Loneliness

Loneliness is a strange thing that can happen to anyone.. even your frenz or bf or family members is just beside u, u still can feel lonely.. Wat matters most is to do something that u like, and the empty feeling inside u will be gone, because u are enjoying yourself ^_^ Like me, if i feel lonely, i will go for a run, along with the breeze and scenery ^_^ It just makes me forget my loneliness, at least for a while.. hehe

loneliness sometimes gets me down but i always cheer myself up with laughter , i always laugh at things that probaly people find offensive , or if not laughter than i go on the web and try to make some money online that way i know that today i made some money ima dollar richer than i was yesterday lol ..

yes I used to get lonely, so I got a computer and opened myself self up to the internet and stopped my loneliness. I could never live without the internet anymore.

very rarely i must say. actually sometimes i like to be lonely. i like to keep to myself.i think your loneliness is very much evident and justified.if loneliness strike me, i would better take refuge into books i like. hope you cheer up soon.

Hi,everyone has his/her loneliness ,and nobody can properly deal with it ,because I think it's nomal for our human-being ,we always think about friendship and those time when we feel happy .When you feel lonely ,I think you'd better change your mind and don;t think about it ,and focus your attention upon other things ,such as your favirate sports or music or just get out for a walk .I'm not sure weather my advice can help you to drive it away ,but wish you happy .

Play video Games.. If I felt alone ie.. the daily schedule is so hectic that I get not time to think I'm alone.. but sometimes I feel so lonely that I just want to get out .. and that what i do.. get on the bike and hit the road... stay out for say 2-3 hrs not matter what hour of the day or night.. I always have my best friends at a calls distance and just need to make to call to meet them.. I lost my girlfriend in a terrible accident an year ago.. for few days I though I would be all alone, but it turns out that the more u try to be alone, there are always the wrong type of people ready to give you company... So i just got away from them.. did things I liked.. like reading, listening to music, writing, sports.. then I realised that being alone is just a feeling.. just a thought.. a state of mind.. we just have to get the better of it and get away from that thought..

Before I used to live alone and made no close friends. You know, the type of friends that hang out with you everyday, I don't have that kind of friends. I used to eat alone, shop alone, watch movie alone, things like that. I feel not lonely of being alone actually but there really are times that you get to feel lonely out of nothing (but not because I'm all alone). But the next day, it would just slip my system away. I feel good the next day right away. The moment I feel like I'm lonely and start thinking of getting involve with some people, I say [i]"this will pass by, I won't get bored tomorrow." So it all matters to my way of thinking.

I am in no ways coming down on you on this. But until you have lost a spouse as I have, your loneliness you feel right now is nothing. At least your boyfriend is coming back. To lose a spouse is terrible. You not only lose him/her, but along with that, you lose a lot of the friends you both had! Why? lord only knows! I can only put it down to it being that as you are now single, these friends you had, now see you as a threat to their marriage! which is utter nonsense! I have seen this pattern not only when my husband passed, but when my dad passed too. My mother sat without the friends she has when my dad was alive. Strange but true! I got over the loneliness by doing volunteer work. I was lucky enough to still have two couples that stuck by me after my husbands passing, and two friends that were already divorced when he passed...that still are friends, but they have new men in their lives, and so I dont get to spend time with them as often as we used to when they were single. The internet is also my saviour! I met people over 5 years ago on a spiritual site, that to this day, I still chat to.

First I would go cry and get that over with, because sometimes crying makes you feel better. Then I would put a great movie on that I like, pop some popcorn and just sit a watch a movie.

We all are haunted by lonliness and worthlessness of life at some point or the other in life.And it happens the most when you love someone a lot and you have no choice but to stay away from him because of the difference in time.You feel that you have not got anyone who can understand you or the way you feel.You don't feel like talking about it too to anyone cos you think they won't understand and it's something which you can't make people understand till the time they go through this themselves.I will say enjoying time on your own and keeping yourself busy will help you a lot with this.Appreciating the fact that you have something which is far more beautiful than the pain you're feeling right now and not cribbing about what you don't have will help too.

dear friend dont feel bad iam a person who never falls in love and hate love gossips but i have a message for you be happy all the time there should be a great smile on ur face the smile should never end.see in this whole world no one is free of problems . but they face it. facing problems is a great victory to the heart .ok. even if u think about problem its bad to ur health. so be happy all the time.