smints8985

@smints8985 (1594)

United States • Age 39

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Can it just be Friendship??

arunkrishnan005 @arunkrishnan005 (262) • India 7 Jun 10

I have seen many many boy having friendship with girls.But in the end they become lovers or something else.how can all think like this in their life? I dont think boys and girls can just be friends in life.they can just be casual...

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smints8985 I still believe a man and woman can still be just friends. Just like a guy can have another guy for his best friend, and a girl can have another girl for her best friend, I think the same thing applies to a girl having a guy as her best pal and the other way...

8 Jun 10

Do you plan everything beforehand or do you do things on the spur of the moment?

kiran8 @kiran8 (15348) • Mangalore, India 7 Jun 10

There are some people who never do things without planning things well in advance, beit going for a movie or eating out or even simple things like going for shopping or buying groceries.One of my neighbor has a fixed day for doing...

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smints8985 I like to have major things planned and lined up as to get an idea of how things are going to happen throughout a trip for example, I prefer to have an itinerary of things that we'll be doing, this helps me plan on what to bring for each day of the trip. But...

8 Jun 10

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Do you put perfume at night before bedtime/sleeping?

neelianoscet @neelianoscet (9615) • Philippines 2 Jun 10

My friend always have the ritual to put perfumes on herself, clothes or spray perfume on her bed or has perfume spray all over the room. She does it to be always smelled well. In case her partner visits or not she always does it....

putting perfume before bedtime

putting perfume before sleep

smell fine

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smints8985 No, I don't. To begin with, I'm not a perfume person, as long as it doesn't smell foul, normal human scent is good enough for me. Occasionally I would use body mist, but it's not a habit of mine to put on any fragrance really. I think some people are just...

3 Jun 10

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Parental Jealousy

elfbwillow @elfbwillow (307) 2 Jun 10

On opening this discussion I want to point out firstly that there is no parental jealousy at all within our little family though recently I have come across a few different situations in which I have seen this happen. When I...

children

jealousy

parents

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smints8985 I believe each and every person faces their own issues in life. And at the bottom of each issue that we have involves only ourselves. Being content with what we have and do not have would be the best way to live our lives. It'll be easier to share our...

3 Jun 10

why are girls so emotional?

edbase @edbase (9) 3 Jun 10

i admit to myself that i am a very emotional person specially when it is about my family. i always cry when i have problems. but one time i think about crying is not the best solution to my problems. so because of that, i start...

emotional

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smints8985 All humans bear emotions, it's just that we express our emotions in different ways. When sad, some people cry to release the emotion while some people opt to do fun things to occupy their minds. Crying is an outlet, of joy, pain or sorrow. It is never a...

3 Jun 10

Never been Jealous before now....

jgbe4245 @jgbe4245 (56) • United States 5 Jul 09

Yes I am a typical woman I have recently been told. I am happily married so this comes as a shock to me. My sister recently became single and she and my ex have been talking a lot almost every day. She talked about him...

jealous woman

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smints8985 I guess that feeling is pretty normal. I remember the times when there was this guy who liked me but I never really liked him more than a friend, he of course gives me special attention and sends me messages everyday. And though I did not like him...

5 Jul 09

If you met someone online, would you consider meeting them in real life?

mssnow @mssnow (9484) • United States 1 Jul 09

Just for the record, Yes, I have met someone on line that i really care for. Of course we are still new and learning about each other so there will be a long time before we meet if we ever do. Yes, I know about all the dangers...

internet

real life

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smints8985 I have met someone in person whom I first got to know online. We are not in contact anymore right now though, it's been years ago. I don't know if I should consider that experience as a good one or not, he wanted to be more than friends after that first...

