carolluvyou

@carolluvyou (460)

United States • Age 53

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Don't believe in love

gemmoney87 @gemmoney87 (211) • Vietnam 6 Apr 09

At this moment, I don't believe in love. Let's I tell you why. The first time I seriously fall in love with a guy. He's good person, at least that what I think about him. At that time, I just 18 years old and naive in love. I was...

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carolluvyou Not all guys are the same. There are some guys that are good ones and there are some guys that are bad ones. Its just you got to get to know someone before jumping into a relationship and moving so far away and getting into a relationship slowly.

7 Apr 09

With or without make up?

Niah @Niah1976 (739) • Paranaque, Philippines 6 Apr 09

Are you prettier when you have make up? I really envy those girls who look so pretty with make up. Because I don't look good with it. I don't evevn wear lipstick. I tried diffferent brands and shades but its still the same. So I...

make up

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carolluvyou I wear makeup sometimes and sometimes it gives you a confidence boost wearing it. And maybe you think you don't look good in it but maybe other people do. Because sometimes I don't even think I look good with or without it but other people say I look really...

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I was watching that!

TLChimes @TLChimes (4822) • United States 6 Apr 09

Do you always know how much time has passed between here and there? My mother would fall asleep while watching tv. 3 shows later, one of us kids would move to change the channel and would hear "I was watchin' that!" Or you...

busy night

no rest sleep

tv parent

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carolluvyou I know that we all sat around as a family to watch a movie and then the bf fell asleep during it and it gets frustrating when you try to watch a movie together when the other person falls asleep when we were supposed to be watching a movie together as a...

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Saying Goodbye...

miamilady @miamilady (4910) • United States 6 Apr 09

Sometimes the oddest things will bring me into a contemplative melancholy. This happened to me this morning. My children will be waking up soon. We just had the first "wake up" and then back to sleep, but that never lasts...

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carolluvyou You know things aren't forever, they are there for awhile to entertain. You just have to accept that nothing goes on forever and things will change. Trust me, I don't like changes either but its something I have accepted that its just life. Its not easy.

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Too many writers, not enough words

talker96 @talker96 (154) • United States 6 Apr 09

Do you feel like you're writing words that no one reads? I write for a living. Sad but true. It is because of this that I have decided to vent on Mylot, so I apologize in advance if I offend you, but I need to get this out. Is the...

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carolluvyou I agree!! I have been a freelance writer for just about 10 years and it burns my butt when I see or hear people claim to be great writers and have made about a $1.50 in their entire 'career.' An ex boyfriend of mine used to claim to be this big prolific...

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he doesn't like what i cook!

maissj @maissj (111) • Philippines 6 Apr 09

what will you do if your husband/partner does not like what you cook? you see, i am a stay at home mom with one child, and usually i would lovingly cook food for him so that when he gets home the dinner's all done, but sometimes...

cooking

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carolluvyou Make him some meals that you can freeze and he can just heat up when he doesnt like what you cook. Or mix some of what he likes with some of what you like to cook and you can gradually get him to eat your cooking. Or better yet, make him cook once in a while...

6 Apr 09

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Limewire...Is it safe?

miamilady @miamilady (4910) • United States 5 Apr 09

My kids have been dowloading music off of limewire. I've heard different opinions about limewire. Some say it's fine. Others say it opens you up to the risk of viruses. The way I understand it, limewire is a music "sharing"...

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carolluvyou Anything off the Internet is risky for getting a virus, whether you upload or download to your computer. I've had limewire on my computer for a long while now. Yes I have had some viruses come up but I use an antivirus called advest and its free download and...

6 Apr 09

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I need your input please!

kriiistenn123 @kriiistenn123 (43) • United States 6 Apr 09

I am becoming discouraged. I am one of those people who tries to get the most out of life, but I feel like I'm stuck in one place. I go to college, and college life is the same things over and over again each day. I recently spoke...

questions and answers

school

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carolluvyou No money doesnt matter but unfortunately you need it to survive. And if its something you really want to do to better your life then you should do what makes you happy.

