No of Children
By longbangod
@longbangod (1785)
Philippines
April 13, 2008 1:49am CST
I am wondering how many children do you want to have to have a happy family. Are you having your dream? The number of boys and girls you have in your family?
I could say mine is enough already. I have four kids, 2 boys and 2 girls so I think its a perfect pair already.
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14 responses
@liquorice (3887)
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14 Apr 08
Ideally I would like three, I don't mind the genders. So far I have one daughter and she is just perfect, so even if I don't manage to have any more I'm so happy and grateful that I have her!
@Latina84 (25)
• Puerto Rico
13 Apr 08
Well when I was a kid I always said I wanted 2 girls and 2 boys but now that I have 2 boys I feel that I don't want no more kids. Even though maybe in the future I will. But for now is a big no no. Also did you notice any difference between the girls and boys behavior, cause I love my boys but they totally behave bad and they are just 2 years and 11 months and they fight for everything. I ask you these cause they have told me girls behave better then boys and that they don't give much to do when they are babies is this true.
@longbangod (1785)
• Philippines
14 Apr 08
Yes, as I observed there are really differences on their behaviour. Girls are more matured than boys and are of course more refined. Boys just take things easy and normally fight with each other. But its normal, kids do fighting at early age but when they grow older, they will become more responsible also in everything around them.
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
13 Apr 08
Wow that seems nice, i wud love 2 have 2 byz n 2 gurls, but i dont think my body can take that, though im still young, i already have a boy and im gonna wait for my second and thats it.....probably i wud adopt one more....
@longbangod (1785)
• Philippines
13 Apr 08
If it will be given to you, you can carry it with God's blessings. I'm glad to hear about your plans for adoption, I'm happy for those little babies who will be given a chance for a brighter future when adopted by good and responsible people.
@ganga472007 (624)
• India
13 Apr 08
Like you, I wished to have two boys and two girls for me. But I have one daughter and a son. Both of them got married. So I treat my son-in-law and my daughter-in-law as additons to my desire.
@longbangod (1785)
• Philippines
13 Apr 08
Good idea. Now you got four. And soon will be blessed with cute and healthy grandchildren.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
13 Apr 08
i am married for 5 years now and we have a two years old son. i am 34 now so i think one is enough. my wife is older than me she is 37 and she said that our son is enough too. we started old so we cant really have more kids even if we want to.
@longbangod (1785)
• Philippines
13 Apr 08
Thats okay, whatever God has given us is this time is something that we must be grateful to. Gender and number doesnt really matter, what is important is we are given a very rare and wonderful gift, and thats our kids.
@longbangod (1785)
• Philippines
13 Apr 08
So 3 boys is completely enough for you. No more chance. But you must be happy also, you are the only rose among the 4 thorns.
Though I would suggest, you may adopt a baby girl soon...that way you are giving one soul an opportunity to have a better life with you.
@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
14 Apr 08
We have a blended family with a total of eight children...yes you read that right, 8 children... There are 5 boys and 3 girls. I'll try to break this down as simply as possible...he had 2 children, 1 boy one girl, I had 3 children, 2 girls one boy, we had three more children together all boys.
I can honestly say that I would have liked one more girl just because he and I don't have a girl together. But our 3 boys are great so I'm satisfied.
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
19 Apr 08
i want to have a twins. 2 sets of twins would do for me but if i can't have twins, the no. of children that i want would be at least 2-3 only
@jstaubin (423)
• United States
14 Apr 08
When I started having kids I wanted to have a boy and a girl. I was blessed with two boys. But that I am not going to try for my girl. You see I had my boys prematurely and I don't want to put another baby through that. But do not get me wrong I love my two boys and I now I don't want anymore children. I think over time what I thaught would be the perfect family has changed. The one I have is perfect for me.
@ayessa (1583)
• Philippines
14 Apr 08
I have one girl and one stepson. For me happiness of family life does not depend on number of children. It's on the kind of relationship you had among family members. My husband and I are not that well off so we both agreed to stop there. Our concentration is on investing in the future our children. If ever we have enough finances and we can afford to raise a child we wanted to add another 2 kids but due to financial difficulty we stop from having a baby. Even though we are still happy.
@rickysltan (64)
• Malaysia
20 Apr 08
I would always say that having 2 children, a boy and a girl would be the best case scenario for me. So far, i only have a 3 year old daughter and looking forward to have another child and hopefully is a boy.
The only thing i fear going through is during those first few years of raising therm where lots of attention, with tender love and caring is required and sometimes does really tire me down.