Should I Kill Him ?

Just forget it man. It is over. just go on in your life. Let it go. so what, a girl left you. it is not a big deal. there are many girls out there looking for a guy like you. come on man. finish your college and start a fresh new life. you can do it. Instead of letting you down it can make you stronger. you have my best wishes and good look in exams.

you are not the only one in this situation...millions of people the world over have been through what you've been through and have come out of it to emerge stronger and wiser. You're only 23...this is shortlived...let her move on...don't contact her...she isn't worth it anyway. Work on your skills and strengths and try to be successful in life. Success brings along money, power and females...lol Besides, console yourself by thinking that in a few years she'll probably get married and become fat and ugly while you'll still be youthful and dashing.

This Girl is too good in her markup of fooling you around with her emotional, maybe she's even confused by her emotional concern. --Or probably she had a problem with her mental condition. I suggest you to retreat for awhile. Take a break. Forget everything about her. Go concentrate with your exam. Think about yourself, because this one is more important, it's your life. This girl don't care if you are going to entry or failed in the exams, furthermore she's not your wife, she's just a candidate of your wife. Your path is still long, why bother about it. Why choose the difficult one while you still have a chance to choose, the ease way, the other better girl. Choose the most important stuff to do, then settle with the others after it's done. Why thinking about her, she never thinks you for awhile for that 12 days. Is it worthy so, fair enough, you always think about her after what had she done for that 12 days? Grow up! Don't let the obsession takes control of You!

Killing him is deffinantly not an option. Life is all about learning from different relationships and moving on and applying what you learned to the next relationship. At this point in your life, youre ex should be the least of your worries. You should be focusing on your future and how to express yourself better in your writing. If you can't express yourself in writing, how can you expect anyone to take you seriously in a relationship. I guarantee this will help you immensely.

Maybe you really love her trully and deeply.But think that she treats you it is not vorth your love towards her.So let her go out of your mind and life.Start a new life.For fresher of society career is the most important thing for you.That is mainly the girl"s fault.If you kill the guy you are also be fallen into the hell.Do you think it worth it. Maybe you are not most care about the girl but her treat.You think you lose the esteem.Lose face before your friends.If you just endulged into revenge just for face that is no worth. So please refresh.Make your blue-plans for your own future.Only yourself can cherish you. Oh! Poor guy God bless you.

Hi there! You seem to have gone through a lot of hurt recently with the situation you talk about. You seem like the kind of guy who simply wants a bit of respect - to be told the truth even if it hurts. There's nothing wrong with that. However, I think you need to take a step back and look at the situation, then break it down into segments to make sense of it all. a) you met this guy through your ex and were mutual friends b) she told you outright when her feelings towards you changed c) your relationship did eventually end partially because you pressured her with questions about her being in love with someone else d) after your relationship ended she slept with someone else Now consider this 1) relationships end because some people grow apart due to simply growing up amongst other reasons 2) your ex was possibly telling the truth when you asked her if she loved him...you don't have to be in love with someone else to fall out of love with the one you're with 3) she didn't technically cheat on you if the relationship had ended - though it's understandable to be upset with the mutual friend. There are just some lines you don't cross So looking at that have a visualise about 5 years from now...will either of these people actually be in your life or even matter to you then. You could have met someone else, have a smashing job and could even be settled married with a family. You won't give all this a second thought...so killing someone is a heat of the moment crazy idea you need to put to the back of your mind. I'm 28 and at 23 had the worst boss who deliberately made my life hell - my husband gave me the advice I have just given you and he was so right. I can't even remember her name! Hope this helps

Again, my two cents'. The one reason why I got over my first deep obsession that I thought was "love" was that it was taken away from me and that I had no other recourse but to accept the fact that God had wanted someone better for me. The road was hard. It took me two years to get over that man because he had cared about me. I took out my hatred and rage in blogging, in school, and in trying to read the Bible. I am thankful that God was so kind indeed, that He answers those who cry to Him and honors those who seek Him with a knowledge of Him. I was told that I was facing mountains in my path. I only had to seek Him and to obey Him all the more. It was hard. So painful. But two years after that heartbreak, God gave me a man who loves truly, and in ways I had never even dreamed of. It is going to be a long, hard and painful road. But seek God. Seek prayers. If you get weak, then watch HappySlip!! http://www.happyslip.com One thing that I could say was really instrumental to my healing was journalling my pain and my journey. Eventually, the pain just eased out. Also.... FORGIVE. It takes one sentence. "I forgive them both for the pain they caused me, in Jesus' name." :) It is hard to deal with, but God is with you. Just call to Him. :)

Do you think if you kill a person you are going to be very proud? whio ever has cheated you will get punishment for the work they did. killing is not at all acceptablde. i know there are many cases like this, but don't you think that world is insane like this? what will you achieve after killing a person? reward,love?-no. you will get hatred,punishment and all.

