Making friends.
By whiteheron
@whiteheron (4222)
United States
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@subin_loyolite (262)
• India
14 Apr 08
A friend should ATLEAST possess the following 10 qualities..
1. A friend is trustworthy. If you cannot trust someone, then they are not your friend.
2. A friend is genuinely interested in what you have to say. If someone has to pretend that they are listening most of the time, then they are not your friend.
3. A friend hurts when you are hurting. If someone takes pleasure in your pain, then they are not your friend.
4. A friend takes time out for you. If they are never there, then they are not your friend.
5. A friend tells you what you need to hear, not just what you want to hear.
6. A friend respects your personal space. If they are more interested in a physical relationship than they are your comfort, they are not your friends.
7. A friend does not pressure you. If you are constantlybeing badgered into doing things that you do not want to do, then you are not among friends.
8. A friend will volunteer to help, withoutbeing asked. If you constantly have to ask for a hand from a person, they are not your friend.
9.A friend challenges you. If you are not growing, then you are not among friends.
10.A friend accepts you as you are. If someone is trying to change you into something that you are not, they are not your friend.
Conversely, if you do not do those things for someone, then you are not their friend.Friends care and they show that they care by supporting each other's basic needs.
REMEMBER THAT YOU HAVE TO BE A FRIEND TO HAVE FRIENDS
@whiteheron (4222)
• United States
14 Apr 08
This is a good sharing with much truth in it... Thanks!
@subin_loyolite (262)
• India
15 Apr 08
Welcome.. :-)
FRIEND=Few
Relationships
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Earth that
Never
Die
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