I don't know what to do...please help

Hello my dear friend. I do not know about how come you have this kind of situation, but I have to say that my wife has the same case sometimes, but only during her monthly. So I can understand her as this is her special period of life each month, though she is not always like this. Anyway, I wish you to come back to your usual days so that you will always enjoy your life together. Thanks for asking us for help, ayessa.

Do you feel this everyday or only some days. Some times women face harmonal changes and get irritated easily. If that is not the case try searching your mind....did any act of his hurt you or any past memory in your subconcious mind is making you do this. If nothing works, visit your parents place for a few days. When you return everything will be normal. May be you are tired of everyday routine and your frustrations are comming out on your husband. Try talking to him. May be he would be able to help you.

hey ayessa what i want to say is be clear of what your doing and what you want to do and other way can be a change of mood its beter you go on a holiday ,then disturbaces in you even might be due to harmonal changes in he body and it takes some time for the body to adjust towards to it....

hello ayessa, sorry to hear bout your situation. have you checked if you are pregnant? dont get me wrong some girls who behave in such a way do have some mood swings due to the hormones changing i am not sure but maybe ONE of the possible reason is that. some girls have down moment as well and that is just normal thing, you just have to talk to your husband and be truthful about your feelings. communication is very important. if you need space, then go tell him you need to spend some time with your self only. maybe try to write whatever you feel in a paper (you can or cannot send it) just a way to ease your feelings as it helps a lot. sometimes there are issues deeper than what we thought and we are just afraid to admit it. i said this coz it happens to me and i have to really faced the TRUTH and nothing but the TRUTH to feel better inside. when i feel the same as you did, my husband talk to me and though i am afraid to open and and he irritates the hell out of me, i have no choice but to tell him what's inside me coz i dont want the relationship to suffer. he is a wonderful man and he dont deserve such treatment. all i can tell is, talk to him and it is best to work things out TOGETHER and not just by yourself, you are ONE now and it is important that you have such an open relationship. anyway, i wish you all the best and hope things are much better now and just think of the wonderful times you guys have or simple just have a break from each other. takecare and bless your heart!

I am not married but I think I know what might help. Maybe you should spend a little time away from him. Give yourself a little time to miss him and you'll appreciate him much more. Try going to a close girl-friend or family member's home for a weekend. I almost guarentee that after that weekend has passed you been very anxious to see and hug him :-)

omg i do the same thing ill get mad at my boyfriend for stupid stuff and not even know why at times u kno...but u just got to remember guys cant read our minds at all....and i am working on the way i do that...i get angery easy and i had it..so im working very hard on not doing that no more...but u just got to tlk to him thats the only way to make it better

actually im also like that before, almost 4 months but suddenly i know that im pregnant that is the reason why i make my self like a stupid that make a trouble of him, he understand me that time , then become we have more sweetness when we both know that im pregnant, maybe you to my friend.

just try to avoid him so that you dont end up saying things that will hurt him, then find a quiet place, relax, meditate and try to find reasons for your action, after that try to picture yourself being nice to him again, think it, wish it, dream it and get back to him, try to let him know that you were just being stressed up or if you found the reason for your actions then let him know.

just take easy. it is ture that sometimes we need some private space. u will feel stupid when ur husband is around i believe just because u love him, just take easy give youself a priod of time to relax then have a good communication with ur husband.

Sounds like menopause ask to have your "front room" out and go on HRT, women can be nasty during that time of the month without realising it, sorry no offence intended :(

sounds familiar to me the situation. Did you have checked on your family doctor? some women felt that way if they are pregnant. they are irritated when they saw their husband's face. Maybe your pregnant if you do not know what's the reason why got easily angry to your husband.

HI there. Maybe you just need some time off for yourself first so that you can really release any tension that you are feeling. After that, maybe you can talk to your husband and tell him what is bothering you so that he can understand it as well.

I think you need some time off, time to relax. Take a break and do things that you enjoy. We all need space even if we are married or involved in a realtionship. You are stressed out and you should talk with your husband and tell him calmly you need an hour or so just for yourslef to gather your thoughts and just figure out why you are feeling like this. Don't feel stupid for trying to bring back the romance between the two. Just take it slowly,step by step ,start with some of the little things you used to do . You'll manage it!

leave him alone.that's it.. either you live happy together or you just go to divorce. that's it...

Does this happen all the time or is it at certain times of the month? You might be suffering from depression or you could have PMS. It could also be that you are overwhelmed by something that has nothing to do with your husband. Take some time and go over if anything has changed in your life. It could also be that you want a little romantic time, like a dinner and a movie and he has not offered for some time. That is all I can think of. Hope any of this helps.

Hi ayessa, You are going through a difficult time for some reason, maybe you are just not feeling well. Why not see your family doctor. This sort of thing happens sometimes in a marriage, hopefully you will feel better soon. Blessings.

Hi! Maybe your relationship had relaxed that you missed those days you enjoyed, chase each other, etc. Maybe you had experienced the sweet treatment of your husband towards other women that made you jealous. Such jealousy can make you furious seeing him or be annoyed hearing his voice. Rewind the day and scenes in your life that started your madness or became furious at him. It is our thoughts followed by negative emotions that made us unhappy.

i really dont understand why you feel "stupid when he is around" has he said or done things to belittle you? treated you poorly in some way? if he has, it would be the perfect explanation of why youre feeling such pent up anger and annoyances. if this is the case.. you need to talk with him, openly and honestly, and explain why you feel the way you do. more than likely, as is with most marriages, it is a miscommunication someplace, and can be worked out. but not if you continue to keep silent. that will only compound the problem causing more of a distance between you, and allowing your animosity to fester and turn to a poison. talk to him

first off it is hard to give you an answer without knowing how you are truly feeling inside and how you became this way around him? But i have experienced this before with my ex-wife we came to a point in our lives that we thought we were happy with each other and because we loved each other we only ignored it and it caused us to be further away and ended in divorce. All i can tell you is you have to think of yourself for you to work through this tell him how you feel and ask him to allow you the time to figure this out before you just ignore it and hope it goes away Because it won't. Go to a place somewhere away from any place that will remind you two of a time together and just talk about it in an unfamiliar area so you dont mix the mood with the past. But before you do that you need to write down the pros and the cons in your relationship and your happiness and have him do the same. You may find out that you both are feeling the same thing except he may be stronger in keeping it from you.best of luck and keep us informed on how things work out

Sometimes I get that way with my husband. He'll ask me whats wrong with me and I can't answer him, because I don't know whats wrong with me, and I get all emotional and stuff, I can't talk to him, cause I just start crying, and he don't like me crying. I just figured it is probably my hormones, like PMS. I'm on a certain birth control, so I don't have my periods anymore, but I still get the PMS thing. I know when I start feeling that way, then its that time. Maybe thats what is going on with you, its just hormones. Are you like that with him all the time? Sometimes I just have to go somewhere by myself, go shopping or something..I'm sorry not to be of too much help, thats just what I've experienced...Good Luck