Have you considered that maybe she was using you to gain admission? You did not help her with her school assignments, did you? And now that she has gotten what she wanted, she ditched you and is now going with someone else behind your back, who may be as soon as he is too busy to study himself, will ditch him. This girl sounds like a vampire. She is no good. Do not kill the other guy, she will do the same to him as she did to you. You are well rid of her. Concentrate on your studies and you will meet a more deserving young lady.

I think it is good it happen now she can get out of your life, She is no good for you. The door is open now for you to find some good girl to share in your future. You think about study and pass the exams. One day you will look back and think " Thank God I am not with her any more because now I have the most wonderful person with me now". So let it go I think there future will be screwed up and you will have happiness and success with some one else who will not hurt you, But give you all the respect in the world. Good luck on your future!

Do you want to die yourself? If you want to die, then go ahead and splutter some bullets. Why don't you step back? You are already 23 and you are not exactly a kid anymore. Let's put it this way, do you think their lives are worth more than yours? By killing, you are saying that you are no better than them. So take a step back, take this as a lesson and move on. Live well and live better than them.

No you can not kill him. It takes 2 to tango. Your relationship with this girl did not work out. I know it hurts but the fact is that if she loved you, she would not have been with this guy or any other guy. it is kind of a double hurt because this guy also happened to be your "friend". A real friend would not have gone after your girl so he is not much of a friend to you any more than she was much of a girlfriend to you. I think you should focus on your studies and forget about both of them. Would you even want her back after all this? There are other people more deserving of your time and friendship.

So... she slept with him AFTER your relationship had ended? Well, lets put it this way. IMAGINE IT WAS THE OTHER WAY ROUND If he'd been in a relationship with her first, but she became uninterested and felt she didn't like him any more... Then she met you. You were attracted to each other immensely and then she told her boyfriend of 2 years that she didn't love him any more. He pressured her about you, and she felt guilty and she felt sorry for her feelings, but she was glad she hadn't done anything before they'd broken up, but she really needed to be with the other boy or her heart would break. Then the other boy still couldn't get over her, so she felt she had to get away, and you two escaped away. But she still felt guilty even though the relationship was over in HER mind. Because she still cares about him even if she doesn't love him. And then she tells him in her guilt and despair. Imagine you were her... Think about it rationally. She told you that she didn't love you any more. After that point, you had informally borken up. In my opinion, from there she and him could've done whatever. If she didn't something after there she wasn't cheating on you! If you kill him, you would have no future, plus she would be heartbroken, never forgive you and she may not ever get over it! Don't lose your own life over them!

Mate, It is natural as you were not with her for quite a period and it is again natural for her to find some liking in someone else. Women generally like Men who give importance to them, listen to them with patience and pampered a lot. Obviously, you are unable to provide her time as you are occupied with your family which is totally natural. You are doing nothing incorrect. Perhaps you should talk to her and emphasize that she is as important as your family is to you. Ensure she understands that she will also be a part of this family sometime later in future (If at all you folks are serious about this relationship). Tell her soon you will find a way to balance between her and the family

There is absolutely no excuse for killing another human being. I don't know if it is the cultural differences between you and I, if this is acceptable where you come from, but I found this discussion, and you asked for suggestions, so here's what I have to say. Don't do it, it's not worthit. Let it go, and MOVE On!!

Absolutely! And while you're at it kill her too. Then kill both their parents and kill your family too for raising such a miserable idiot. Honestly! Can you see how silly this is??? If not perhaps you should go to gaol...maybe when you're there you will GROW UP!

Get het otta ur head for some days and concentrate on your exams and ur future, that would help you become sucessful. Then you could make your own life. You caould have many more relationships and hopefllly you'll find some1 who loves you. And killing is not the optioon, you cant get her, and you could end up in jail, instead of making a future, you will just spoil it. So take ur mind off her, that feeling will eventually wear down. Do more activities outside and do a combined study with frendz, try to get her outaa ur mind as much as possible...

no i would not kill him what does that really solve but trouble you dont need it you have your whole future a head of you and it takes 2 so she is the fault also

pls no dont kill him bcs my be she is not the right person for you in life and dont think dat the guy is cheating on you pls try and organise self to this exam and the thak GOD for tha bcs he has even save you from problems pray hard bcs god loves you.

Now you should have to forgot her and concentrate ab't your career, by the passing of the time you make yourself too busy to divert your mind from that girl.. and enjoy your life....