I like your answer here, my friend. Being rich tend to be a great bonus to us all and I wouldn't put it aside should I become rich overnight, ha! Thanks for your participation.

Thanks, drannhh, I love the avatar in your page by the way ;) ...I think you are truly right in saying that it's better not to dream for excess, because it doesn't mean that things will be fulfilled once you have too much $$. Perhaps people are influenced by the life of celebrities and the likes who are rich and have lots of money. They probably look happy and leading a very rich and satisfying life from the tabloids, but I think that in real life, they are probably none too happy and have their own set of problems. So I get the answer that being rich is simply not the main solution and that money couldn't really buy happiness in a whim. Perhaps just to please someone, get whatever materialistic things that you want. But like you said, money cannot buy good physical health and good moral behavior. Love your answer, thank you ;)

Hi there, thanks for answering my discussion first of all. I support what you said. Should I have lots of money to spend like say in excess of a million and more, I would be dumb-founded and would be very confused in how to carefully spend it. The most that I have during a paid bonus is 6k and I spent it all in a whim. I regretted it now and should I have known it earlier, I would have saved it all. That was during my 3 years back on when I was a bit non too mature. If I have that kind of bonus pay-out now, I would definitely either invest a part of it, donate more and save more. Thanks for your answer, really appreciate it so much ;)

I think you are very spot-on and I like your answer very much. Thanks for your honest and concise answer. Come to think of it, I wouldn't want to be too rich as well, but rich is perhaps fine by me?? Not sure why, but I think I would be more secure with lots of money, but then again, I might "forget" being myself and tend to get big-headed in life. I think you sum up pretty well; as long as we are debt-free should be more than enough and to be able to support our family and living well with whatever added $$ that we might make in the process of living. Just nice, in the middle of things to be more grounded in life. Good answer there, truly appreciated ;)

Hello bro, thanks for responding to my discussion. I think you are right up to a point. I wouldn't mind being rich if my fate is like that and my efforts do not go to waste and I become rich suddenly. I would want to help other people too and it would be such a great idea. I think it is great to be rich and to help people, truly agree with you...thanks again bro ;)

That's great; I love traveling as well and would love to go long-distance riding, backpacking and many more adventure stuffs. I just love doing outdoor activities and this coming June, me and my friends plan to go skydiving somewhere. That's a whole load of fun. And yes, I agree that we need money to do all these hobbies and activities, and it would be a plus point to be rich in that sense.

WOW!! That's certainly interesting, I must say. Good luck in your journey, my friend.

And like you too,I am also going to go on a high altitude trek this month only; So,a lot of snow boarding and views are awaiting me big time too!

Good answer here, sweetie. I like it pretty much.

Thank you for your comments I agree with all you said, yes there are days that make me the richest person in the world and it is just being alive and knowing my god is there and he is watching over me, and he allowed me to live all this time after my heart attack. That is truly the richness in life we need.

That's great, bdugas. We are all here to make ends meet, so to speak and though there are some days that for instance myself struggle to pay off this and that, there are some days that I feel duly rich. And I'm really thankful to God for that. For giving me a sense of strength to go on everyday in this life, even if I'm left with a few pennies. The beauty of life that is and on some days, I truly feel very rich; not just in terms of money-wise like when I get my paycheck, but that's when I'm filled with great friends like you and the rest here in mylot and to spend quality time with my family. Most of my friends outside I don't get the chance to spend that much quality time unless we go riding and talk in coffee-house and stuff like that. Therefore, I love my "rich" life right now pretty much and will not trade it for anything else. Take care and thanks for your response. I just feel like rambling tonight, don't know why, ha!

LOL, I agree, hon. A little richness won't do us harm, eh? -smiles-

I like being rich as well and I'm working towards it, but I hope I will not "forget" myself should I become one ..

And thank you so much for responding ;) ..I truly appreciate it ..

LOL bro, you have typed out a very honest and refreshing comment here and I like it pretty much. It is hard to be rich but some people do get lucky. I think it's best to just take things as it comes and if we become rich overnight, then it's great. If not, then it's best to just be an average Joe earning an average income. I'm more than happy as long as there's air to breathe and a bit of money to spend. -smiles- Have a great day and thanks for responding yeah.

Hello there Raia. Mind me asking, what kind of business are you doing currently..? Just curious. Back to the topic. I totally agree that rich is subjective and there are other elements of richness that we can fil in our lives. I'm glad that you have found your 'richness' and I wish you happy for as long as you live. Thanks and take care...