6 Apr 09

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What would you do if your partner didn't care about your feelings?

carolluvyou @carolluvyou (460) • United States 3 Apr 09

What would you do if you told your partner over and over how you feel and that because how things have changed, how unhappy its made you. But you really care about him, would you just deal with it if they are not considering your...

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carolluvyou You are absolutely right! I am trying to leave where its not a bad situation. Because every time i talk to him and tell him its over he starts getting really cranky and moody with me.

6 Apr 09

What did you do before the cell phone?

carolluvyou @carolluvyou (460) • United States 3 Apr 09

Everyone I see texts like crazy, talks on their cell phones and generally has some piece of electronic device attached or near their person. How did we live without them? How did we get dates or tell a boy we liked him? How did we...

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Music

carolluvyou @carolluvyou (460) • United States 3 Apr 09

How does listening to music make you feel? When everything is ok in my life, I love to listen to music. It lifts my spirits up, and makes me be in a good mood. But if I was sad, listening to music, it would just make me think and...

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true friends vs fake friends

carolluvyou @carolluvyou (460) • United States 3 Apr 09

Would you call a true friend that lies to you and talks behind your back a real good friend or would you call a friend you can talk to and listen to them and be there and not tell the world everything you talk about a true friend?...

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What if your partner farted all the time?

carolluvyou @carolluvyou (460) • United States 3 Apr 09

No matter where we are or who's around, my friend seems to think farting is fun. But I know the smell sure isn't fun. I am thinking he's got some gas problems and needs gas-x. I don't know someone can fart as much as much as his...

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What would you do if your partner didn't care about your feelings?

carolluvyou @carolluvyou (460) • United States 3 Apr 09

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If you smoke are you going to quit now because of the new cig tax?

moneymommy @moneymommy (3418) • United States 2 Apr 09

I know a lot of areas of the country a pack of cigarettes are now $10.00 that is just crazy. I refuse to pay that much for cigarettes how about you? I wanted to quit anyways but this will surely give me more motivation to quit....

cigarette tax

cigarettes

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carolluvyou People should quit smoking for their health and not because of the price of smokes, although that is a good reason to attempt to quit.

3 Apr 09

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We had a blizzard last weekend.

Heather Echola @GardenGerty (161816) • United States 2 Apr 09

The heavy snow started around noon on Friday. I finished up errands etc. at work. They had kept all of our clients at their houses, because of the wind and weather threat. By 1:30 they closed the offices. This was probably the...

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carolluvyou We love in the Northeast so this is a regular occurance here during the winter season. There have been a couple of years that everything was closed down and the roads were so bad we have to walk and push cars. But that part was fun - we got to meet people we...

3 Apr 09

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should you still date your husband

lorraine27 @lorraine27 (271) 2 Apr 09

hi my husband and i dont get to spend must time together and he works and i a full time student but still working part time. i dont get alot of time to myself as i do all the house work and food shoping. by the time my husband...

dating

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carolluvyou I love to date my husband!! We date more now than before we got married!! lol We have three kids, two dogs, two jobs and I go to school fulltime but we always make sure we have a time for just us. Whether we go to breakfast at the diner for less than $20 or to...

3 Apr 09

What do you do when your spouse is gone for a few days?

JABeau59 @JABeau59 (446) • United States 2 Apr 09

I feel kind of lost. My husband I are both retired and usually spend a lot of time together. He has gone to visit his mother for her birthday. She lives in another state and he will be gone for a few days. I couldn't go with him...

gone

husband

love

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carolluvyou Its understandable that you dont like for him to be gone for so many days after being used to him being there. But also if you are unable to go, you can understand his point to, to see his family. As long as he's not pushing away, saying you can't go and stuff...

3 Apr 09

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