Attracted to not so attractive men?
By smints8985
@smints8985 (1594)
United States
April 13, 2008 9:23am CST
Do you sometimes notice that you somewhat develop a liking on someone who's not really the ideal type of person to actually have a crush on?
Other people would be attracted to the hunky guys that have well built bodies and really handsome looking while you develop this attraction with a guy who really is obviously less than perfect? Physically speaking he could have not so nice skin, a beer belly perhaps and when it comes to attitude, he is the type to confront people and do these things to others that they would somewhat feel offensive. But despite these qualities have you ever found yourself still getting attracted to a less than perfect person and not so attractive person?
3 responses
@ladysakurax (1161)
• Canada
13 Apr 08
yes. I was attracted before for someone who wasn't really appealing when I was in high school. But he was a nice person and funny. I think it doesn't have to be all the perfect guy because it doesn't exists. I think each person is attracted to a specific charisma. Tastes and the way of thinking differ from 1 person to another.
@smints8985 (1594)
• United States
13 Apr 08
Yes I agree that different people have different tastes, and someone who you find attractive may not be attractive to somebody else. And yeah I also agree that most often than not, it is because of a certain charisma that the person possess that is why we find ourselves interested in them though for other people they aren't very pleasing at all.
@smints8985 (1594)
• United States
13 Apr 08
Hmm.... I don't know about the smell as you are saying.
I have heard before that if a woman sees her father's likeness in a guy then she is more likely to be attracted to that person, but I have never heard of the smell thing.
@tigerdragon (4297)
• Philippines
14 Apr 08
it is ironic but the most attractive people are the so called less attractive because they possess the most natural personality unlike the beautiful ones who are so full of themselves and at times they are empty inside.
