This is the second time she has bothered me!

Yes, I don't mind giving her a piece of my mind, I just don't want my star rating to fall. I've already had a falling star here on mylot, and now I want it to raise back up to it's rightful 10!! I always rate people positively, but you could guess I rated her negative today, lol.

I wasn't really bothered by what she had said to me, it just annoyed me that she interupted my discussion with her problem towards me. She could have just commented on the discussion that I responded to, but no, she had to bombard my own discussions. I think it was very childish of her, especially when I was only giving another mylot member advice as to what he should do. He didn't have to take action of it, that was his own choice. I only heard his side of the story, not hers, but if she had posted her side of the story, than maybe I would have had a different opinion, but she didn't. She just simply told me that I shouldn't be giving advice about something without knowing both sides of the story. Well, give me the other half of the story! I'm not a mind reader, I can't figure it out for myself. If we got the second side of every story here on MyLot, we would be here forever figuring things out, and solving mysteries. I worked with what I had, and if that offended her, I'm sorry, but it was simply my own opinion, and what I would have done if put in the same situation. Thank you for your response, I understand where you are coming from, but I still think she is childish for what she did.

Well, she did it after they had already broken up, and that wasn't my doing. She just told me that I shouldn't be giving people advice without knowing both sides of the story. She is fairly new to mylot, which I see you are too, and we obviously can't get both sides all the time and have to work with what we have. She is old enough to know that, and if she didn't, she definitly should now.

I think she may not be on your friends list and bombarding your disscussions was the only way to talk to you. You realize you can not send someone a private message unless you are on there list. That was probably the only way to talk to you.

Haha, I love your response. Thank you! I really shouldn't let it bother me, I just don't want her spamming up my discussions and rating me negatively and all that mumbo jumbo. I am working hard to raise my rating here on MyLot, back up to a 10, and I don't want someone to rate me negatively just because I gave their boyfriend or ex-boyfriend some advice that he was asking for.

I hear ya..I was reading some of her responses in a thread and she's a pc of work to say the least..I'd just blow it off..She's in need of a heavy dose of Thorazine and some serious help

I am sure that if someone on here was filling your loved ones head with things you would not appreciate it. I think that she should just hear the girls take on things and make a true opinion. Isn't that the type of person you would want to be. Hear everything then make a opinion. For example: President Clinton. He insisted that he had no s e xual relations with Monica Lewinski. But on her side of the story they did. Monica said she was extremly hurt by him saying "I had no s e xual relations with THAT WOMAN". But now that we all know both sides we all can make a better opinion. I realize its an extreme example. But I am trying to make a point. These two people may have lost the love of there lives. I say hear out both sides. If the girl is right then write the guy recanting your opinion or suggestion. Tell him he just messed up. Or if you hear both sides and the girl is wrong tell that you stick with your original decission.

Well thank you for responding, and even doing a little investigating! I plan to report her, although I don't know exactly what that will do, because she could always just create a new account, and harrass me some more. Oh blah, I will have to ignore her.

I really have no idea why people are so childish. It makes me want to grab them by the shoulders and shake them. I have to deal with this high school nonsense at work, why should I have to deal with it here on MyLot, where I look for a good time and nice people? Oh well, I guess I can't really do much but ignore her. Thank you.

I don't have her on my friends list, and her ex-boyfriend now has decided to leave mylot. It isn't harrassment, because I never mentioned the girls name at all. If other people hunt down the discussion and read it, that's not my fault, I didn't even state which discussion it was. So no, this isn't harrasment, this was merely a discussion asking what I should do, or what other people would do in the same situation.

Actually, her boyfriend asked for our advice here on MyLot. He told how she apparently cheated on him, or something like that, and she was clarifying that I shouldn't be giving advice until I know the whole story, instead of just his side. I personally think she needs to remember that this is MyLot, and when someone posts a discussion, people are going to respond whether there is another side of the story or not. I didn't flirt with him, and thanks for saying that you doubted it! They ended up breaking up, so I don't understand why she cares so much, unless of course he broke up with her and she's not taking it too lightly!

Not all women are like that, and whoever told you that they are is completely wrong. It goes the same way for men too. Every person is different, it's not just gender specific. I happen to be a women, and yes, I may go around complaining, but my man does too, lol.