5 Jul 09

How to deal with perverts

smints8985 @smints8985 (1594) • United States 20 Nov 08

If somebody/a stranger touches you indecently, how would you react? Would you keep silent or start a commotion, starting with a whack to his head? Share your experiences...

indecent

maniac

perverts

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smints8985 It happened to me once while taking the bus, the thing was I found myself dumb founded because I didn't expect something like that, I wasn't able to react violently actually, which I regret. I felt ashamed to make a scene inside the bus. That guy was such a...

20 Nov 08

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Stressed because of a co-worker

smints8985 @smints8985 (1594) • United States 20 Nov 08

How do you deal with a co-worker who almost does nothing at the office and likes to ask people to do her work for her? Aside from chatting or playing music she does other personal stuff that has nothing to do with her job. Uses...

office supplies

printing

problem

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smints8985 I so feel that we share the same situation... the difference is that I am senior to her, though we're not on the same department I am extremely affected by her acts. She even asks the person from my department to do things for her when in fact her work load in...

20 Nov 08

How to deal with perverts

smints8985 @smints8985 (1594) • United States 20 Nov 08

If somebody/a stranger touches you indecently, how would you react? Would you keep silent or start a commotion, starting with a whack to his head? Share your experiences...

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What kind of problem you facing during work ?

dominichan @dominichan (302) • Malaysia 19 Nov 08

what kind of problem you facing during work ? how you deal with it?

problem

work

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smints8985 Problems with the boss, with the work ethics of co-workers and a whole lot more...

20 Nov 08

Stressed because of a co-worker

smints8985 @smints8985 (1594) • United States 20 Nov 08

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smints8985 The thing is we are a small company, by small I mean 7 employees. And I have nothing against her personally, we're friends.. the thing is that I am seriously bothered these past few days because she is going overboard. I'm just really having issues with her...

20 Nov 08

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Stressed because of a co-worker

smints8985 @smints8985 (1594) • United States 20 Nov 08

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For soon-to-be-wed couples in the Philippines!

smints8985 @smints8985 (1594) • United States 24 Apr 08

For all the couples out there, we will be at the Rockwell tent this weekend, April 26 and 27 for the "POWER WEDDINGS" bridal fair. Be sure to drop by and visit our booth, Geronimo Photographico, we are situated at the corner...

what if?

stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 4 Apr 08

What if the one you truly loved never knew you loved them? Yet you still had some kind of contact with them? Although you have changed significantly. Would you try? Would you let them know?Is it worth the rejection? What if you...

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smints8985 If we happen to both be single then I do not see anything wrong with it, though it has been quite some time ago, you never know what could possibly happen. People change through time, and what was kind of impossible before may not be as impossible in the...

22 Apr 08

A stranger knocks on your door & asks to use the toilet, would you let them?

gemini_rose @gemini_rose (16264) 21 Apr 08

The stranger looks friendly and seems friendly and also looks in absolute desperate need of the toilet,they are doing the wee wee dance and they are really apologetic at having to disturb you and ask to use it but there is no...

the stranger needs the toilet

wee wee dance

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smints8985 Hmmm... I would probably have to trust my instincts on this one, there are people who look really innocent and I guess they give out a certain aura as to those who seem to have ulterior motives. If the persons seems mysterious then I would have to decline...

22 Apr 08

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If you were given a capital money to start up a business what would it be?

smints8985 @smints8985 (1594) • United States 19 Apr 08

What kind of business would you start up if ever you have some money to invest? My aunt is planning to sell their old home and use the money to start up a family business, we are now trying to figure out what business to go into,...

business

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When they turn the lights out, do you think it's time to leave?

desertdarlene @desertdarlene (8910) • United States 18 Apr 08

I work at a library and we often turn down or turn off some of the lights when we are just a few minutes from closing. You'd think people would get the hint? No! Some will continue to look for books in the dark! And, when you tell...

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smints8985 I haven't but at work I am usually the last to get up from my desk for lunch and after work, so this co-worker of mine would keep nagging me and he would usually be standing near the light switch and turn the lights off so that I would get up from my desk...

19 Apr 08

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